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writes: soo me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 5 months now. we're jus coming back from a huge fight and break up and arent exactly together, jus working on things. so this weekend has been very good and we're happy, but today, i was at my house alone, doing some laundry when my stepbrother, who is 19.. the same age as my bf... walked into the laundry room unannounced (he doesnt live with us and i hadnt heard him come in). problem is, i was only wearing my thong! i had jus taken off the pjs i was wearing to put them in the wash! he jus looked at me and stared as i covered my top and said "does anyone knock anymore?!" he turned away and ran off saying "omg im so sorry oh shxt im sorry!" now we both had a laugh at the situation afterwards and i told my bf about it thinking he would think it was funny as well. my bf said "you two should just have sex and get it over with" i said dont be silly and he said "i am serious. he has already seen u like naked so u know its coming" i keep telling him to just shut up about it but he keeps saying, all day, things relating back to me probably having sex with my stepbrother!! its getting very annoying and becoming offensive. why does he keep saying things like this and how can i get it thru to him that its not funny!?thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): Text him saying that your jealousy is insane and it's starting to drive me crazy, i will never, ever EVER get with my step brother, that is an abonomable idea, and if you mention it again, you are dumped.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (26 October 2009):
 He is saying it because he's a young man with limited understanding of relationships and perhaps an immature and misguided sense of jealousy. Maybe he thinks he has to make a fuss of it because it makes him more manly. People will create drama out of anything and thats what he is doing.
If he is that insecure about your relationship (and you have already had major break ups and arguments) then tell him it's over. If he won't listen and believe you that there is nothing between you and your stepbrother then you are never going to change his mind. It's childish and immature!!
Also buy yourself a dressing gown and cut out the possibility of exposing yourself to your brother!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): I cant believe Im about to write this: SLAP HIM HARD for mentioning it. And state firmly that you dont want to hear that anymore. please in future use the slap as a last resort (it hurts and is emabrrising you know).
Also dont sleep with your stepbrother as you will really regret it.
ps: dont tell anyother guy I recomended that, because they will kick me out of the union
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (26 October 2009):
He sounds insecure, but you need to tell him that his comments are hurtful that he'd actually think that you'd even consider sleeping with your step-brother. He needs to develop some sensitivity about your feelings, and not be rude to you.
He may be scared, but that's no reason to be passive aggressive or rude. Talk to him about this, and tell him that in any future relationships you need a partner that will support you, and not one that will make hurtful comments.
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