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writes: My ex bf's mate has made it clear that he wants to be with me. I'm confused because I really liked him when I was still in the relationship with his mate, infact I was into him right up to the point when he started hitting on me. Now I'm really confused and i'm no doubt confusing him too with my mixed signals. What's going on? Reply to this Question
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reader, jack23 +, writes (30 October 2006):
 I think the excitment of knowing that you cant/shouldnt do anything with him is what caused the major attraction. Thats what was making you think the way you do. Now that there is less reason for you to worry about gettin caught makes the excitment less and there for the attraction less.
This is a common feeling with people, but is an area better left alone, as it can hurt people where it is not needed.
Hope things makes sense to you :)
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