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Can't get my ex LDR bf out ouf my head! Help!

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Question - (11 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 March 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I had a long distance relationship with a guy whom i have never met.

We are chatting for the last 4 year. He promised to marry me and showed me many dreams. I trusted him so much. Everyday i spent 6 to 7 hours chatting with him. He always showed me that he loves me alot and cares for me alot.

Two weeks ago he told me his shifting to a new apartment and there's no internet connection. He told me he'l call me inbetween and asked me not to txt him or call him as m not earning.

A week ago a got a got from a girl that she is my boyfriend's girlfriend. At first i didn't believe her but after hours of thinking a ended up calling my boyfriend to ask who she was. When i called on my boyfriend's mobile that girl answered my call. She told me she's my boyfriend's girlfriend for the last 3 years. She fought with me on phone and told me that she was sharing the same room and same bed with my boyfriend. She told me they were getting married soon. When i asked my boyfriend he told me he loves her and its true that they are getting married. He made fun of me and abused me infront of that girl.

Now i don't want him back in my life but i can't get out of his memories. His memories and his promises are killing me. Please help me out....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009):

hi dearestve

life is the almighty s beautifull gift to humans, live it .with joy and peace , love those who love you, forget about those who hurt you.theres always a beatifull morning after a dark night.i believe in destiny. and i believe that youll get the mr right on the right time and place, so cool it girl.take a chill pill. hope it helps

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A female reader, francy Namibia +, writes (11 March 2009):

dearest, i do not understand why you fell deep in love with a man you have never seen before.. and you do not even know his back ground..

i think you should really forget this guy coz by judging the way he deceived you it showed me that this guy is a cheater and at the same time hes is pathological liar.. i must even state he is a grade one player.......

now that you know he has a woman to marry why don't you move on?........... am convinced he has nothing to do with you at all,,,be strong and hunt for a man this time he must be close to you and i suggest he must not me a total stranger any more.......... am even nervous do not mind my words order ......... i mean i have gone through the same situation but i managed to get it done quickly.........

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