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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend is a really good guy who treats me well but I hate the fact that he smokes so much (I don't smoke at all) I don't mind that he smokes with his friends or on occasion but he can't go one day without getting high. There were several instances where it really made me mad, once when I came over to hang out and he got high and fell asleep leaving me with nothing to do. I talked to him about it and he said he would cut down but he was too stoned to talk on the phone once when I really needed to talk to him. I find it really odd that he's so mature in all other aspects but this, he doesn't really let it interfere with his schoolwork or job, but it feels like he is choosing weed over me. He told me that he started smoking when he was depressed but he seems pretty happy right now, he practically told me he loved me. The people he lives with are stoners too so that doesn't help. I don't mid if he smokes occasionally but not when I'm there because i feel that its interfering with our relationship. Should I give him an ultimatum?
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reader, jacinta  +, writes (28 December 2010):
 yes,if its affecting ur relationship dis much u need to give him an ultimatum,eithr he gives it up altogetr r he doesnt do it around u or before ur due to spend time wit him etc, up to him den to c whats more important you or the weed!!if he continues to do it after this then id recommend u move on 4rm him and find sumone who puts you nd your relationship first,good luck.x
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