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writes: This is complicated. The guy I love is amazing and wonderful. But since we've had issues with a ex-friend of mine harassing me on the internet through him,things between us have gotten complicated. He doesn't blame me but feels upset all the same. Something like this happened before with this "friend" and it's causing trouble in our relationship. How should I handle this?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (4 August 2010):
Ive been there only i was engaged and it was my ex best friend..Let me guess, she's telling him that you'll only hurt him, how ur not ready for a relationship etc because she knows u best.. That girl has it for ur bf, my ex best friend had it bad for my now ex fiance.. I ended up telling her off and to butt out of my relationship( secretly they still talked)..Turns out they were both liars and today shes engaged to someone else and theyre still the best of friends. You can confront her and tell her to butt out by the looks of it, i doubt she is..Or ditch ur boyfriend bc he cant seem to believe or trust u, ten to one if u prolong it, there will be a nasty ending. Been there had that..
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reader, dirtball +, writes (4 August 2010):
Without knowledge of what harrassment is being done, it's really hard to give advice. The only thing I can think of is ignoring it. If it is on something like facebook then he can block her or report her actions. Still, if you share more about what is going on, then I may have some better advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2010): Tell this so called friend that you don't care about all of this things and carry on living your life. Life is to short :)NightFairy
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