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Archived questions from: 21 July, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

A messy story... Should I stay friends with her or cut her off cold-turkey?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - OK heres my question...i dated this girl along time ago named gin..gin's best friend Anna, who was also my best friend hooked us up. Somewhere along the way, Ann fell deeply in love with me and didnt want me to date her friend anymore but me being ...

Are we both playing hard to get or am I being dilusional?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I had been dating a guy for a few months and at first things were absolutely perfect. After a few months of dating we had our first arguement. After that he became distant towards me and I distanced myself even more. After a couple of weeks of ...

My boyfriend and I had difficulty, having sex, as he is very large, and it is painful for me, now we are growing distance, because we cannot acheive, satisfaction in the bedroom, what can we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We had sex once 8 months into the relationship which was painful for me and resulted in cystitis. We tried to have sex twice since then but each time has been so painful we have had to stop ...

Is she playing the jealousy game? Should I call her bluff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - Met a woman back in Feb. and we dated until the end of June. We live in different states and the distance got to be too much. We decided to not date and then I got a job which I will be moving to her area. The job is a promotion and by no means ...

My new girlfriend asks "How can she be with me when my son always comes first!"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - hi my name is paul. im 32 years old and i have posted before about the sameish subject, only thing is things have changed and im in termoil, could realy do with helpfull advice. i have a 5 yr old boy who i dont live with he lives with his mum some ...

He cheated on me before, now he is acting strange... what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I have been w/my bfriend for 2 years,and have found last year he had been cheating on me for 4 months while wking out of town. Since then things have not been the same, but i have forgave him. But lately he has given me the impression he is talking ...

When gets back from strip clubs, I don't want him to touch me. I can't get over it!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles I need quite a help. I know this question has been asked probably million times, but I just can't help myself ... I have to ask again! I love my BF - together nearly 2years... and I know he truly loves me. He is with me 24...

Why has my platonic friend been more distant lately?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5973 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I'm really good friends with this guy. I love him to death (purely platonic) and he always knows just what to say to make me feel better. Well lately though, I've noticed that he's been more distant. I'll instant message him, and it will take him...

Should I try and win her back, or respect her new boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - 2 years ago I fell in love with the most amazing girl in the world. She moved to the other side of the country and has much as we wanted it to work, it couldn't. I started dating again but never felt the same way about anyone else. 6 Months ago we ...

He's been talking to another woman. What do we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I am 56 air hostess divorced living with my man 46 for two years we have not made love he says he loves me and that i am his best friend then i found his mobile phone bill a number on it was used alot late at night and when i was away ...

How do I show a guy that his actions are insensitive and upsetting without appearing nagging and annoying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - hey there. i was just wondering how do i show a guy that his actions are insensitive and upsetting without appearing nagging and annoying, i've tried the silent treatment or purposely pulling away from him, but it didn't work, cause it ended up with ...

Can trust be rebuilt? I want to forgive and forget...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5973 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - How do you rebuild trust? Infact can trust be rebuilt? My boyfriend broke up with me about a year ago, he told me he had feelings for his ex. Two months later he came back and told me he was sorry but he had made a mistake. It took me a long time to ...

Have I got trust issues? I don't want him back, and don't want to be friends, I just want back my money. Is it me with the problem here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - How do you get someone to see that you're not trying to twist things and make it look like 'its them' with the problem? Brief history, split with someone after nearly 2 yrs who lied in the early days. We had split after a yr, i found out he lied, ...

3 months pregnant and discovered that partner is looking for sex online

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for just under two years. We live together, I love him and I am carrying his baby of 3 months. We just got back from a week getaway to reconcille our differences and took the laptop with us. On returning, one eve...

I have to find out if he slept with her, it's driving me mad!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I cannot get over him cheating on me. It was 1st January 2007 and he went out on New Years Eve after we had a fight. He switched his phone off and forgot bout me, sick in bed. So next day I asked if he'd cheated coz the relationship was rocky at the ...

Is it my fault that he hit me, or do I just keep getting with jerks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - My past boyfriends have been abusive towards me and before I got with the guy I'm with now I told him that I was afraid to get hurt again and he promised me that he wouldn't ever hurt me. Well we've been together for 8 months now and he's hit me at ...

I feel unappreciated. Am I only staying with this guy because I feel obliged to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5973 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I am getting married in less than a year ( I think so anyways)and my fiancee and I have been together for almost 6 years now and have a 4 year old. I am completely stressed with everything that I have to do. I do not feel appreciated at all and some ...

We have trouble communicating, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5936 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - In met this guy who I fell in love with or at least I think I did. There was a communication barrier there but I think it's because we were both so shy and nervous of each other because we liked each other so much.He is a devoted dad to his child ...

He could't keep his hands off me before, why has he lost interest in sex now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5974 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Hi all! My boyfriend and I have been toogether for the better part of two years. I am a 21 year ols culinary studen and he is a 25 year old probationary fire fighter. We have somewhat of a long distance relationship, but we see eachother most ...

My wife to be had an abortion, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - Hi all, I am new here. I was googling about my problem and came here to this site and thought to post my dilemma. Ok, I know this girl for one and half months and we have had talks for hours and found that we both like each other and planned...

I had planned to leave my gay boyfriend, and then I lost my job. Help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5970 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Okay - I am seriously desperate and need help and any advice I can get! The following events have all taken place in the past 6-8 weeks: 1) My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me for the 2nd (!)time. 2) He cheated with a man. (1st time...

Do guys really need to sleep around before settling down? It hurts me to see him with other women.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for the past six months and we got really close and he was the best guy I have ever dated. I have a bad past with men and it takes time to trust them, but with him it was different almost right away I felt comfortable ...

How do I get over this pig? And how can I stop him hurting other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - How do I stop caring about this guy? He's a total pig but i fell for him because he was intitally charming and smart and likeable. We hit it off after he broke up with his girlfriend and i just found out months later that he was texting another ...

I'm having a hard time trying to figure out if he really cares.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Ok so I've been datin this guy 4 a few months now..and I really feel that I love him and I have expressed my feelins 2 him and he said 2 me.."don't say it if u don't really mean it" . So that had me thinkin maybe he feel the same way,of course ...