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writes: My girlfriend is 19 and i am 15. Recently we have been argueing lots because i went around to her house and found mens cloths and used condoms all over her place. So i asked her what was going on and she said she has had a few mates over for a party.Then we got in a fight and she hit me lots and very hard.I love her and she loves me. She feels bad when she hits me.What should i do?
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reader, hardtimes  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 dude you deserve better shes cheateing on you and hitting you dump her she is not worth it there is a lot of girls out there that will treat you better dump her
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reader, Fluxual  +, writes (16 September 2008):
First of all kudos on nobbing a 19 year old. It's every teenagers dream but it sounds to me like the reason she's with you is to boss you around and abuse you. I can't see why else a girl in her prime would be seeing someone who is not yet an adult.
Don't let her take the piss mate, i'd put this down to experience and move on.
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reader, Gary-B  +, writes (20 August 2008):
First the difference of age is the biggest problem!!!
She's 19 and of caurse she needs sex or this stuff!!!
you can't make her happy!! she goes with others!
I wonder why is she staying with you??
it is because of that your rich???
or ... think hard you will find!!
she beated you?? and what did you do?
come on she is your girlfriend not your mom!!!
there's a mistake needs to be corrected!!
find it and correct it!
Love Gary
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reader, xray2112  +, writes (1 August 2008):
What should you do? You're 15. There are thousands of wonderful 15 year old girls. Meet some.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): You present as aged 15 (underage) and currently living in the UK. Your dating an older woman who has wild parties involving sex with her mates, and she beats you up... What was your question again.... Are you really as stupid as you sound?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 August 2008):
Are you the same 15 yearold who is going out with a 19 yearold who keeps demanding babies and gifts?
Why are you with this woman? She's walking all over you and treating you like crap.
Dump her and never see her again!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 First and foremost, if you stay with her, tell her that another strike and she's out.
Also, please notice that you're making a justification for her. If she feels bad about hitting you, then let her say it. Don't put in her mouth the words you want to hear.
Now, let's get to the point: It is obvious that your finding used condoms in her place means that she might have slept with someone else. She knows this, but didn't give any explanations; she just ended up hitting you. You can't be sure whether she slept with someone or not, but what she did certainly doesn't help clarify things. She didn't give you an answer, but a beating. Personally, that would make me dump her right away. I would leave and never turn back. I just would call her and say "it's definitely over".
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