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writes: My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's a few problems: 1: She has some body issues. She wears baggy clothing. (She thinks she's fat and she's not). 2: Trust issues. (Thinks I'm cheating - which I'm not) All because most of my friends are girls. I did nothing to make her not trust me.3: We fight a lot. (Not a real big deal, but it can got annoying).Any suggestions please?Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, lovesagiftkeepitsafe  +, writes (16 September 2008):
 i used to be like that when i was with my ex, we used to argue n i always thorght he was cheating, and i still have some body issues.the best thing to do is try and reasure her, work on one thing at a time, the main one that is most inportant to you and try and get her to see past it. if it helps, pay her coplements about the way she looks, try and let the fights drop and even if your righ and you know shes in the wrong just let it drop, arguing about it only makes it worse, not too sure what to say about the trust issues, i guess all u have to do is reasure her, try and find out why shes so botherd about u having girl mates. i hope this helps a bit and good luck
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