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Archived questions from: 1 July, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Pregnant by abusive BF who drinks every night and tried to get me to strip for his friends... but I love him and want to help him change

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been living together for 2 months now after 6 months of being together. The 6 months where incredible best 6 months of my life and he really and truly did treat me like a princess but ever since we started living together...

Is my bf being overprotective or just very caring? And should I stay with him even though my family & friends hate him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - My relationship with my boyfriend has been great. He is such a great guy and he is my first love. We have recently moved in together but since the move he has started becoming weird like becoming over protective and making excuses for me to stop in ...

Shall I give him the silent treatment after him not replying to my text?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

1 July 2011 (?) - I've been seeing this guy pretty regularly for the past 6 months now. We normally go out 2-4 times a week and text every day or so. Anyway, we last met on Mon and he said' we'd meet on Fri, late afternoon. Cool. So, I organized my chores and duties ...

He said not to call him, fine! But why does he keep calling me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I broke up we my boyfriend of a year. He's 36 I'm 19. We broke up because he didn't have time for me and he's not the into me no more. I pretty much annoyed him most of the time. I decided that I don't want to be with someone that would be mean to ...

We hardly spend anytime together and when we do we jump straight to sex..what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I started messing around with a guy in April, we started dating in May. It's been almost 2 months goin out with him. But when it all started everything was PERFECT and it was amazing. 3 weeks after we started goin out things started changing...

She has torn my family apart but will not speak to her family about our relationship!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

1 July 2011 (M) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-left-my-wife-for-her-and-now.html this is my previous post.... now to update a little... i have received 3 phone calls this week from ELF and she has finally told me her reasons for ending it: She d...

Should I just leave it now and wait? He is driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I met this guy Jake at the start of March this year. We got together on the night that we met and from then on he pretty much tried everything to get me. At first i was a bit standoffish because i had just been messed over by a previous guy. After a ...

I feel like I am sacrificing a lot and he is not having to sacrifice anything! Am I being selfish?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - In a long distance relationship for 2 years. When my fiancé and I got engaged we agreed that I would move to his city he has a son there from a previous relationship and I don’t have children. It would be reasonably easy for me to find a job there ...

I feel like I am a bad partner because I lack a sex drive!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - my last question was about shemale porn and my husband, and I had wonderful replies so I am back. my new issue is my lack in the bedroom. I got that one of the reasons that he watched (or is still watching, I don't know anymore) the shemale porn was ...

We both cheated on each other and now there are some serious trust issues!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 July 2011 (M) - I recently got back together with my baby's mamma. we have two daughters together 3yr and 6yr..Also she more or less is stepmother to my oldest from another relashionship. So were together 6 or 7 yr when I lost our house and she was left to take ...

My married lover now wants a threesome!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I have been in a "relationship" with a married man for 7 years. We see each other every now and again and really enjoy each other physically, emotionally and psychologically. He was always honest with regards to his status and that was fine with me. ...

Should I go to the cinema with my ex? I'm not sure I can do it again.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend dumped me cos he said he didn't want a relationship. He asked to be friends but I told him I can't be his friend cos I love him to much. He said ok and I deleted him off my phone. After 5weeks he rang me saying he's sorry for ev...

BF is lying to me and using my money!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - i became close friends with a guy 3 years ago and helped him loads, financially and wih work. hes always told white lies but thryve become black lies. for example 3 weeks ago he asked me to check his resume on his email and i did but also noticed ...

Have I scared him away with my behaviour? What should I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - Hello all I need some advice. I was seeing a man for 15 months when he ended it and told me that e cared for me but could not give me what I wanted. He told me that he wanted to stay friends. I have never stayed friends with and ex before and in...

I cant understand why he wants a break!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - hi, i am in a relationship with a divorcee. he is already divorced. since 5 years i have given him everything. all sought of support mentally, physically and he is satisfied with me. with passage of time he starts saying i want a break in this re...

She has let me back into her life a little, how do I get her back from here?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

1 July 2011 (M) - advice required. ive previously asked for help with the situation with my x the woman i loved. basically over the course of last 6/7 years ive constantly flirted, emailed, texted other women and messed around, never once have i done anything...

How can I stop cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - a few months ago i broke up with my boyfriend of two years because he wasnt giving me enough attention or spending any time with me and he also hadnt called in two weeks.even though i was hurt,during the time we werent together i met other guys and ...

I tried to be perfect for him but nothing seems to be enough.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - Ive been in a relationship with my bf for 7 yrs now. Well it has been rough for us this psst years and sometimes we argue almost everyday. I feel so tired of fighting with him. He always tells me that I have a very bad attitude. I don't know what ...

Does he just want to be with me again for sex? What is going on in his head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - How do I get over this guy? I've liked him since 6th grade and we just recently graduated from high school. He is also one of my best friends. We had dated for a month and a half this year. We even went to prom together. I was happy in the ...

We were together 5 years and he never wanted to move in with me, but now he is living with a girl he hardly knows!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - ok so me and my ex broke up 2 yrs ago.. We were together for 5 yrs.. We had a good relationship, we hardly ever fought.. Family loved me..everything was good so I thought he lost my trust I couldn't trust him so why be with someone u can't trust ...

He still hasn't kissed me! Should I carry on waiting or make the first move myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - okay so my bf and i have been dating for 2 months and we still havent kissed!! isnt that weird? anyway hes told me he wanted to many times but he knows im waiting for him to kiss me first and make the first move.. im just wondering if i should ...

I miss him but I can't forgive him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - So I have been friends with this guys for a few years. Then we started flirting and it went far. We talked about the flirting and what we thought about it and what we thought about dating each other. Then we made a deal if I would go to this...

Am I doing the right thing by cutting him off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I'll just jump right into it. I dated this guy. I completely fell head-over-heels for him. In a few short weeks I was infatuated with him. We dated for about a month and a half before breaking up for complicated reasons. He said he wanted m...

Why wont he take his profile down from an online dating site?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I just got back with my boyfriend and he is still on match.com. I know he is not active on there but his profile is posted and he is still a paying member. And women can contact him. You know last time we broke up he stayed posted on there too and ...

My f*** buddy is confusing me! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - Ok so in December my co worker introduced me to a guy that she used to date a while ago. we hung out on a few dates but one night he invited me over his house and we ended up f***ing. he told me that he wasn't ready nor had time for a relationship ...