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Archived questions from: 19 July, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Did he demonstrate that he will never be able to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - This is a 9 month journey of now would be horrid turmoil. I met a man online through a date site. He had divorced on his profile, mine separated. He mentioned his children, I mine. He mentioned non drinking, non smoking, no drugs. I as well. ...

Can you teach someone to communicate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - so right here it is in a nutshell. I have been dating this girl, she's apples, really a sweetheart, very very pretty, charming, the whole lot. problem is---she cannot communicate. when she is upset, she shuts down and wont talk. wont tell wh...

Boyfriend punching things because he couldn't find his wallet. Is this emotional abuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Hiya lovlies last weekend my bf and I planned a last minute roadtrip to his home town, he picked me up and we had to go to his place as he thought he left his wallet back at home. We got to his house, searched the whole place and could not find i...

My girlfriend gets emotional when talking about work, which irritates me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend will work herself up into a hurricane of emotions when talking about anything work related. These conversations are completely one-sided. I try to add to the conversation or ask questions on the topic at hand to try to stay engaged but ...

Did I do the right thing in letting my husband go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Husband and I shared 11 years before we married in 2000, giving us 21. He was a social butterfly always needing to be around people. For the past 18 years he did make all decisions, took control of everything, he was the type needing to be in ...

Is it domestic abuse if my husband yells at me? my kids and I get very upset by it.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - From the outside, my life seems perfect. I am in my late 30's and have been married for 15 plus years. My husband and myself have advanced degrees, demanding careers, and 2 beautiful children. I am just wondering if it is verbal abuse if my ...

She had sex with her ex and took her daughter with her and I am concerned about the child...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - My ex gf and I broke up 3 weeks ago.She has a 3 and a half year old daughter,which i took as my own,because ive been with her since she was born,she took me as her father. I helped her with everything,bought nappies etc,i supported her with ...

How do I get over wanting to compete with my straight-A girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - Hi there. So I've got a relationship problem. My girlfriend is a straight A student. She gets A's for all her subjects and this really gets to me because I am a B and C student. While I know my marks are good,it still gets to me. I turn it into a ...

I feel like he's bringing things he's seen in porn into our bedroom

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I'm getting concerned. I feel my boyfriends' porn viewing is coming into our bedroom. On one hand, we have this amazing sex life, but on the other, I am noticing more and more that its taking a LOT to get him off, if he does at all. He does not ...

Why does my BF go quiet after we have seen each other and are getting closer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Dear all, Please help. I have been seeing my bf for around four months. We have got closer than ever recently, but I have found that when we spend some nice quality time together and he is loving and caring, he throws a spanner in the works a f...

She said its over, so why does she want to remain in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend, who I'd been living with for the past three and a half years, broke up with me two and a half months ago due to problems we had been having. The sex had been more or less none existent for a year and a half (once a month on average)...

I think he was only after sex, but I still want to be friends with him! What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Hey, The other week this guy I've known for about 6 months contacted me on Facebook and asked if I wanted to hang with him. I said okay since he was pretty nice and I'd like to get to know him better but then he started asking me to have sex with...

My boyfriend is very insecure and thinks I'm going to leave him for someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, I have a very sweet and caring bf of 2 months. We've both had bad past relationships and after going through so much, we decided to be together. Everything's been great until recently. He's constantly insecure because many guys ...

Is there a nice way to tell a guy that I'm not interested in dating anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I have been sort of dating this guy for a bit over a month, I'm physically attracted to him but that's it. I've been away for Xmas break. He texts me every day. He seems to really like me but I don't feel the same way. Is there an easy way to let ...

I havent spoken to my boyfriend since May! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is ignoring me he actually went to the extent of blocking me from his facebook account he doesnt call nor txt nor email he is just silent we didnt break up he turn up when he make an appointment to see me and after all this im also rel...

My girlfriend falls asleep when I kiss her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - Whenever I kiss my Girlfriend, she starts sleeping. she says she does this in utter enjoyment and I am the best French kisser of the world. Doesn't this sound kinda weird? or every girl does this? I would appreciate if you people could say ...

Boyfriend ignored me for 3-4 months then wanted to discuss marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - l was in love with my boy friend for 8months and everything was well but he just started by making false appointments saying lm comming to see you but he never showed up and never gave any reasonable reason why he did so.all of a sudden he started ...

I'm worried about his lack of interests and goals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am having relationship problems, well obviously if I am asking for yalls opinions. I am in a relationship with a guy who is madly in love with me. Every girls dream right? Well wrong in my case. Don't get me wrong, I love him...

Can our daughter's possible health problem turn-off my wife's feelings for me and depress her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - Me and my wife married for 10 years, have two kids. Latelly we have observed that our 5 years old daughter have some socilal adoptive problem. She doesn't follow social rules. She doesn't like to play with kids, doesn't follow the reules in class. ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to care much about my feelings and always says that I'm "overreacting"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 1/2 years now. For the most part, it has been a long distance relationship, but we see each other every time we can and I am sure that he's faithful. The problem is that he doesn't seem to care much about my ...

My is ex is threatening to come to my house and take my son! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - so i just found out that my sons father is back! apparently his new girl just had his baby. he keeps saying he's gonna come see my son. he didnt want my baby he walked out when my son was 1mth old. he threatened me that he was going to take my son ...

Trapped in a sexless marriage for almost 20 years, wife won't have sex and won't say why she doesn't want to. Should I leave?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - I have been with my wife for almost 20 years now. We have had a sexless marriage for most of that time. We were arguing about it even just 1 year into the relationship. It's not that we never, ever have sex, but we go years in-between having i...

My best friend's husband is a jerk and she just doesn't see it!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, just want to thank u ahead of time for reading... Ok here we go.. There's 5 of us girls who we have been best friends since high school.. We've known each other since elementary.. But all of us got really close after high school.....

How can I reconnect with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I am willing to do whatever it takes to relate and understand the mind of my man. He has recently withdrawn, but doesnt ignore me, still seems interested. I am very curious to know how i am able to regnite or inspire emoctional attraction to ...

I did not make these things happen. But they do affect me. How do people deal with these family pressures?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - What would you think,if your whole life got attacked by really bad fate? My life history is so tragic, nobody would eve believe it. My brother killed himself years ago, than my sister got into heroin and overdosed. Than my boyfriend died i...

I'm 7 months pregnant. Can our marriage survive his continuing infidelity? Why an I not enough for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Can this marriage survive his continuing infidelity? i recently got married two months ago, me and my husband decided to after we found out i was pregnant im 7 months along now. we originally live in one arab country and had to get married in a ...

Is this best option? Am I wrong in now not wanting to attend my son's wedding after all the humiliation he has put me through?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I recently split up with my partner of 7 years. I've kept myself busy with preparations of my sons wedding in 2 weeks.It has stopped me from mourning my loss, and helped me fight the tears and pain that are tearing me up inside. I loved my partner ...

There's no spark. Can we save this relationship? Everything we try seems to not work

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - I could really do with some advice... My fiancee and I have been together for a year and 3 months and engaged nearly 7 and it feels as if the 'spark' has gone from our relationship. I suffer from Clinical Depression which has caused strain on...

What can I do? I have met a lovely new guy. But my ex still has a place in my heart, despite his cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I'm in love with my ex boyfriend who wants us to get back together. He cheated on me with Hookers but says he is still in love with me. I have met a new guy and he is lovely but my heart still longs for my ex. Can I truely trust my ex. again...

Is there something wrong with my mother?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

19 July 2011 (?) - Hey everyone, I have a issue with my mother......I'm 18 and I recently moved out. My mom is seriously crazy as in mentally ill and I'm trying to figure out what is wrong with her! hopefully you guys can help out and tell me what she has and if she ...

How do I deal with my bf's dad who controls his life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4yrs. It hasn't always been easy, but it's been worth it. Thing is, his father is very controlling of him. He's now 22 and his father still controls everything he does. He's not allowed to come out with my ...