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female
age
41-50,
*ambi1980
writes:Dear all, I made a stupid mistake over the weekend that I'm being punished for now. I've been split up from my boyfriend since July and all in all it was a amicable split and we've tried to stay friends although there's been some problems. On Saturday he gave me a ticket for an event he had put on. There was a lot of people there that we know, mostly his friends and another one of his exes who we used to argue over a lot. Well I drank a lot and ended up kissing another guy at the bar. My ex came storming over and started to kick off with him. I eventually ended up walking away from the guy. I then saw my ex talking to the manager of the venue and although I've no reason to believe this I've always thought they might get together. I went storming over and insulted her calling her a slag and saying he was goin to sleep with her but indifferent words. I then apparently hit my ex in the face. I didn't cause him injury. I was then asked to leave the venue. Since this I obviously feel terrible for what i've done. It's totally out of character for me. I didn't remember half of it until my ex told me what I'd done next day.He's made my life hell since then over me kissing that guy. I know it was insensitive of me but am I not free to do what I want? As for the other things I'm just so embarrassed. Most people saw it. The woman I insulted didn't deserve it. I have only met her once before so don't know how to apologise really. I ought to start growing up! I'm just beating myself up over this now.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 October 2009):
Apologize to those you've hurt, but I really wouldn't have much to do with with your ex. You need to move on to be honest. We all make mistakes, be humble and own up and apologize,
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