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Archived questions from: 31 July, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm a fat chick needin' love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend 2 years ago, and when i did i was very athletic and weighed 161 lbs. i got pregnant, and got fat. i now weigh 268 lbs. he does not want to have sex anymore, and actually stopped when i began to gain weight in the beginning. he ...

Did I make a mistake by never making an effort with my ex girlfriend when I had the chance?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I had a girlfriend who was really nice to me, gorgeous, independent, smart (college grad), never asked me for material things, cooked for me, took care of me when i was sick, there for me when i needed her, faithful-- and i never made time for her. ...

I feel controlled by my girlfriend, but I wonder if I am the one in the wrong.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm having problems with my girlfriend but im not sure if it is me who is in the wrong. I'm 30 and she is nearly 27. We have been going out 4 mths now, and I normally see her a few times a week. However she doesnt like me arranging social a...

She's abusive. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend is 19 and i am 15. Recently we have been argueing lots because i went around to her house and found mens cloths and used condoms all over her place. So i asked her what was going on and she said she has had a few mates over for a ...

He doesn't know what he wants, I keep being dumped and picked up again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend have been on and off for years. After 5 years i asked him are you sure you really want me?Because lately id been feeling like im more than a nuisance in his life. He spends time going places and doing things with his mates sayin im not ...

I feel she's changed, and now it's making me feel very insecure. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 6 months now. Since she got back from holiday she has been different. We were very much in love. Telling each other every day how we felt. Since she has been back we have been different. She doesn't tell me h...

Any suggestions as to helping me sort out these problems I have with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's a few problems: 1: She has some body issues. She wears baggy clothing. (She thinks she's fat and she's not). 2: Trust issues. (Thinks I'm cheating - which I'm not) All because most of my fr...

He was into foursomes in the past. How do I make sure he isnt into that anymore?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - My question is My boyfriend was once married, and then come to find out he and his wife were into foursomes, when I ask him about it because I just want to make sure that he doesn't still have those feeling because I won't do it he get mad at me...

I am a ratty person and I get annoyed when I crave something and don't get it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - My GF wants a break away from sex as she said she gets hurt sometimes, im worried that this will make our r'ship break because I know sex aint the only thing in the relationship but it is one main key to a relationship. I'm a ratty person and I get ...

I am in love with my boyfriends best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend that i have been seeing for a year now,problem is he broke up with me two times and asked me back and i accepted,thing is now his best friend says he is inlove with me and i am inlove with him too, i think about his best friend ...

Even if I tell her cheating is not my intention, she insists that I am lying and that I ought to just "confess" and she'll forgive me!?!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I'm seeing a woman whom I feel that I want to spend the rest of my life with, the problem is, she doesnt trust me as far as she can throw me. If I contact any other women whom she isn't familiar with, she accuses me of cheating on her, and she won't ...

We are having a break while trying to sort our problems. I fear he's not truthful to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - We been together 5 years we been broken up for almost 5 months. He told me he wanted to work things out and become faithful to me. He even told me I could see his phone records so I know he won't be cheating. But right now while we are just gett...

She says she will leave me if I don't buy her gifts. So should I continue to buy her more things?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - Hey I am 15 and i have a girlfriend who is 19. She has a job and lives with her parents. I am in school my girlfriend scemms to like me for all the things that i buy her. I have been buying her iPods and laptops and all that. At the mom...

What can I do before I lose her forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Hi all, I am a soon-to-be college freshman who has been granted the wonderful opportunity to attend an outstanding university, and I am quite excited at being able to soon take advantage of all the new opportunities presented before me. Un...

Our relationship is lacking in communication... he never tells me how he feels! Help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5937 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I've been dating someone for almost a year now. He might very well be the nicest guy I've ever dated. He's handsome, caring, thoughtful and all the things you'd want in a man...almost. I feel our relationship is lacking communication in the fact ...

I get self concious around girly girls, and I sometimes feel like my boyfriend wants me to be more feminine. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - hello! so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 months now. we're close and all so it's all good. but i am so self conscious. like i'm a tom boy i guess. i'm not a girly girl at all and i don't wear girly stuff. it's just not me and i do...

Why is everyone I love leaving me? My mum's so upset, it's making me worse!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hya, my name is Jodie, i was just wondering if you could help me. You see i don't know what to do, as i've just recently come out of a relationship that i wanted to be in my whole life, and i'm tryin my hardest to get over him. But now i have my mum ...

I know she cheated, but I don't know what to do, is this a waste of my time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I am completely in love with my gilfriend. We were just friends for 5 months or so and we've been dating for about 6 months now. I cant tell if my girlfriend really loves me, or if she just playing me. She always talks about how hot other guys are, ...

Should I stay in my relationship if I'm not really happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. We haven't been intimate yet. I know it's because he is paranoid about pregnancy. I went on birth control; the mirena, so I can't get pregnant in 5 years. I live with my mom and siblings and ...

I don't want our daughter to be involved with the "other woman"!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have a five year old daughter together. after an eight year relationship he says that he dont love me. days after he tells me this he is with another woman. i do not want my daughter to see him if he is with her. what do i do?...