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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Recently my boyfriend of three and a half years finished he turned into a different person and i dont understand how he turned out like this he is even neglecting our one and a half year old son and making up excuses to avoid seeing him, im heart broken and dunno why he turned out like this Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, petina1 +, writes (28 December 2010):
He is going thru his adolescent and viewing life differently now from the sounds of it.. I'ts still his duty to look after his son, so that in itself he should be made to step up to but he may have tired of you, because of the age you both got together, he may feel he is missing out on things. When children are involved and the parents are young, and inexperienced they will suffer. So to avoid this talk to him and ask him what input he intends for the child, not yourself at this point, but you need support with the child. Maybe if he's given space to do this, he may try to patch up your relationship.
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