New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in July, 2011, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (25), 2 (15), 3 (29), 4 (31), 5 (39), 6 (26), 7 (14), 8 (12), 9 (21), 10 (10),
11 (19), 12 (34), 13 (23), 14 (22), 15 (26), 16 (18), 17 (16), 18 (27), 19 (31), 20 (11),
21 (22), 22 (26), 23 (21), 24 (13), 25 (37), 26 (17), 27 (19), 28 (21), 29 (19), 30 (18),
31 (13),

Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

His mother doesn't approve of me and I can't wait forever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. I want to get married. He is egyptian muslim and i am white muslim. His mother is racist and hates british girls (muslim or not). He is very close to her as his father died at a young age and she ...

I don't feel like I turn him on the way I used to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years. The relationship is amazing and the sex is just as great. I know its normal for the amount of sex a couple has to decrease over time. I still want it more often and have always wanted it more ...

Do you think he is having second thoughts about marrying me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I'm a bit confused. About 5 months ago I was talking to my boyfriend of 10 months about our future and he didn't say much at all in response. I took this to mean that he wasn't interested in anything other than being boyfriend/girlfriend and just ...

We've been online dating for 2 years but have never met in person once....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - How long is too long for a no-contact LDR? When I say no contact, I mean no physical contact. At all. We've been 'dating' online for over 2 years and through that whole time we've never met in person once. I've tried, I've made trips to see him...

We fight over silly things and I am totally lost in this relationship..please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I spent the night at my boyfriends house and we had a great time. This morinig he calls me to wake me up instead of walking up the stairs to wake me. I got pissed at this because he could have just walked up and said hey I'm leaving in 15 min. I got ...

Cheated on husband with his brother, he left but now is back and we had sex again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - okay 3 years ago my brother in law came to live with my husband and I, well 5 months into him living with us, my bil and I starting having feeling (which we addressed) and then a sexual relationship. my husband at the time was in jail for fdomestic ...

It was supposed to be our time, but he had ended up having to work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

31 July 2011 (?) - I have to admit I am a little annoyed just now. Me and my bf booked our annual leave some time ago and it started yesterday, two weeks. He broke his leg some 6 weeks ago and has been off work since, but it worked out that he needed to go back to ...

How come she has a new guy in her life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of 4.5 years split up abaout 2 months ago. We have a 1 yr old son and we started working it out. Things were going good untell she started being mean. Then we didn't talk much for about a week and then I found out she was ...

The day before he told me he loved me, now nothing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I have been in a very toxic, deluded relationship, but got over the guy and started a thing with someone else. A sweet, loving and caring man. Sometimes we had fights, but in general everything was ok. For about 1,5 year. We talked about getting ...

My boyfriend's mother ---

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Thank you for all advice. I'm 33, my boyfriend is 34. Both my parents are living he has a mom and a drug dealer slash user bro. My boyfriends dad past away a year ago. My boyfriend n I live with my son who is 11, we have dated 3 yrs now. Before h...

I took him back, but I don't love him anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I've been with my husband going on 12yrs. this Aug. we been married going on 9yr. we have 4 little boys. what i need is a mans view,we were arguing a lot but nothing serious,or so i thought,well he left me for a girl who ive never met ,but he was ...

I'm all for being in a healthy relationship and having our own lives, but I don't even see where ours mesh anymore.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and a half, and we're not connecting these days. Ever since graduating this past spring and moving 1-2 hours away from each other (1hr by car, 2+ by train), it's been difficult to spend time ...

I'm left emotionally and physically starved

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Hi, please, I desperately need help! My boyfriend/partner of several years is driving me sexually and emotionally insane! We live together for 2 and a half years now but things arent good. When or if we row he wont speak to me or let me speak to him ...

Is this normal behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Is it normal behavior for your boyfriend to leave as soon as you are confrontational/negative because he doesn't want to waste a "second of his life arguing"? By leaving, I mean literally walking out the house and not returning 10-12 hours late...

My best friend and lover made me feel like a used condom.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I've posted here before and gotten such great advice, words that truly helped me with the problems in my life. Recovering from a breakup I met a boy in one of my classes. Immediately I could tell he was attracted to me, and...

How do I stop my brother from becoming like our abusive father?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Our parents are divorced and my brother (13) visits our dad for twice a month. I don't see him but he is having a negative effect on my brother. He is becoming sexist and says things like men should slap women if they disobey them. (this is what my ...

My ex came back into my life, who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - torn between two lovers, whom do i chose? dear cupid, i have been in a relationship for 4yrs, and last year our love was on the rocks, and in the mist of our arguments and misunderstanding i met a guy and i realy liked him and he fel the same too...

My boss broke up with his g/f and now he's treating me differently. I don't want things to change!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - hey, i'll try to keep this as brief as possible so i'm sorry if i go on a little bit. ^^' i'm 16 and i work as a secretary come assistant come general dogs body for my boss. we get along great, he treats me with respect and like a friend, which...

She's accusing me of cheating on her and being jealous of her male friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4869 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - I'm 19, been with my girlfriend who's 21, for 6 months now. All's been well up until recently. However, for the past few weeks, she's been accusing me of being jealous of her male friends. The irony? I'm not jealous, and I even get along we...

What's going on with my relationship?!? any ideas anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - Right so i gotta ask something, ive used the site before but never for anything concrete like this. So me and my girlfriend of 4 months have been really happy together. Its been really really good. around a month ago she had to go on holiday, she ...

He's cheated on me 5 times, constantly lies and disrespects me but he has my heart and I want him back....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid How can i get over a guy whom i've been with for over 2 years now who has cheated on me 5 times, who constantly lies to me, who disrespects me, who doesn't show any affection or that he cares, who ignores me, doesn't communicate whenever...

My sister and I have the worst relationship imaginable!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

30 July 2011 (?) - My sister and I have the worst relationship imaginable. We argue constantly and I'm not saying it's always her fault but she does bring on the majority of our fights. Ever since we were kids she's been a total control freak, everyone says I'...

How do I get my parents to accept me for who I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Ok. I'm 16 years old. Old enough to get piercings if I want them. My parents agreed that I could get a belly bar (I've been desperate for one since I was 12) and a cartilage piercing. I thought that what is known as an 'industrial' piercing was a c...

Have I wasted my time and energy with this guy....why did he change so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4869 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I'm really upset because i thought a guy i was friends with really liked me when we first met 2 years ago he showed a real interest in me, i liked him a lot and helped him through a lot of personal trauma, he was in a bad financial way and again i ...

This jealous woman made my life miserable either because she was interested in my BF or because she was not happy in her own life. Thoughts or similar experiences anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Ok so a while ago, my boyfriend started renting a room from a couple (a husband and wife) who were also living at the same property. Everything was fine at first, however things quickly started to go wrong. The couple own the property, the husband ...

How do I stop my new boyfriend losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - My new bf does not spend time with me. He always comes home late and goes to sleep. He does not have time to spend with me. How do I get his interest in me? Do you think oral sex would help to turn him on? Please advise....

What does "talk to you soon" mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - Hello When we started the letters we discussed because of the big distance (he lives in USA me in Europe) we make friends, and when he visit to my country we will meet...(he told me that he often comes to my country) Could you help me to decide wha...

My mom thinks that wet bath mats and talking loudly are deal breakers! How do I get her to accept my relationship with my fiance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I was so worried to tell my mom I got engaged to my boyfriend. We went back to my hometown to tell her in person and I was so relieved when she seemed to take the news well (ish) that I cried. But my partner went home a couple of days before me, and ...

Girlfriend has kept our relationship secret for a year. Should I be upset about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - My girlfriend doesn't want to tell her friends that we've been dating for a year because that would mean they would know that she's only been single for 2 months (she had just gotten out of a relationship). She's finally going to tell them that ...

20 year old straight employee got sexually involved with me, took money and favours from me, and now his wife is pregnant and he's changed his job. I feel terribly used, betrayed and hurt

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - OK, here's one that has to top it all. I am a boss, I met this straight man 20 years old. I am 50. This is so crazy that it is hard to believe it happened. At any rate, I told him about me, and when I did, he said, well anything is possible for ...

Bf doesn't like me talking to other guys. Is he right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4869 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 1 month. We've fought a lot about so many things. Our first year together, I had this one best friend that was a guy and my boyfriend told me to stop talking, so I did. A month later I talked to ...

I can't get these cruel words out of my head

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months and everything was going great however I did always feel a bit smothered, if I wanted to go out with my friends he ALWAYS wanted to come along. My ex boyfriend is an event ticket salesman and there we...

Should I feel like crap because I let him win? or do I ignore it and see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - My bf and I have been together for almost 4yrs now. I'm not even going to get into our history because it's been a long, exhausting, emotionally draining rollercoaster of him cheating, neglecting me, and just being a jerk in general. Lately, i...

Is it normal for a man in his forties to have a sex drive this high?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - Is it normal for men to have the same sex drive in their forties that they experienced in their twenties? I'm in my mid forties involved with a lovely woman who commented about my high sex drive and being very sexual, but not in a vulgar, ...

Depressed boyfriend now he has quit drinking and I'm not sure how to help him.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend recently quit drinking, about 2 weeks ago. Since then it’s been an up-down rollercoaster with him, and I just don’t know how to help him. He’s been depressed, irritable, overall moody. And since most of his friends drink, it’s been ...

Left my ex and got with a new guy, but now I miss my ex and have ended it with the new guy! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - So basically about 5 months ago I came out of a 2 and a 1/2 year relationship with someone called Adam, our relationship was one of those where then it is good, it is really good and when it is bad it is really bad. We had, had our ups and downs to ...

I am really hope we are not drifting apart...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I know i sound paranoid but..., its summer break and i miss the guy im with, we haven't been speaking as often,n i guess its because its summer break and hes got a guest at home but still... i just hope we're not drifting apart... hes also my best ...

How can I stop myself from falling in love with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - How can i stop myself from falling in love with my best friend? I'm freely bisexual and so is my best friend. Anyway, we have flirted a lot in the past but nothing had ever come of it. We have only known each other for like 6 months but we just cli...

It breaks my heart that he may not be over her and that he lied to me....What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Ive just found this page and I have a question that I need to find an answer to. I have been seeing this man for about five months. I do like him very much indeed and we have a great time together but the point is that our relationship is rather ...

Why has she gone so quiet? What is wrong with her? What shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - This is about the girl whom i love.. She is now abroad for study and for now she is having her exams.. The way of us being in contact is internet chatting or calls.. Regular calls is not possible. So just facebook mails and chat is the way. But now ...

I don't know why I am with her anymore! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - My gf had a past. she had her ex for 4 yrs. even after being in relationship with me, she cheated me behind my back.she used to enjoy with another guy who was attractive and was her college mate.I made her realise her mistake on time.Now when she ...

Love triangle with my two best friends.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I have two best friends. One's a girl, let's call her Mary, and ones a boy, let's call him Jack. Well Jack is dating Mary and what she doesn't know is is that I love him.. And That he loves me too. A couple weeks ago I told him I loved him and to my ...

If I get a job my child will suffer, if I don't I will suffer through lonliness! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi My husband is the only son of his over possesive mother.We are married 10 years but .My mil stays with me....who thinks herslef as Mrs.Perfect.Bcoz of her constant critisim I lost my cofidence .I took up a job...but she was not ready to take ca...

Should I keep waiting for my ex girlfriend to come around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - im just a guy, pretty confuzed about this situation. i knew this girl for 4 years, as soon as we met we became best friends for a year, then decided to date which lasted 2 years. we broke up because another girl who was jealous of our relationship ...

Why is she not dying to be with me, like I'm dying to be with her? Even if she doesn't want me, how can I be closer to my daughter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - Hi i have a big problem about my relationship, any one for honest advices?.I met my gf at work where we were colleagues together it was october 2009 when we started dating. Now i am in another job and she is still working there.I really love her so ...

Our families will never approve of our relationship but we cant live without each other! What should we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - I am a bengali brahmin and my bf is marwari. I am a student preparing for medical and belong to middle class family. N, my bf (two years older than me) has passed b.com with quite good marks. He has 5 jewellery shops of his own and has quite high ...

I feel that I'm taken for granted and undervalued. My boyfriend has all the benefits whilst I don't get the one promise that I want!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, please help! When i first met my bf he seemed so overwhelmed with love - as is typical i expect. Anyway over three years on, been living together for two +, he has waivered between talking like he wants to marry and have kids and acti...

I cant deal with the fact that my boyfriend of two years suddenly wants to break up with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Wednesday night my boyfriend of two years unexpectedly rang me up and asked if we could just be friends because he didn’t want to be in a relationship. I feel like someone ripped my heart out, I haven’t stopped crying since. I love him so much and...

Any advice on this situation? because I can't stop these tears from falling, but this isn't the first time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi. Well my boyfriend, who's my ex now, has been treating me terribly. We've been through so much, well i've been through so much with him 'til it doesn't matter what he do, i'll take him back. He has been caught cheating numerous of times, 5 times ...

I am faithful to my current Girl friend who means a lot to me. My ex just causes me grief and will not let me see our child. How can I stop my ex hurting us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - hi there im 25 years old. I broke up with my x. After she told me she was pregnant. I am with a new gf now who is 20 and we have been going out less then a year but were living together. i don't see the child because the times that my x gives me...