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Archived questions from: October, 2006 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Hours before my Mother's funeral the man I love, is texting another woman tell her 'she is hot!"! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hi i dont really know if you could call this a problem, i suppose its quite obvious what i should do but i really just need someone to say it! Ok, so i'm 21 and everything has been great with my boyfriend lately, we've had our arguements in the past ...

He's more distant..and not answering my texts! What should I say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - Hey this is mainly aimed at guys but anyone who can help will be appreciated! I am 16 and have been with my boyfriend of the same age for 5 months - we have a great relationship but in the last two weeks he has stopped making the effort to reply to...

He said the female bartender was hot...while I was standing there. I am upset..what do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - Hi--does anything think this was rude of my b/f? We were at a club one night with one of his buddies. We got the first round of drinks and then his friend asks my b/f--what do you think of the bartender--not loud or anything but obviously i am s...

His muslim family won't accept me as I have a child. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - i have been with my partner for 9months but we seem to have a problem. as his family won't accepet me because i have a child. as his family are muslim? really need some advice please...

I honestly want to just help her and get her away from him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

31 October 2006 (M) - I have a female friend who I love and care for very much. She is recently divorced ( for three months and were seperated for two years). She filed for the divorce because he had an affair and is keeping it going. She gave him numurous chances for ...

Why do I have to choose one of them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months now and we are looking into spending our lives together very soon. My boyfriend is going oversea for six months to travel on his own, hoping to gain more experience in his life (which he truly lacks). He ...

He is coming to stay with me for the weekend but is seeing some other girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - Ok, The guy of my dreams is coming to stay at my house for the weekend. Neither of us are into flings, and he has told me he likes me, and i like him a lot.. he has made a move on me a few times before, and i have always said no, thinking i was his ...

I had a dream that my bf was texting my ex-friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hi! i have abit of a problem but im not surr if it is a problem or just my paranoid mind! i fell out with my best friend in june sometime and we havent been in touch since then but my bf had her number in his phone but it wasnt stored under her name ...

I'm jealous because he can't let go of the mothers of his children

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - i met my partner two and a half years ago, we had an affair, he left his wife and moved in with me eighteen months ago. he has two children with the wife and another little one who lives ten minutes from us. my problem is that neither of the two ...

I can't just forget everything in a minute

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - i have a very strange problem i love my bf he loves me too but offlate we have been fightin a lot for stupid reasons we make up at the end but then when he starts makin me feel good i kind of feel awkward and i back off, it has never happened to me ...

Caught between my partner and daughter!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I have a problem. My 22 year old only daughter, from my previous marriage, "Jane", who is a senior in college, has fallen in love and become engaged to a 31 year old carpenter, "Don", who has 3 young children by 2 different mothers. Jane and Don ...

What have I done wrong??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

31 October 2006 (M) - Hello Just looking for some realistic and professional advice to my problem. If you can provide me with a solution(s) then it will be very much appreciated, thank you. I am a 41 year old male. My situation is very unique and complex to me bu...

Can anyone give any tips on coping with failed relationships?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - Can anyone give any tips on coping with failed relationships? I am a 33 year old attractive and intelligent woman, who has (unfortunately) had the worst luck when it comes to relationships. I've been broken hearted more times that I care to rememb...

When I told him how I felt..all he said was 'he was glad'? What on earth does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - well. i met someone at college he is a really great guy. i told him i liked him and he says he is glad i told him. what does this mean?...

Fell n love with him and now he wants time apart! I am hurting..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - So, I recently met this guy and I feel as if I fell head over heals for him. Thing is, he just got out of a marriage a little over 3 months ago and is/was starting to get strong feelings for me as well. Now, he just wants to have time apart because ...

My gf was upset because I didn't see her the minute I got back from my holiday! Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - I just got back off holiday and i missed my girlfriend lots and wanted to come home early especially to see her. I wanted to see her as soon as possible but she was busy working and stuff so I went out to the cinema to see a film we had previously ...

I liked him but he only talked to me for fun..not because he felt the same way. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - well i m here again. the guy i luk called simon well sed he was a playboi n tht he only talked to me for fun he made me cry so but today i found out tht it wasa ll just an act he put up to tell me tht i deseved better than him wat do i do? he doe...

I don't want to put the pressure on him about me moving, so what should I do???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - Guys - I will try to keep this short. Any help is so much appreciated. So, I have posted before about my boyfriend who lives in Ireland. I live in the UK. WE have been together two years and the general consensus is that I will one day move to ...

I thought he was taking me for granted, but now I haven't talken to him!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - thers this blokes whos 25 and im 18. he says that he likes me and wants to get to know me. he always takes me out and this has been going on for just over 6 weeks now. but hes still not mentioned a relationship! also friday just gone he let me down ...

Completely lovesick over my Cypriot. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - i have just come back from a holiday in cyprus and met this gorgeous man who worked out there. he took me out and didn have to pay a penny. he said it was a miracle to meet me. i haven felt like this about anyone he was so romantic, and caring and ...

Left our spouses, but now he doesn't know what he wants....what should I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6603 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I got married August 2006 after living with my partner for 5 years, our relationship was more a convenience that anything else and I always had strong feeling for someone who worked at the same company as I did. Having been married for 8 months I ...

Is my boyfriend interested in this other girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I need some advice! I wanted to ask people whether they thought my boyfriend could possibly becoming interested in someone else. Being emotionally involved its hard for me to make a decision about whether he is or not! Why I think he is, is ...

Do I risk it all for a younger guy, with no certain job prospects that I love with a constant desire I have not felt with my bf? Is this a long-dull-period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I fell in love when I was 19 and have been with the same guy ever since (now I am 25). 2 years ago he went overseas to pursue higher education and we've been dating long distance in the meantime (I stayed on to study locally). We always plann...

I think I scared him. Should I back off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - Hi there, I am so unhappy. I have been seeing a guy a couple of months and have started to really like him. He has been in several relationships beforehand but nothing serious in the last few year. I met him the same week I split up with my...

Should I break up with my gf of 2 months? She kissed her ex because he is depressed and lonely.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Hi there Ive been going out with my gf for 2 months now things were going gud. I live 3 hours away so i do get to c her that often mayb once a month. Last week i went over and she told me that he xboyfreind had kiss her. She did not like it but ...

How can I contructively deal with negativity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I am feeling abit down and frustrated with myself because of the way I let people treat me, mainly regarding my boyfriend but also a few of my friends. I was quite hurt by the way my boyfriend treated me on his birthday (he initially invited me to ...

Caught my fiance looking at porn...with local girls!!!. Should I be worried?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my fiance for over 3 years now I recently caught him looking at porn.The thing that bothered me the most was that he was looking at girls in the same town.I love him to pieces but I am so confused.Should I be worried?...

He left all my belongings in bin bags outside my door! What should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - need some advice plz, i phoned my bf yesterday to ask him what time he was coming to pick me up and he said he would pick me up at tea time which i said that was fine. so at 7.45pm he still hadn't picked me up so i phoned him again and he was in the ...

I like him and we had sex 7 times. Do you think it's too late to suggest having a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - I been talking to this guy for like two months we had sex about 7 times it like he only calls me on the weekends because he acts like he have so much going on because he hangs out side alot he told me he didn't have a girl friend and now I want more ...

Seeing my ex brought back emotions for me and now my fiancee is upset.What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my Fiancee for a little over 2 years, but before that I was in a serious relationship with someone else, we'll call him T. for over 5 years. However, our relationship was very rocky and he cheated on me and got ...

His friends told my bf they saw my profile on a website. Now he thinks I am after other men! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now, we are very much in love, or so i thought. Everything has been fine up until last month... His friends saw me on Hi5, a friendship profile website and have wound him up i am searching f...

He never takes me anywhere because he says "I act weird". What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - is something wrong with me or him? been dating for over two years. waited for him while he went into the military, but since he's been home, it's like pulling teeth to get him to spend time with me. he says he won't take me to his company picnic, no ...

Everything about him is great apart from his underwear!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and am getting obsessive about his underwear. He's kind, funny, good-looking and sexy. But he wears the most revolting old Y-fronts and grotty briefs and the sight of them turns my stomach. He thinks it's ...

I need more attention from my fiancee..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - hi, i'm hoping for some advice on a problem that i am experiencing. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have recently become engaged. I am very much in love with him, he is my soul mate and i couldn't imagine being without ...

Was he keeping her on the backburner

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - last nite we were watching some parts of a movie( we are together for a year and a half) and it was about a guy and a girl who are just friends and obviously they wind up not being just friend---i casually say--guys and girls can't just be friends ...

All we do revolves around sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - I am 'meeting' up with this older guy (31) we met a year ago (i am 18) but all we do revolves around sex. We meet up every couple of monthes when he is working near me, he'll call me when he is horny to talk about sex we never had a proper ...

I was into him right up to the point when he started hitting on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6604 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - My ex bf's mate has made it clear that he wants to be with me. I'm confused because I really liked him when I was still in the relationship with his mate, infact I was into him right up to the point when he started hitting on me. Now I'm really ...

My wife's sister is seducing me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

28 October 2006 (M) - my wife's sister seducing me for long time now,she is older than my wife(32),more cute and very nice french body,she is visiting us regullary,and spend some nights and days with us,and her mum too.going to the beach,hotels,swimming pools with us,she ...

She wants her space and freedom but still wants my money

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

28 October 2006 (M) - ok now i really don't know what is going on... Me and my gf (ex now...) broke up 2 months ago, she said she wanted some space and that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore. I love her dearly, and treated her with all my love when we were tog...

I can't compliment his penis now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - Help please. My partner has somehow got it in to his head that I am not satified with his male anatomy. He believes this because I haven't specifically commented on his anatomy directly over the course of our relationship. I have always told him ...

My best friend also likes my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - Hey guys. I really like my boyfriend and I care about him. And there's my best friend (aka also a relative of mine), I talk to her about everything. We are practically like sisters. But one problem is that she likes my boyfriend. She is always ...

How do I come to terms with my fiancee kissing another man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

28 October 2006 (M) - i have a trust issue with my fiancee and it is over a stupid kiss that someone gave her . when i asked the meaning of it she became very evasive and till that point we never had an arguement . the fact is i saw it and she denied it! if it was so ...

I think I'm in love with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - I am i 16 year old girl and i think im in love with my best friend....i dont know tho...i want it to be lust more then love..but he has that thing about him..we were dateing but broke up.....i dont want to hurt him again...but i really think i love ...

Should i lie to my folks

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - My bf is leavin the country soon we both stay in different cities he cant come n see me and now he wants me to come there, i have to take a lot of risks if i really wanted to see him but still he wants me to come.my folks will never let me go if i ...

I've never cum

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

28 October 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for 1 year now. She doesn't really like to give me head but she has started to do it more...anyways out of about 10 times I've never cum...what can i tell her to do to make it better? I don't know what to ...

Sex buddies and friends, until Tuesday

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Ok, so I broke up with my bf 4 weeks ago after an on/off relationship of about a year. We were then sex buddies and friends, until Tuesday when he got a new girlfriend. But then the day after that he rang me saying he was lonely, came over and had ...

His mood changed really suddenly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Hi, I had the weirdest experience with my boyfriend tonight. We were collecting our scholarships and it was the first time my parents had met his. We hadnt seen each other for a week and he had been more distant than normal e.g texting me less, no...

I've never turned down a guy in my life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I had a relationship with S for 4 months, and he had a mate, M, that i really liked as we really hit it off. But My relationship with S ended 4 weeks ago, and today M was hitting on me. I have some serious hang ups at the mo, part of the reason me ...

Well, I'm no saint

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

27 October 2006 (M) - Subject: Almost 20 years married, no sex for almost 8 - ready to finally leave. I never thought I'd be in this dilemma. I just hope this experience will help someone. I've been married to the sweetest and kindest woman I know for almost ...

He was perfect why did he change so quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - does he still love me as before? i have a relation for almost 5 years we were so perfect love each other. he always took care of me. ofcorse we had problems like any1 else. i noticed that after 2 years of our relation istarted to discover that he ...