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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm a fat chick needin' love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend 2 years ago, and when i did i was very athletic and weighed 161 lbs. i got pregnant, and got fat. i now weigh 268 lbs. he does not want to have sex anymore, and actually stopped when i began to gain weight in the beginning. he ...

Did I make a mistake by never making an effort with my ex girlfriend when I had the chance?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I had a girlfriend who was really nice to me, gorgeous, independent, smart (college grad), never asked me for material things, cooked for me, took care of me when i was sick, there for me when i needed her, faithful-- and i never made time for her. ...

I feel controlled by my girlfriend, but I wonder if I am the one in the wrong.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm having problems with my girlfriend but im not sure if it is me who is in the wrong. I'm 30 and she is nearly 27. We have been going out 4 mths now, and I normally see her a few times a week. However she doesnt like me arranging social a...

She's abusive. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend is 19 and i am 15. Recently we have been argueing lots because i went around to her house and found mens cloths and used condoms all over her place. So i asked her what was going on and she said she has had a few mates over for a ...

He doesn't know what he wants, I keep being dumped and picked up again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend have been on and off for years. After 5 years i asked him are you sure you really want me?Because lately id been feeling like im more than a nuisance in his life. He spends time going places and doing things with his mates sayin im not ...

I feel she's changed, and now it's making me feel very insecure. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 6 months now. Since she got back from holiday she has been different. We were very much in love. Telling each other every day how we felt. Since she has been back we have been different. She doesn't tell me h...

Any suggestions as to helping me sort out these problems I have with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's a few problems: 1: She has some body issues. She wears baggy clothing. (She thinks she's fat and she's not). 2: Trust issues. (Thinks I'm cheating - which I'm not) All because most of my fr...

He was into foursomes in the past. How do I make sure he isnt into that anymore?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - My question is My boyfriend was once married, and then come to find out he and his wife were into foursomes, when I ask him about it because I just want to make sure that he doesn't still have those feeling because I won't do it he get mad at me...

I am a ratty person and I get annoyed when I crave something and don't get it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - My GF wants a break away from sex as she said she gets hurt sometimes, im worried that this will make our r'ship break because I know sex aint the only thing in the relationship but it is one main key to a relationship. I'm a ratty person and I get ...

I am in love with my boyfriends best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend that i have been seeing for a year now,problem is he broke up with me two times and asked me back and i accepted,thing is now his best friend says he is inlove with me and i am inlove with him too, i think about his best friend ...

Even if I tell her cheating is not my intention, she insists that I am lying and that I ought to just "confess" and she'll forgive me!?!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I'm seeing a woman whom I feel that I want to spend the rest of my life with, the problem is, she doesnt trust me as far as she can throw me. If I contact any other women whom she isn't familiar with, she accuses me of cheating on her, and she won't ...

We are having a break while trying to sort our problems. I fear he's not truthful to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - We been together 5 years we been broken up for almost 5 months. He told me he wanted to work things out and become faithful to me. He even told me I could see his phone records so I know he won't be cheating. But right now while we are just gett...

She says she will leave me if I don't buy her gifts. So should I continue to buy her more things?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - Hey I am 15 and i have a girlfriend who is 19. She has a job and lives with her parents. I am in school my girlfriend scemms to like me for all the things that i buy her. I have been buying her iPods and laptops and all that. At the mom...

What can I do before I lose her forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Hi all, I am a soon-to-be college freshman who has been granted the wonderful opportunity to attend an outstanding university, and I am quite excited at being able to soon take advantage of all the new opportunities presented before me. Un...

Our relationship is lacking in communication... he never tells me how he feels! Help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5937 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I've been dating someone for almost a year now. He might very well be the nicest guy I've ever dated. He's handsome, caring, thoughtful and all the things you'd want in a man...almost. I feel our relationship is lacking communication in the fact ...

I get self concious around girly girls, and I sometimes feel like my boyfriend wants me to be more feminine. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - hello! so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 months now. we're close and all so it's all good. but i am so self conscious. like i'm a tom boy i guess. i'm not a girly girl at all and i don't wear girly stuff. it's just not me and i do...

Why is everyone I love leaving me? My mum's so upset, it's making me worse!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hya, my name is Jodie, i was just wondering if you could help me. You see i don't know what to do, as i've just recently come out of a relationship that i wanted to be in my whole life, and i'm tryin my hardest to get over him. But now i have my mum ...

I know she cheated, but I don't know what to do, is this a waste of my time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I am completely in love with my gilfriend. We were just friends for 5 months or so and we've been dating for about 6 months now. I cant tell if my girlfriend really loves me, or if she just playing me. She always talks about how hot other guys are, ...

Should I stay in my relationship if I'm not really happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. We haven't been intimate yet. I know it's because he is paranoid about pregnancy. I went on birth control; the mirena, so I can't get pregnant in 5 years. I live with my mom and siblings and ...

I don't want our daughter to be involved with the "other woman"!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have a five year old daughter together. after an eight year relationship he says that he dont love me. days after he tells me this he is with another woman. i do not want my daughter to see him if he is with her. what do i do?...

I want to be with someone who doesn't treat me horribly, but I love my boyfriend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and eight months now and having arguments has always been our "thing"; anyone who knows us knows this. We never intended for that to happen, though, we just disagree on really one thing: Who's to blame for ...

Should I leave my abusive relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - hi I need some advice i have been with my boyfriend for 14years since i was 14. about 5 years ago we went through a rough patch and he used to ge violent and call me nasty names, which i put up with as i was still young , then 3 years ago just a...

I like my boyfriend's best friend....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Hi! I am a 22 year old woman, I am currently with the father of my baby, we have been together for 6 years now. At the beginig of 2008 I found he had been cheating on me with his ex... (complicated right?) Well, in this years he has been really ...

Old guy or new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Hi, Im really confused right now. The guy I wanted to marry wasn't trying hard enough. Our culture is a little diff. The parents didn't approve. we sitill stayed together but he isnt trying...if i ask him to try hes like...yes ill try my best....

He hasn't said he loves me the last couple times we said goodbye. Is he out of love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Okay I know you may think I'm a stupid school girl, but I'm a stupid school girl that'd rip her heart out if it would mean not letting him get hurt. My problem is I think I'm over re-acting, my boyfriend usually tells me he loves me when he says ...

I love a man who is still married, but separated for 10 years, his wife will not sign divorce papers, I want to marry him, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5942 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 24 year old lady that has been dating a special man for over two years. A month ago, I found out that he was still married to his "ex-wife" but they have been separated for ten years. She has moved on to someone else and had ...

What do I do about knowing my girl is lying to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - hi, i already asked a question earlier and got some good responses thanks. im going to change my question as i have had time to think. me and my g/f of 9 years have never had it easy as regards to our relationship. she is a very dishonest perosn ...

I'm 8 months pregnant and he is calling other girls on line the pet names he calls me. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - i think my boyfriend is cheating on me im 8months pregnent and i dont know what to do. he left his myspace screen up and i went in took a look in his messages he's calling these other girls baby and sexy and tells them that their fine and it hurts ...

His family is getting in the way of us. He won't stand up to his mum!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Hey, I was hoping you'd be able to shed some light or give me some advice on some of the things that our relationship has been facing lately. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, I'm 20 and he's 22, we both are at uni, and both share the ...

E.D. is destroying me emotionally because I just want to make love and not worry about the sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - Hi I am a male, 28. Since 7 years or so I have had a problem with erectile dysfunction. It has been creeping up and has been getting worse lately. I have had about 10 partners, all of whom I had sexual relations with. The problem is, I cannot r...

How can I get my new guy to tell me if he plans a future with me or if I'm just a fling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Seven months ago I ended a four year relationship. I am not usually the girl to dwel on things, and about a month later I had a fling with his friend. It has been five months and the new guy and I are still together. Our relationship is fine, even ...

We have no sex life. Am I being a selfish bitch?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I am with a guy for the last year and a half and we get on very well in general in that we don't really argue but lately i am getting more and more unhappy, problem is we have no sex life. He has made many excuses as to why we don't, depression, ...

My boyfriend (28) says he does not have a sex drive and does not think about sex anymore?!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I'm a 36yr old woman and have been with my 28yr old man for 2yrs. I can count on 1 hand how many times we have had sex. I dont understand I've done all I can to get us there but nothing seems to work. So I just keep asking him why wont you make love...

How do we take the resentment he has towards me out of the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Where do I start. My boyfriend and I have been dating officially 7 months and unofficially almost a year. During the beginning of our attraction i was seeing someone else and he was flaunting girls in front of me to get my attention. However I did ...

How do I tell him I have lost the desire to do things with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - it has been a few years since me and my boyfriend got together...things havent been going all to well here lately. and when i try to talk to him, all he wants to do is touch me, and so on. how do i tell him i have lost the desire to do things with ...

I'm full of anger since I got married! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Hi! i am 21 years old and i got marry a year ago. i am having a bad time with my husban, he is a good man, but i don't feel like we are connected. he never say anything mean to me, but when we are with his friends he kind of ingnore me. everytime we ...

He'd rather spend time with his books than in bed with me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - So I have a shower, smell delightful, my hair in a nice messy sort of way and jump into bed with my bf on his side of the bed with no pjs on and put my hand down his side. I thought that was nice. It wasn't. He wanted to read. Seems to be the story ...

Out of the blue, my boyfriend needs to think!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I'm in a new relationship (2 months) with a guy and like a fool, I fell in love with him. The funny thing is that my boyfriend fell just as quick. We were happy and enjoyed each others company. We're still getting to know each other and spend 1-2 ...

It's 7 weeks 'til our wedding day, the nearer it gets ~ the more we're arguing. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Its 7 weeks to our wedding day, the nearer it gets the more we are arguing, I have never been married before, never lived with anyone and I have brought up two daughters on my own, always worked. My daughters are mothers, but with their partners but ...

What could anyone recommend for a man who is miserable in marriage and staying in it for the kids sake?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - What could anyone recommend for a man who is miserable in marriage and staying in it for the kids sake? I have been with my wife for 7 years (married 6) and for the last year or two I have been insanely unhappy. I'm in no way perfect, so I won'...

I love her and care for her, but I feel like I'm being suffocated; I tried telling her this before, but she burst into tears.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - I have always sucked at this part and am not sure what to do... I'm 31 and have been dating a girl for about 15 months now. She's also 31, very nice, and we share a great deal in common. There have been some issues since the beginning of our...

Silly things lead to my boyfriend to distrust me, can I hope that he changes? I have always been truthful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I am divorce have an 8 years daughter, after my marriage I stayed single for almost 4 years, then I met my boyfriend online 3 years ago, eventually he moved in with me because I did not want to get married again. The first year was so happy I though ...

My heart is saying take him back, my head is saying I am a loser for thinking of it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - myself and both this guy i like both broke up with out partners for each other our 6 month relationship was one struggle after the next. I gave him 3 chances in that 6 months we broke up about 3 weeks ago and now he wants me back. while we were ...

He cheated and says he is sorry. But is he really?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 3.5 years recently went on a weekend away to Europe with his friends. When he came back I found text messages from a girl he had slept with. He was drinking for 12 hours and he took 3 E tabs that night and remembers nothing at all, ...

We broke up, have had no contact, saw him at a function, he said nothing, just looked at me, and left early, I want to be friends, but cannot bring myself to contact him, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hi there. I am hoping the great agony aunts can help me here. The answers are great and so prompt so thanks in advance. My ex and I had a pretty fiery breakup at the beginning of June. I was upset, he was upset and we have had no contact at all f...

We constantly fight, I am losing interest, he blames me for almost everything, it's getting on my nerves, we are to move in together, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I can't stop fighting with my boyfriend. We've always fought, at least once every other day, for the entire time we've been together. And I mean that, even before we were boyfriend and girlfriend, we were fighting. So now we've been togethe...

My girlfriend never has time for me, it's either her friends, or she is out of town, I am beginning to distance myself, how do I tell her how I feel? he

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - Hey, I have an issue with my girlfriend. She's been out of town almost every other week during the summer and when she gets back she wants to of course catch up with her friends and stuff (which I totally understand) but she can never hangout ...

We went through an awful break-up, it's been a couple of months, I want to give it another try, any suggestions, as to how to go about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Dear all, My boyfriend and I broke up in May. We were very much in love, but it was a first real relationship for both of us and was long distance. On top of that, both of us are very conflict-avoidant and dated for a year with the assumption w...

I don't want to hurt my wonderful fiance, but I don't want this amazing, loving affair to end.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - In Love with two people! I'm 35. Fiancé 32, Lover 21! I can't believe I have let myself get into this situation, I have a really nice Fiancé, 2 kids aged 2 and 5 we don’t argue, we still have Sex a few times a week. My problem is this a year a...

Knowing she has had one night stands makes me wonder if the rumours about her cheating on me are true...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - i have been going out with my g/f for 7 months now. I love her to bits and am thinking of proposing to her. We communicate really well and one day she told me how many one night stands shes had and how many partners she's had. I even know some of ...