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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been seeing this man for almost 9 months but we have known eachother for ten years as we used to be neighbors when we were both married, we have 6 kids between us. we get along great we laugh and have a great time together I love him very much and he says he loves me we have even talked about marriage but he is always talking about other girls one in particular he went on a date with her before he and i started dating now she is moving to our town and i am scared to death i know he doesn't see her because he and i are always together but i can't help but be insecure what should i do because it is really hurting me.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (31 May 2007):
 You need to be able to trust him but at the same time i totally understand it must be very hurtful to hear about his past relationships, so tell him you say you have six children betweeen you so you need to be able to move on leaving the past behind and concentrating on your relationship, i totally believe talking about everything in a relationship you need to be completly open about everything it makes for a stronger relationship. xx.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (30 May 2007):
 Voice your concerns to him immediately. If he starts acting funny, pack your backs, put the divorce papers on the table, get custody of the kids, and leave. Unless all that happens, trust in him.
DV1
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