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writes: Hey my ex has treated me really bad for hurting him 2 years ago after I have told him I was sorry over and over. He has went off on me many times to make me feel guilty, Borrowed from me and won't pay back, and ask to get back to together just to break up again in 2 weeks. Now, he wants to have a friendship on his turns which has been him calling whenever he wants to talk. This is about 20minutes of conversation in a month or a month in a half.He called a week after thanksgiving and told me he had a tradige in his family. He left this on voicemail and I didn't call back. I'm trying to get him out of my heart so I prayed for him. I knew God had someone in place to comfort him and figured he was ok because he was working when he called and he does have a wife.yesterdady he called and left a voicemail saying that it was his father who had past and he told me off.I called him to speak with him because I did feel bad for him but he said he was busy and would call back but he didn't. Was I wrong for not calling him back last week when he tryed to contact me?
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reader, harleygirl2010  +, writes (12 December 2010):
 I agree with caring guy. Just leave him. If he keeps hurting you and taking your money what is the point? If he only contacts you when it's convenient for him what is the point? I don't want to sound rude but the guy was an a** for doing that to you. This guy is being rude to you for something you apologized for. If you said sorry he should have tried to forgive you and move on and not try to make you feel bad or guilty. The deed was done, you were sorry, and he didn't forgive. Don't let him try to rule you or make you feel guilty. Move on and feel better. Be yourself. If your gut tells you it wasn't wrong to not call back then listen to it. Your gut won't lead you wrong. I hope this helps you and didn't come off as rude. Just remember be yourself and trust your gut.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 December 2010):
I would just not bother at all with this guy. At all. He sounds cruel, manipulative and uncaring, and it sounds like he's way too much of a drama queen and a liar to trust. He has no right to tell you off after what he did to you.
Do yourself and favour, and stop bothering with him. He's not a friend. Friends don't treat you like dirt.
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