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writes:I'm 18 and my boyfriend and i rarely go anywhere. We used to work together so i was all right with it because i got to talk to him and he would take me home and pick me up everyday.But i got laid off and he didn't. now he works 5 days a week and rarely has time for me.He does care. He tries to call me. and whenever i see him it feels like those couple of hours were perfect. but it still hurts not being able to see him.because i dont see him mon-fri. saturday he drives his mom everywhere. and sun he tries to hang out with me for like 2 hours. and then i have to wait another week just to spend time with him. i hate it. and dont know what to do. sometimes i feel like we should just break up.So can anyone help me? Give me some advise?I dont know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): i dont think you should break up because you know when your together its perfect. and when your not your wanting to be. he shows he feeels the same way by trying to call you. and he wont have that job forever and than he will start to spend more time with you. :) hope i helped!
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reader, Tizzie0612 +, writes (29 December 2010):
 I think you should ask him if he can clear more days for you at some point so you guys can be together longer. if not the best thing to do is work with the time you have until something opens up. there is no point on breaking up if it is not his fault he is busy..especially if it is a good relationship out side the fact of little time together.simply just talk to him about it and see what you guys can work out ..then just hang in there until things get better
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reader, beyondbeautiful +, writes (29 December 2010):
 well i feel like if you really love him that you should not break up with him and it is a very hard place to be on but i think that you should maybe voulnteere some where or get a part time job just some thing to keep ur mind off of him ocupied till you get called back . dont punish him for something he reallythat he has no choice over
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