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female
age
30-35,
*glo
writes:i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, he has always been quite a distant guy, and i dont get to see him much coz of his work schedule. However recently he was in a car accident and has been incredibly distant ever since, he hasnt phoned me for over three weeks just the odd txt here and there, i just dont understand ! ! Reply to this Question
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (21 August 2010):
Hi there. When you say you go to see him, it sounds like you are the only one doing the chasing. He doesn't come to you, it's always you going to him.
Perhaps you are a little too available to him and he's taking it all for granted. You need to be a little less available and start going out or visiting your girlfriends and making your own life interesting. Make yourself happy, and it will take the pressure off him. It's difficult when you're in a relationship as you can start to lose some of your own identity because of trying to please your man all the time. While trying to please, it's very easy to forget about yourself. Your needs are just as important as his. Don't put his needs before yours.
Hope this helps you. Best wishes.
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