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Archived questions from: 1 May, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Have I blown it? Has she gone off me? I don't know what to do now!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - I need help. I really like this girl that I've known for nearly a year but we've only got close recently. We both go to a dance school but at different places and we only see each other on Wednesday's at our Elite dance school. She lives about 30-45 ...

I don't seem to be able to trust my boyfriend, I know he loves me to bits, it's just me... I can't help it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - i dont seem to be able to trust my boyfriend. i love him and i trust him with my life but when it comes to other women being around him it drives me crazy. anywhere where hes goin out with girls and friends and things, i want to be there. There ...

There are 8 of us living in a 3 bedroom house and it's driving me up the wall!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - dear cupid... i dont know what to do. i have a really bad home life and its driving me up the walls. my parents are divorced and my mum currently has a boyfriend who lives with us along with his four kids. but the problem is only one of them is o...

Please help, I feel my relationship is dead.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Dear All I feel my relationship is dead :( Basically, I was in love for the first time with an amazing girl. I had never loved someone like I did her and I'm not one of your average under sixteen teenagers who has an alleged 'girl friend' eve...

Please help me, I don't want to lose someone so important just because I'm scared.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Im not the type of girl to fall in love... im not the type of girl who falls in love like most of my mates. I tend to stear clear of deep relationships because i know they end up with tears and broken hearts. ive been with my boyfriend now...

I know she likes me and god I like her, I really want to tell her but don't know how to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Hi me and this girl have been best friends since we were at juniors. For the past 3 yrs i have started to have feelings for her but i've kept them to myself. But these past few months its getting impossible for people not to notice. Everytime i was ...

We are both so insecure in our relationship, will things EVER get any better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Hey,, ive been with my boyfriend now for 3 months and have already had our fair share of problems. The thing is that we are both so insecure with ourselves that its nearly bloody impossible to keep our relationship goin. Our annerversay was this ...

What's the chance of this actually succeeding and, if not, how long can such relationships last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - This one is long, but my ultimate question after I have described the following relationship is, what's the chance of this actually succeeding and, if not, how longcan such relationships last? I have a 22 y/o guy friend who has been in a long-d...

I can't stop thinking about my girlfriend's previous partners.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriends previous partners Okay, I really need the help of the DearCupid Online community with this issue I'm having with my girlfriend of a year. I'm a 24 year old male, in a serious relationship with a 20 year old girl. We...

He says he'll never cheat on me again and wants me back but how do I know his affair was a one off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I have just had my divorce finalised to my husband of twenty years. We divorced as he had an affair for a few months with a 20 year old prostitute. He finished it after we split. Problem is that a few days ago we started being friendly to one ...

Three weeks ago my bf's ex-wife had moved back to town with her bf. They had a big fight and next thing you know she moved in with us with her 5 kids.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I have been with the same guy for a year and a half. Like most relationships it has had some bad times but more good times. We (until recently) had a 3 br apartment and 1 roommate. The roommate has three small kids and works part time. Three ...

How can I bring her closer to me emotionally even if she dares not to break her marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - I'm involved with a married woman and i do not want to lose her, I really love her so much and she is confused and she does try to forget me to make believe that is worthless trying. How can I bring her closer to me emotionally even if she dares not ...

She went on to say that in a relationship you should be willing to give up anything if you really love the person in your life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I am a lesbian. Recently my ex girlfriend said she wanted to have a relationship with me. She was adamant that I was the person she really wanted to be with. She has been back and forth between me and another person for years and it was very ...

We have lived together just over a year and our contract is due to run out in 2 months and he wants to find seperate places to live.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I have a wonderful boyfriend and I love him to pieces and can't bear to think of my life without him but recently he's started a new job and we dont see each other much as he's working 50 hours at a restuarant then moonlighting at a secuity job ...

He chose to get drunk with his friends instead of spending time with me and it really hurt and angered me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I recently had an argument with my boyfriend for not showing up when he was supposed to - he chose to get drunk with his friends instead of spending time with me. He apologised the next day, but only spent a couple of hours with me and went out with ...

I'm not long married and fancy the pants off my husband but I feel our sex life is going down the pan!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Help, i just married a few weeks ago, and sex is so boring. we are both in our 50's and i think my sex drive is higher than his. I have tried dressing up - he isn't interested. Sex was ok before marriage but now its going down the pan and i am ...

Why can't we just see how things go instead of just being "friends?" Has he led me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm from Romania, but I am living in Britain while I am at University. I have tried internet dating as I was lonely in the UK and have met several guys, but now I have a problem. I feel really confused. I have been dating a really nice guy for ...

I don't know whether she likes me or what she is thinking since I kissed her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - I work with a girl who told my workmates that she really fancied me. I decided not to let on that I knew. We went out as a group last week, had a laugh and she kissed me at the end of the night. I really like her but am not sure if she's had second ...

I love my man but hate his drinking habit! What can I do about this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend but i hate his drink habits. I don't like drinking so we are quite opposites in this area. He used to drink 5 or 6 cans of beer a couple of years ago in the evening after work which when i asked to cut back is now down to 2 or ...

Im really hurt by what his family say to me, he doesnt care and says I'm taking it too personal!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I have been married for 7 years but from the begining my husband familiy made it clear that they don't like me even now they still make me feel unworthy by saying little comments here and there but my husband thinks that i take things to personnaly ...

Our sex drives are different, I sought attention elsewhere, nothing happend sexually, but now she doest trust me!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Been married to a gorgeous girl for 3 years and we have a 6 month old daughter. I love my wife very much but we have very different sex drives. Mine is high and hers is low. When we don't have sex for a length of time I feel undesirable and I crave ...

He said he goes to his ex when hes angry with me to know what his options are ! ! !

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I met a man 2 months after my son passed away from cancer. We have been dating 1 year and two months. After 5 years alone I let my walls down to allow him into my life. I immediately fell in love and trusted him fully until I found out he went to a ...

Since the birth of my 2nd child we rarely have sex, is there anything we can do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - i am happly married with 2 children. i am in my mid 30s. i love my husband very much and he too loves me very much. so far we ve never faced any problems. but, after my 2nd delivery, my husband and i hardly had sex. infact, we have sex once or ...

My husband of 22yrs has never truly desired me, I dont want to feel like his room mate, I want to be his wife!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I have been married to the same man for 22 years. In all those years, my husband has never really acted like he truely desires me. Very few kisses and even less hugs. Even in the beginning there never has been romantic moments like hand holding and ...

My bf is the "Picture Guy" Am I being dramatic by seeing it as more ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Ive been dating my boyfriend for about five months now, and ever since I met him he's been known as "The picture guy"...When everyone's out he takes all the drunken pictures and sends them to them by email so they can have them. Alot of them are ...

She moved out after 6mths, still has feelings for me, but things are not the same we are drifting!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - Girl im dating moved out after 6 months with me.Says it felt to much like marrage and does'nt want to be married right now.She says her feelings for me haven't changed but I can feel us drifting a part.Have'nt been intamate in over a month due to ...

He's blowing hot and cold with me and I don't know whether he's really interested or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - hi, there's this guy, that i work, that i've had feeling for, for sometime, about 4 years ago he tried to hit on me, but i declined as i was going out with his best friend, the problem is that i cant stop thinking about him, i broke up with my ex ...

Is it me or am I fighting a losing battle and should I just walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I've been dating a guy for over 5 years. In the beginnging, things were great. He lived with me, told me loved me all the time, and wanted to be with me forever. Now for the last 2 years, nothing. He says he's bitter about marriage and because ...

I seem to date guys for a week or so then get bored. Why does this keep happening?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - In the past month or so I have gotten in a routine of dating guys for only a week. This is my fourth boyfriend in the past two months. They weren't meant for me but I really like the guy I'm with now. The only problem is it's been a week and I ...

My aunt keeps trying to seduce me and I'm losing my will to say no!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - my aunt tries to seduce me a lot of times by showing her cleavage and tight ass but I keep a control over myself....... but it's unbearable and I'm losing strength to oppose... and can't say to my parents.. it will not be long before I end up ...

How come I keep going for the girls that don't like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - How come I keep going for the girls that don't like me? I cant seem to get this girl I really like. She won't go out with me. I have been asked her out 6 times since I told her how I felt, so I don't think it's a matter that I am repulsive or ...

My son's father and I have broken up after a rocky 7 year relationship but I still worry about him. How can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I love my son's father. We were together for 7 years. We had a rocky 7 year relationship. There was physical and mental abuse involved. We still talk but I find every time we talk we argue. He was my first and only one I ever did anything with. I'm ...