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Archived questions from: 28 July, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Will I always think about me ex, even though we've broken up and she's moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5952 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - Just stopped talking to my first love about a month ago. Her drug abuse among other problems made it difficult for me to speak to her at all. Today I just found out that she's dating this dude who does cocaine...in my humble opinion that's not ...

Should I be worried about my girl's new male friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - Well this is kind of a follow up but new problem. my girlfriend and i been having few problems of late. we still love each other but something obviously wrong though. i lied to her over something silly to avoid an argument over a new male friend ...

Is my husband carrying on with a woman from his office?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I've been married for past 8 years. We dated for 3 yrs before getting married. In all these married years, my husband has always complained about me being overweight. I'm 5 ft 3 in and weighed 140lbs when i got married. Now I'm 155 lbs and I have a ...

He says he's not ready to be committed to me after the drama his baby's mother has put him through, do I need to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Hey I recently met someone and we hit it off pretty good. We've been friends for 6mos. now and we are real close and talk to each other about everything we even have real good passionate sex. He tells me that he likes me a lot and that he would go ...

We love each other but I can't fully trust her as she cheated and is generally flirty, how do I overcome my worries?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - hello i have been in a relationship for nearly two years now and i love my girlfriend to pieces, we have regular sex, a fantastic connection, we have talked about marriage, and we love each other with all of our hearts. the only thing is i dont ...

My boyfriend seems a little too dependent on me, I am starting to feel responsible for his happiness, how could I talk to him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5952 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I am having a problem with my boyfriend being a little too dependent on me. We both love each other very much and have been living together for about 6 months. I love spending time with him when we get a chance. I recently started a new job, and I ...

I am a very messed up kid, and I feel really stuck.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I am a very messed up kid. I think I was abused a while back by my brother. He used to kiss me and sort of hump me with my clothes on. I couldn't tell my mum coz i love my bro but he was really horrible and once he got drunk and was really scary...

Off and on for seven years, got back together, planned a wedding, he cancelled it, I stayed with him, he cheated again, I left him, why does anyone do this to another person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I spent 7 years with the one I thought "I loved," was faithful to him, sacrificed more for him than any other human being in my life, showed him love and kindness and honesty. I beleived in him and in his words. I tried to always do the right ...

A long distance relationship may be trouble!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I have been dating someone 4 hours away now for a little over 6 months. We have had no huge problems and everything for now is running quite smoothly. I am completely honest with him, which is a first for me. We see each other about every other ...

My boyfriend flirts with and hugs other girls, right in front of me, he is also aggressive and has a bad temper, should I move on, he says he is going to change, but he never does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Ive Been With My Boyfriend For A Year And At The Start Everythin Was Good. But Lately Hes Changed And Turned Realli Agressive With Me And Loosin Hes Temper. Or Hes alwayz on the fone to other girls And Flirtin And Huggin Girls Infront Of Me Wen He ...

He hit on my girlfriends, after saying he had strong feelings for me, I broke off the relationship, then I contacted him, but now he just wants to be friends, how could he do this to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - He said, he has strong feelings for me...wanting to do everything with me...travel, business etc... He did all these beautiful things for me. Kept in touch and made me feel on top of the world...until I found out he hit on my g/f's found nasty texts ...

My boyfriend said he wanted space, I am a wreck, how do I get him to realize, how great we would be together, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5952 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - It's been over a month now... I haven't seen the guy I don't seem to get out of my head... we were together for 3 intense months... and things just fell apart...he said he needs time apart in order for us to be friends... It's a pain everyday... he ...

Should I risk being seen as the "Bitch of an Ex" and just tell him no, It's over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year now but I feel the relationship just isn't working for me anymore; we seem to interact less like a couple and more like friends now, which I'll admit is my doing. I find it difficult to kis...

I'm tired of making time for him while he's often unavailable!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I've been dating this for the past 3 yrs my problem is he works from monday to saturday,he doesn't have time for movies or anything with me we only have a sunday for each other.the problem is that i'm a church goer so i just have time for him for ...

I still worry and check her phone, and I still find weird messages... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - my girl gave me a ton of reasons not to trust her. I went into her phone (which the password for texting was just changed) and found very dirty messages to other guys. I brought them up and she said they are just jokes but i couldnt handle it. I ...

My boyfriend gave me an unusual excuse to justify his delay...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - have you ever heard the excuse"i stopped to help a disoriontated blind man that was walking out into the street, and gave him a ride. when you ask your supposed exclusive boyfriend what took him so long? and he was only driving 1mile up the street ...

I'm suddenly turned on by women, how can I deal with this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I'm a 25-year-old woman, currently dating a boyfriend of 3 years. Our relationship has been good and mutally caring in most respects, but recently I noticed that I become sexually aroused by the bodies of other women. I don't know what's changed or ...

He was smoking behind my back, should I forgive him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I love my boyfreind and he gave up smoking for me when we started dating nearly 8 months ago.I found out on the weekend that he has been smoking behind my back and didnt tell me. I forgive him because he didnt want to tell me cause he knew i would ...

Should I wait for her to call? And can I believe anything she says?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5953 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - If a girl I've been dating for over a week is having a sexual identity crisis and isn't forthcoming about it, what should I do? She had been postponing/cancelling dates, lying, promising to call but not calling, and stringing me along. The last tim...

How can I be sure my crossdressing fiancee isn't gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - hi, i am a 39 year old mother of 2 kids... i met a wonderful man about a year ago.. he has been honest from the begening with me about his crossdressing, and i thought i could except it i really try, but recentally i have been having suspesions..... ...

I really like calling her, but I don't want to annoy her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - We are together for almost a year. We seldom meet. I miss her a lot. Whenever I feel I want to talk to her, I will call her. I know I have been calling too much, 2-3 times everyday. She did tell me she get annoyed by that. I have tried not to cal...

My boyfriend wants me to go away "for a few days" over and over. Am I smothering him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year and 3 months. When it started he was the sweetest person and was always with me and very carming and we just fell in love we were perfect...but lately hes been acting funny, he wants me to ...