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writes:The man i used to date last year after a period of more distance between us now seems to be more friendly. I like him and i usually go out with him when we arrange it. However, i have a lot of doubts about continuing a more intimate relationship. Although i have a great time when we are together then i usually think that i shouldn't show available for intimacy to him. I feel then that i make mistake and i feel guilty. Is there a possibility to be intimate with him when we are together but then don't make myself guilty but continue like we are as when we are when we are going out without more intimate relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answer quiet-echo.
I think i feel guilty because i think that i should be player harder to get given that things didn't work out the first time and because after the moments of intimacy between us then there is a time of distance between us and i feel hurt at this time. Then after few days i feel normal but there is a time that i feel hurt. I imagine that i would like to get over this feeling of hurt and return to normal feelings when i leave him.
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