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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why would she jump the gun like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - hi, i was recently broken up with. we went out for 10 months. arguing was happening, we had problems. i wanted to sit down, relax, and talk about our issues and feelings with each other. most of the time in the past she would think problems would ...

Me and my girlfriend had a huge argument and she hit me!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend had a huge argument and she hit me. I dont mean like a slap a full on attack. I dont know what to do i really love her, im walking round with bruises all over my body. This isnt the first time she has lashed out at me wha...

I got on my boyfriend's PC, he was talking with this girl and they were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Hello. Recently i managed to hack into my boyfriends internet account and found him talking to this girl at work. They were saying that they liked each other and that I was a complication! Although you can see nothing actually happened. In Januar...

Since we started seeing one another we've not been as close. How can I get things back to what it used to be like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - ive been seeing this boy, Sean for about two months. at first we were just really good friends, but everyone always told me that he really liked me. however, i ignored it and we continued to be close friends. about two months ago when we started ...

I lost his number and asked him for it again but he said no.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - i don't no what to do? help ok i really like a guy at work and i heard he likes me so i gave him my number and he text me so i could have his number i was so happy. He's 22 and im turnin 17 next month and don't worry he knows. but i deleted his nu...

My girlfriend and I live far apart and sometimes when I call her she makes jokes that I dont like too much.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I live far apart and sometimes when I call her she makes jokes that I dont like too much. For example, I called her and said "Hey, what you up to?" and her reply was "I was just thinking about fooling around with my boss". ...

I am crazy about my cousin, should I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Dear agony aunt I love my own cousin who lives abroad whereas i live in the uk i have been to his country twice for a holiday and a personal reason i have got to know him through his family but the thing is he or i have never had the guts to talk...

Is it just the commitment phobia or he is behaving normally and my thinking is wrong??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Hi all, I am ankita from India. I have just got engaged a months back (It will be an arranged marriage) and the boy is working in a different city (So we dont meet actually). He calls me nearly everyday but we talk for just 10-12 minutes. Initially, ...

She always wants her own way and throws tantrums.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - I'm writing to ask what I should do in my current situation with my girlfriend. We have been together 3 months now and it's all been pretty much fantastic. Since our first date we have been with each other everyday since and apart from the odd ...

He is still a part of my life and I have deep feelings for him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - dear cupid, i used to really like this lad x we used to be really close we were sorta seeing each other but had to keep it a secert becasue our friends didnt get along and forbidded us from seeing each other we kissed and i wanked him off and he g...

My boyfriend is going on holiday with 3 female friends and it bothers me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I am in a relationship over 2 years now. Because of our belief, we don't have sex and don't sleep together in the same room, only if we go somewhere over night with friends. Now my boyfriend wants to go on holiday with 3 of his friends of his works ...

He broke it off but we still have sex! It's raising my hopes, so how do I stop since we live together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - My partner and I have been together for a long time. For the last 3 months tho, we have been living in different states, with plans for me to move in with him when I had found a job, the week before I was due to move down, he broke it off... This ...

My bf loses his temper and lashes out at me very easily and out of the blue - is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I need some advise. My boyfriend loves me very much. We have been together for 8 months and we also have an apartment together. He holds me tight and tells me he loves me. Sounds like a fairy tale right? but there are also times when he gets mad at ...

Ever since returning from France, my life has totally sucked. What can I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - this thing called life....kinda sucks when not in europe so recently i have come back from one of the greatest experiences of my life. i spent 4 full months in france studying abroad and although i hated it at first, i soon after found i loved...

I know I love him, but sometimes I feel I don't like him! We fight all the time. What can we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and 9 months now. When the relationship started everything was wonderful and perfect and i was so in love with him, it was amazing. About six months into the relationship we started fighting a ...

We had an argument and now my bf won't return my calls! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i quarrelled just this monday and he refuses to return my calls what should i do?...

My wife's dad died last night, how can I help my wife through this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - ok i hope you can help me out here. i'm 33 and my wife is 32. She lost her dad last night and it very upset. I know she's grieving and everything but I've really never seen her like this before. last night when we got back from the hospital we went ...

I want to tell him the truth that I lied but I don't know if it'll make the situation better or worse. HELP!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Hi...Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half and we just had a son together. The problem is that we live 20 mins from each other and I barely ever see him and when we have plans to see each other it's very rare he'll come over. ...

He says he was mean to me, because he 'did' like me! I am confused..any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - i am reali confused. a guy i always knew liked me just asked me out but i've neva been out with any1 and in the past he was mean to be because he likes me and was afraid. i reali confused please help!...

He's taken so I told him so I wouldn't see him. anymore..because I had strong feelings for him. Now all he does is text me constantly and flirts with me! What's going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I fancy this guy who's taken. So that I didn't mess up anything for him and his girl, I told him that I had feelings stronger than friendship for him and therefore I couldn't see him for a while until these feelings had gone ( which I thought ...

He talks about this one girl he used to date...a lot. Now she's moving to our town! Should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I have been seeing this man for almost 9 months but we have known eachother for ten years as we used to be neighbors when we were both married, we have 6 kids between us. we get along great we laugh and have a great time together I love him very ...

Why would 2 people in a close relationship have a threesome? Is this a sign of a problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - why would 2 people in a close relationship have a threesome? why would a man have a threesome with his long term girlfriend and her friend? is this the type of thing that would just happen when you got drunk or would you plan this? is this ...

Our sex life has really gone from bad to worse recently...is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Hi guys, I've been seeing my girlfriend for over a year now, and she moved in with me last month (serious, I know!) - but our sex life has really gone from bad to worse recently, only making love once a month at the most. It just seems that she d...

I moved overseas w/ my bf of several months - he just broke up w/ me and said we can live together as friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I met in September and we hit it of immediately. He was then offered a dream role overseas so he left to pursue it 6 weeks later. In December I moved over to be with him and we moved in straight together - yes far too soon but we ...

My ex won't let me see our little boy! I'm afraid our son will get the wrong idea if I take her to court! Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Okay - my ex broke up with me. We've got a little boy that i love dearly. She moved about 400 k\m away from me. I pay maintenance, but she doesn't want me to see him. Now the thing is if I take her to court, my son might get the feeling that I w...

She called me weak and said I grovelled. Then she said she was joking! I broke up w/ her - is this what she really wanted?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Sorry for posting this again but I'd hoped to get a better response. I'm struggling to get over this and maybe someone out there can help me out. I need to know if I was wrong here. I went out with a girl for 6 months, during the first 3-4, s...

She's had threesomes, a lot of past sex partners, and told me I can show our home made porn clip to anyone! What's her problem?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - I've been dating this girl for six months now and have a few doubts about her. I am just being old fashioned and silly? She's 25 and I am 30. Here's why: 20 or so sexual partners in 9 years. Can’t give an exact figure. Didn’t always go all th...

He watches porn and 'gets off', every morning! Is this why we don't have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - My bf and i have been together for 3 years now. We hardly have sex. He has a habit of watching porn and getting off in the morning. Could that be one of the reason why we hardly have sex? We had talked about this matter.His answer was because he is ...

Invited to the ex's house to visit. She spent the whole time flirting with her new bf-was she playing a cruel game with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Ok, i'm confused and need an unbiased response. My now ex-fiance and i split a year ago. Shortly after that i asked that i still see her 3yr old daughter to whom i became very attached and the child to me. She advised that wouldnt be appropriate and ...

He takes holidays, doesn't tell me where he going, his daughter tells me to leave him alone--tried to end this but can't! Help..any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Dear all, i would appreciate any advise however harsh. I met my partner 4 years ago when he was working in my area, (he's a contractor)we clicked and got on really well despite our age difference, he's 60 17 years my senior. The problem i have i...

Me and my partner are no longer getting along, I can't go on like this!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - hi everyone i hope you can help,ive sat up all night waiting for my partner to come home or phone me,he stayed out again last night he came in from work late hed been for a drink and started shouting at me saying i was in a mood again, as i asked ...

I'm incredibly paranoid towards my girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6372 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Dear People, I'm 22 and my girlfriend is 23. We've been together for about 6 months now and we both love each other. Over the past 6 weeks she has been at trainng for her work which means she spends 5 days staying at her training camp an...

Could it be that I am still a virgin at my age because of possibly low testosterone(male sex hormone)levels?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - NB: Please reply to THIS question; ignore the previous one- it was accidentally posted prematurely! I am a 27 year old male student, at University (a late starter), in the UK. My problem is that, at the age of 27 years, I have never had any se...

Can two people who genuinely care and love each other make their relationship work even if they are living two seperate lives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of three years and I have recently split. It has completely devasted me as I thought of her as my future wife. After putting the pieces together, I have come to the conclusion that the biggest reason for the break-up was because we are ...

He can't commit to me 100% as he is only "85% healed" from the previous relationship. Is this fair to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for one year and a half. I moved in with him as of September 1, 2006. I am newly divorced and he is legally separated. His wife left him August 31, 2005. He has told me he is still healing and that I need to be patient ...

My parents don't like my girlfriend and are starting to turn my head round to their way of thinking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, I'm 24 and my girlfriend is 37. I'm into her (I'm not sure I love her though) but my parents and family isn't big time. They're also not thrilled about her having a 15 year old son. They keep telling me I'm being suckered in cause sh...

She won't stop texting him and he's not interested but won't tell her plainly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - My children's father and I got back together at the end of January 07. We have a 10 and 8 year old. He was dating/sleeping with this girl for about 5 months..Nothing serious at all..He basically would go over her house late night. She really feels ...

Is it true that no parents will like their daughter’s boyfriend? Any views?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Is it true that no parents will like their daughter’s boyfriend? My boyfriend’s parents absolutely love me and want us to get married. On the other hand, my parents always try to find things to criticize about and tell me I should wait and see ...

Dealing with my bf and his ex at their daughter's b'day party. How should I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend’s daughter is having a 7th birthday party next weekend. It’s going to be at my boyfriend’s ex’s house. For some reason, I’m feeling uneasy about it. I’ve been to the girl’s birthday party last year and seeing the 3 of them together ...

He's pressuring me for sex! Break up now with him or later after exams are done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend, and weve been going out for nearly 3 months. Weve done sexual things, but not sex. We have nearly had sex, but got walked in Now when he tries, i back out, and ive decied that i dont want to, and i dont regret my decision. I a...

We're on a break as my girlfriend has said she doesn't trust me and it's driving me mad not seeing her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - I would like some input on this as its very upseting for me and i feel i have no control over the situation. Me and my girlfriend are on a break for 1 month. She feels she cannot trust me because a few weeks ago we had an argument and my ex ...

How do I decide if 'He genuinely made a mistake'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Soon after me and my ex boyfriend broke up he got together with a girl he knew. I removed myself from the picture as he had been rude and disrespectful towards me throughout the 1 year relationship and I guess he had her ready for when he broke up ...

I am vegetarian and my boyfriend told me he has a job... CHICKEN CATCHING!!!! I'm devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - Even though my boyfriend knows that I am a vegetarian for animal welfare reasons, he has accepted a job offer and gone tonight chicken catching in a chicken factory. I was appalled at his decision and asked him not to go (It is a cash job for one ...

We had an argument and he stayed out all night, checked his phone- was put on hold and heard her talking about payment for sexual services!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - hi all, in a bit of a delenma, wonder could u help me with some advice or opinions. Myself and my boyfriend are 3yrs together, we have 2yr old son. Had terrible row that lasted whole weekend, we are both very head strong people and neither of us ...

She invites me over to her house and all she does is snog her boyfriend, it's soooooo embarrassing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I'm at the end of my tether. My best friend and her boyfriend invite me over to her house. Then all they do is kiss, pull and do things infront of me that make me feel REALLY uncomfortable. They don't have any other friends becoz when they ...

I'm married but was seeing a guy at work, now he's blocked me and I don't know how to handle being around him in the workplace.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - im married but got involved with a guy i met through work, the only thing i ask was that he would be honest with me and if he wanted to call it a day just say so, that way we could stay friends and when we did meet through work there wouldnt be a ...

How do I stop myself being jealous about his ex's??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - How do I get over my bf's past? I am 23 and he is 34 and has had a lot of girlfriends. We have been together for nearly 5 years we live together and have a young baby when i met him i knew he had a past- we met through a friend of mine who was...

She doesn't really like me so why can't I just get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - Well for a starter im 13 and i like this girl and i keep putting myself down i have never really asked her out but my friends did behind my back but she says like eww or she will tell me later i know she will never date me but i cant get over her i ...

Hate his promiscuous past! How do I move on from this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. I find myself having a hard time accepting his permiscuous past. I find it hard to forget somethings he has told me about his past with other guys. Is this normal? Is this a sign that it wont work? How do ...

Should I call him or just leave it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I was talking to this guy for a while like for 6 months.I started to have feelings towards him.Then he started talking to my friends which got me mad.He also started to give me mixed signals which even got me more mad.He would call me at 2:30 am ...