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writes:well me and my girlfriend have been dating for a few months now, but i have some concerns! I feel like she takes advantage of me. I do so much for her thats its ridiculous. When were togather in public or just hanging out she rather spend my money than hang out with me. When i try to confront her about it she gets mad. Shes very needy all she does is wants wants and wants some more. Well a few weeks back i was pluggin her phone in it was going dead and i seen some very horrible txt messages from her ex. Things like they wanna move and she loves her ex. Talking about their fantasies togather and some other bullshit. so i confronted her on that and she told me she was jst telling her ex what she wanted to hear. So i let it go then i got on facebook and found some really horrible things she was saying to her ex on her page. and once again she made an excuse for it. But the problem is her ex is suppose to be coming here for school and im nervous she might go back to her ex. She tells me she dont keep contact with her ex but i know its a lie. Shes very flirtatious. I have to make her communicate with me. Its like we dont even talk to eachother but she wants me to always buy her things! Shes older than me and i feel likes shes using me. I feel like once her ex comes in for school she will leave. Most times she acts like she dosent give a damn. Bt when she notice that im getting sick of her shit she wants to try and change and she does bt when things are fine again she goes back to her old ways. I love her so much that i dont know if i should leave or not. Bt i feel like shes uing me and its hurting me more and more. PLZ HELP WHAT DO I DO?
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (4 August 2010):
 I must agree, i believe she is still in love with her ex and is trying to use you to get over her which is not fair on you! you need to end this relationship sonner rather than later to avoid it getting anymore painful, as harah as it is, you cant win them all! find someone who isnt otherwise distracted and who wants you for you! =]
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 August 2010):
The sad truth is she is still in love with her ex. You're the rebound guy, the one who is stroking her ego while she tries to work out what to do with this ex. She's lying to you, all the time. You have proof that she is contact with this ex and she is still flirting with him. Hold your head up high, and walk away with dignity. Or you'll wind up broke while she plays queen.
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