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writes:Hi im realy confused at the moment just need some advice off someone that isnt my family. so if you could read this and help i would be greatful.Here goes.....I've been together with my boyfriend for 10 yrs today we have two boys together under the age of three.We met at school but due to my dad being in the army me moved 140miles away, he came with me for 6 weeks and then we only seen each other every other fortnight. i then fell pregnant and had our first child and moved back to were he lived. we rented a house and it was great untill he lost his job, started dealing coke and doing it behind my back i was constantly going back to my mum and dad and staying there for up to 3wks he then changed got another job and all was back on track. We decided to try for another baby. He loved his weekend and sometimes i wouldnt see him for nights he would be around the corner at a mates house.I found out that i was pregnant and was happy and thought he was as it was planned untill i seen a message on my phone that hed been using to text one of his friends, "have you told her yet to rid of it cause you dont want to be tied down". i was so angry i packed my bags and moved to my mums. i got my own place and he came to see us every other weekend again. i started getting hastle from all my neighbours i got postnatal depression and he didnt support me in anyway apart from making this worse. i then got to the point that i couldnt take anymore and moved house but the rent is a bit to much so he agreed to pay the difference. the first month was due and he moned when i asked for the money every time i asked him for money he moaned. He came back on christmas eve then when back on monday to work, he says, i just find that hes not been telling me the truth lately like the way he was when he was on drugs. 10yrs we have been together today and i havent heard from him allday apart from when i rang him and he said hed just got back from work and was having a nap he said ill speak to you later. I love him but at the same time I can't stand him i cant talk to him everytime i try he buts in and its all about him. we dont have a sex life cause when we do i feel dirty cause its as if he comes to see me gets want he wants then goes. should i stay with him?? help..
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reader, lushloubylou +, writes (17 March 2011):
lushloubylou is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell as time has gone on he continued to be the same, i started to get more suspicions that he was on drugs. I have two family members that were addicted to heroin and one of them brought a baby into the worrld addicted to it. It was horrible to watch this tiny little baby being so ill when she was so innocent. Any way my boyfriend knows my views on heroin and anyone that takes it. i've just found out that he's been smoking it on and off now for 3hing yrs im so disgusted angree and disappointed. i always said to myself that if he's done it or doing it that would be it i would want nothing to do with him. but now iv found out i really dnt no what to do im so numb i cant think, i want whats best for my boys they adore their father but i'm hurting inside so much with all sorts of feelings, feelings of losing him. At the moment we're on a break but i don't know what a break is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): Wow, this story sounds horrific to me. Dear, run away from this evil man as far as you can, start a new life. I think you are underestimating yourself too much, you can do much better. Maybe you will find someone who deserves you, because this man, well sounds that he doesn't deserve anything.
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reader, baby vash  +, writes (29 December 2010):
At time we love someone but we say we can stand them, its not jus the person its there ways you cant really stand..
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