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writes: dear cupid, i dated a guy for six years. we had a fight. i went to apologize and he did not accept it. he always had a way of making me feel like i was not good enough for him. i have not talked to him for three weeks and he has made no attempt to talk to me. is there something i can do or should i call it quits? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, other +, writes (4 August 2010):
other is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your answer. i may have done something studid like call him. it's nice to feel 'ok'.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 August 2010):
I always feel bad for women who come on here and say "he has a way of making me feel like I'm not good enough". Of course you are! Perhaps the problem is HE is not good enough for YOU. Turn this upside down. Take control. This is a man who you have been dating with for 6 years and has always made you feel bad. Then, you have an argument and he doesn't speak to you for 3 weeks. You even apologized and he's not bothered. A real man who cares wouldn't have acted this way. Yes, he would have been mad, but he wouldn't have swanned away for 3 weeks and thrown your apology in your face. Stop chasing this man. Call it quits, spend some time getting over it and find a man who is actually worthy of you.
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