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Archived questions from: 25 July, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Will he ever respect me or should I just move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Hi guys now i have been seeing my boyfriend for 17 months yesterday we got into an arguement and i called him immature and a wannabe because he made his female friend fall off a rope while she was walking on it and also turned her kayak and made her ...

My adult son has shunned me, because I moved away from the family! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - New to DC! Hello everyone. I'm a 56 year old female. Mom to three adult children.(2 kids are in their 30's and youngest is 20) I am divorced since 2000; currently in a long term relationship for 8 years. My current partner and I have always ...

How do I find a counselor in the UK?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - hey, how would you get referred to a pychologist or a counsellor in the UK, preferably without going to the doctors? Im 21 yrs old and have been depressed since i was about 12 years old and at times has been pretty bad. It went away but has come...

How do I tell my son that he will be seeing a father, he barely knows?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - First I would like to thank everyone for reading this. So here it goes, I just had found out that my kid's father was granted for an access to see him. I've been reluctant to agree with this due to my kids father hasn't been a father to my child. I ...

We had split up because he was not serious about our future as I was. Should I take him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I was talking to this guy for a year and a half. We weren't in a relationship and I was gone for school most of the time. We "liked" each other, flirted etc Eventually I told him to go away since this wasn't going anywhere. After that he says he ...

Problems with my ex...how do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I told my separated husband I'm pregnant. He still wanted to make it work. I asked him if he was sure. He said yes. We continue together for a month, within that time I took him to interviews he needed help with his car I help him get it fix. After ...

Telling my lover he can't come to my home..will make him angry! How do I deal with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I know I will be judged for what I am about to write, but I am just looking for open minded opinions. I am a 37 year old female, have been seeing a 39 year old married man. I was in a relationship myself (not married, but dated and lived together...

I hate my in-laws! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - OK. This question is for anyone who has in law problems. I can't stand my in laws!!! They have never been really nice people . I'd love it if we never had to see them again! But that's not an option. Despite the problems with them, my hubby won't ...

I'm pregnant and nearly married but my partner has changed;

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Well i have been with my partner for 3 years. ^ months ago we split up dor 6 months but he said he loved me and wanted me back. When we got back together all our previous problems seemed to have dispppeared and he proposed. Wedding is in 9 weeks and ...

Why was she sitting on his lap? is it all as innocent as he makes out or was he cheating again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Last year my husband finally told me the truth about what really happened when he was involved with another girl before we got married. We have been married 4 years, together 10 this year, and about 5 years ago he cheated on me with a coworker.. So ...

I didnt get any closure, why did he do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Has anyone else here ever felt this way ?. I was seeing a guy for two months, and he stopped contacting me in May. I am 27, and he is 50. The age gap didn't bother me though, and it didn't seem to bother him. The last time i had a night out with ...

How can I stop my lack of trust towards women and the fear of unknowingly raising another man's child from affecting my relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - Hi guys,something has been bothering me for a very long time and has affected my relationships with women big time! From an early age among friends and family members many have accidentaly discovered that one or two of the kids they were raising ...

My boyfriend earns more than me, should he pay for more once we buy a house together?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

25 July 2011 (?) - Hi. I have just had an interesting conversation with my colleague. I am about to buy a house with my bf of 18 months. He has fronted the 10% deposit for the house as he has managed to save really well over the last couple of years whereas I am c**p ...

Is she trying to shrug me off? Should I keep trying to contact her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - There was a girl who I thought we got along very very well for 7-8 months, then she became very very withdrawn and quiet. We haven't spoken for 3 weeks now, I was the last one to text her. We met 3 years ago in a few days time, had we still bee...

My sexuality is not up for debate, but one family member has said such awful things in front of my partner!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Am needing some advice, so hoping someone out there can help. I’m currently in a long term lesbian relationship. My partner and I are very happy together and moved in together about 4 months ago and things are still going well. Everyone in my ...

I cant stop calling and texting my boyfriend! How can I stop this madness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Dear all, Please help!! I am so clingy, and insecure that I keep calling and texting my new BF of five months. Sometimes up to five times a day, and it's starting to drive him mad, and he says he thinks I am keeping tabs on him. I am so so scared ...

Should I worry he might be losing interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Hi all, Out of the blue my man asked me if I was losing interest in him. Of course I told him I wasn't because I'm not, and asked him the same, he said not at all! Do you think I should be worried that he might be, or was he just feeling insecure ...

I hate not being able to sort this out right now! How should I play this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - How can I say sorry more than I already have? Ok lets cut a long story short: - -Been seeing this guys since March he lives about 2hrs from me and I am so in love with him its untrue -I still live with my ex as neither of us have anywhere else to...

I want the money I gave him back now I found out his debts are due to an ex! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - My parter is 40 and I am 27, we live together and everything is great relationship wise. However, my parter is broke. He is in debt to up to 30,000 and he is paying it back slowly. To make matters worse his income is very low so this will probably ...

I took the coat to her, so surely she should be the one to travel to return it to me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - I am hoping you could give me some objectivity here. You see my gf and I broke up a few months ago. It was an ugly break up. A lot of wounds. Still, there is anger and resentment on both sides. Now, while we were dating I lent her an expensive coa...

Pressure over lending money to my fiance, please help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - Hi, I need advice. Basically I am engaged (have been for a year now). I am working part time at my dad’s shop and generally trying to make money for the future. My girlfriend has been unemployed for about 2 years, she has tried her best to get a job ...

Trying to pass off another man's child as my husbands....Is this really such a big deal?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I have been married for 2 months, but pregnant with another man's baby. i dated by husband for 3 years, but he really treated me badly for a while. I fell pregant by him and he "forced", me to abort, which i regreted.I resorted to cheating on him ...

I am still desperate for him to love me, although I am not sure if he does. Any views on this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Hey. I posted a question relating to this a while back and it would take a while to rewrite concisely so please view this before reading: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-has-caused-this-outbreak-of-non-platonic.html Anyway... I still really l...

Girlfriend is accusing me of seducing other girls with eye contact! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend says I seduce every damn girl out there in shopping malls , market places and on streets using my dirty eye contacts and movements. Last night,while crying, she warned me if I couldn't get this stopped , she would dump. I talked t...

Are thee any feelings there or was it all an act? Where did I go wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - now i want you to know... my ex is bipolar. so confused someone help. my ex gf came over the other night and hung out with me when she got out of work. was a little past midnight and we ended up talking and hanging out till about 3:30 or 4....

Should I take a chance with my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - My ex that i lost my virginity to has contacted me through Facebook, it's been 8 years we were each others first we had a deep love and we had a horrible breakup. he hated me for a while but then last year over Facebook we would write statuses sbout ...

Boyfriend abruptly deleted his Facebook account and I'm suspicious.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - My LDR boyfriend abruptly deleted his facebook account yesterday and I think it's very weird. But maybe I'm just over-reacting ? He didn't even mention it during our conversation. Only later when I text him to ask did he text back that it was...

I don't want any drama but feel like I am being taken advantage of....

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - A man that I was seeing for 3 months has gone overseas. He has been gone for 4 months and I knew as soon as I started dating him that he would be leaving very soon to take this trip. We were crazy for each other so we went ahead and kept dating ...

My ex cheated on me with my best friend and now everything has turned upside down!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - dear users , this is actually a story can be made like a movie !!! ... i won't say much details but i will tell you the outlines and i want you to help me choosing the right way , 4 years ago i was committed to someone " a guy" we lived a great ...

Should I stay with my girlfriend? Leave her for my best guy friend? Date a different girl? Or go to college single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - So this is a bit of a sticky situation. Over a year ago, my best friend (turning 20 years old this December) was suicidal and I (just 18 this year) was her go to person. During one of her episodes she confessed that she couldn't be with the person ...

Did he just use me for sex? How do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - i broke up with my bf a couple months ago. we were together for about 4 years and things were starting to go sour... we tried to mend the relationship but it was too broken to go on. after the break, we kept it friendly, but i never stoped loving h...

Dating a new guy but my ex is back on the scene....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - so there was this guy i dated for almost 4 yrs, we were crazy in love and he meant the world to me,after 1 yr of being together i feel pregnant we were so happy life was perfect for us, when our daughter was born things were great, but she fell ...

Struggling to trust him and I don't know if this relationship can be saved......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for one year and 3 months. Recently I had to move back to my home province to get my life sorted out. Our whole plan was that we both get our lives sorted out and go back to school. After we're done school ...

He is still friends with the girl he cheated on me with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I am seeing someone who has slept with a girl he was sharing a house with when we were together but going through a bad stint. He didn't tell me I found out months later through someone else. She hates me but he has remained friends with her and ...

The passion that my GF had for sex, is dead and anytime I try get it back I get shot down. Suggestions anyone??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - so my lady is less and less interested in sex, she has never been one for foreplay and she hasnt let me get her to orgasm in just under a month and i am finding that my own self confidence is crashing because i feel like my gf is just going through ...

Where is she going with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - THE GOOD: Okay so me and this girl I'm into have hung out twice, alone. The first time was coincidental but we ended up spending 6 hours together. Then, I asked her if she wanted to do something together again and she said yes, so I took her out a...

How can I show her that I want to change and things can get better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

25 July 2011 (M) - Hi. I've seen a few questions on here, and I feel like you guys probably can help me.if not. Please try. My wife and I have been married for four years, but were dating since our sophmore year in highschool. All my life I've dealt with an anger...