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writes:I met my boyfriend for lunch and the secretary at his office called..He said, 'Hello'And I couldn't hear what she said..he didn't move away do much..so that's not the problem.But he said, 'Well how do you want me to answer.' Then you could hear her talking and kinda giggling.. He then said, 'Calm down'. I don't know why but I pictured her saying something like..'you should answer sayimg something like 'babe' and stuff..Should I ask him? Should I be worried? By the way the girls at his job are really sleazy, they mess around with all these men and they're all married!!Please advise. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): As the others have said...let it go. You only heard one side of the conversation and you are imagining the other side. By questioning your boyfriend you will seem insecure and needy! Trust your boyfriend to do the right thing! I believe in trusting people until they prove themselves untrustworthy! Somethings are just better left alone!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 March 2009):
 Don't let your imagination run away with you. You BF seem able enough to handle her.
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reader, Mr S  +, writes (11 March 2009):
 You have asked if you should ask him. Will this is quite simple, if you want the truth and you are prepared for both the innocent and guilty answers then ask him.
Before you’re your thoughts run away with you. Remember there could and probably is an innocent explanation. But be prepared for the worst.
I would also say that opening dialogue between you and your boyfriend would also be a good idea. Talk more and discussing things more will open the door to a more trusting, loving relationship
To yourself be true
Mr S
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