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writes: My girlfriend and I are in our late 40's. We have been living together for about 7 months and have talked openly about marriage in the next year or so. The problem I have is that whenever I suggest doing something with my friends or family she seems to get really stressed about it. It is to the point that I don't even suggest stuff anymore. There is no problem doing stuff with her family or friends, it just seems to be doing stuff with "my side". I love her family and friends and enjoy my time with them very much, but I just want her to meet my friends and not be so stressed when she is around my family (which she has seen 3 times in the last 7 months). My family loves her and there is no friction there. When I ask her about it she says there is no problem and says let's go over there so they can "see her". I don't know, is this the way it is nowadays? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, questiongirl718 +, writes (31 July 2007):
Maybe she is just stressed because she wants them to like her alot. She might want to make this relationship happen so bad she is stressed to make a good impression.
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