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writes:Here’s the deal,I ve known this guy since I was in elementary school. We ended up as classmates in 9th grade of high school,that’s when he started getting all crazy about me.He begged me to go out with him,begged my friends to help him and try everything possible,but I wouldn’t consider him. I was this beautiful,smart,mature,girl,out of his league. A friend,maybe, but a boyfriend no wayyy,we had/have nothing in common,and he was way too childlish for me.So yeah I kept dating other guys and rejecting him,he kept bothering me and getting frustrated and jealous all the time, (never wanting to hurt him though)im not mean.So months went by,and we got older, I don’t know what happened but I started liking him.Thats probably because as I grew older I saw how guys fool around with girls and I was impressed how he kept trying like noone else,ever did.I should also mention that he never hitted on any other girl,in school,he was this serious,difficult,type of guy,but he was obssesed about me,is it just obssesion or love to this day I never knew.So,everyone knew how he loved me,it might ve been nth but obssesion,but that obssesion lasted way too long,3 years.Since we started dating at the ending of 10th grade till the beginning of 12. What happened is that the like turned into love and at the age of 17 I gave my virginity to him because I was falling for him so deep.And he seemed to love me to,we made it all public and we was proud of each other.So we went out for a while then broke up cos I didn’t like the way”our relationship”,because he wasn’t dieing about me as before,a bit childlish of me I know.But i thought I could love another easily,but I was wrong.Anyways after 3 months of not seeing or thinking about him I suddenly began thinking about him all the time,and I was on vacations.I just felt this need in my blood to see him soo bad,like he put a spell on me.Gosh when I saw him on the first day back to school,my eyes were filled with tears and my whole body was shaking.Anyway,after months of me suffering in silence about him I organized this house party and called him over.HE CAME OVER!! So we made sweet love,slept in my room once again and everything was fine til winter,that’s when things lead to him losing interest me getting mad,him going in a public house,so I ended it with tears in my eyes.Didn’t talk to him,not even on our graduation day but when high school was over,and time for college came,he called me telling me how he’s going to another state,and is feeling sad and really wants to see me once more.He called me over,and after I let him beg a lil a went over his house.He kissed me and he had the best sex ever,he was crazy about me and so was I,and I did have some other sex partners but I didn’t sense love in any of them.He would hold me and look at me like he’s so in love and I almost cried myself,It was like a dream TOGETHER ONCE AGAIN. We talked in the phone occasionaly,he saw each other more times,but his time to go to Greece came.We said our goodbyes not promising each other anything,but he asked me to promise him I would always be his even if I end up married when he gets back.So yeah, he went there only for 2 months,he rarely email-ed me,never called,but when we chatted it seemed to be like he was missing me and everything.Then he came back called me,we went out staying together in public and everything,he went to Greece again.But this time,even though he only stayed a month he almost lost all contact,he didn’t seem to care,neither did I write.Today I just heard he was a girlfriend in Greece,the same day I was crying over that he called. I pretended everything was fine,he said he misses me and wants to see me soon,he also wouldn’t deny his girl,and wouldn’t care if a had a boyfriend,though we would ask questions like;u miss me? U love me? I still love him,and I was sooo sure he did too,but now i don’t know what to think,I mean if he just wants to f#ck me then how come he always calls me when in town and after 3 years didn’t he get enough,if he just wanted to use me?I just FEEL love when im with him,its just in his touch,not that he did anything to proove it. Should I go out with him again?Or should I save my pride?I believe he Is treating me like a cheap whore,when he has noone to fuck in town(even though he can he is good looking and has money)? Or maybe he still feels something about me? NEED HELP FAST PLZ
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reader, petina1  +, writes (12 January 2011):
 it's just hit and miss isnt it. He has a girlfriend in Greece. Y ou go for times not even chatting or keeping in touch. I think you should go with your gut feeling. He's enjoyed the chase but once he'd got you that was it. There's no excuses as to why he didnt get in touch when he was away if he really loved you. There should have been no gaps. But there was and he could have more than one girlfriend on the go. i think he is a player.
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