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Archived questions from: July, 2006 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is there some other woman in his life? Is that why he's so mysterious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - Hi, I have a child by a man who lives more than an hours drive away from me. He visits often and adores the child, who is only 6 months old. I have told him I want us to get back together and he says he is unsure because he doesn't know if we get o...

He controls my life and treats me like something he scraped off his shoe, but I always come back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 18 years old and have been seeing my boyfriend on and off for two years. At the beginning of the relationship things were great but then about 10 months ago we split up as I decided to end the relationship as he started becoming ...

I can't leave him - there's hope he'll change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - kris and I have been together for 6yrs and we live together. We both own the property together. Kris used to smoke dagga and he became lazy and sloppy, I found myself doing every thing around the house, well he just sat on his computer playing ...

Does this comment mean he doesnt want to get married again ? or did he feel on the spot ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - I was at a party on Friday night with my boyfriend when one of his friends said he reckoned I was going to be his future wife. His other friend agreed and said he could see us either being married within 2 years or at least engaged by then. My ...

I feel afraid of making a final commitment, anyone have any advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

31 July 2006 (M) - I've been in a relationship for the past couple of months. Things have been pretty intense and we have a very good connection. We've talked about a long term future together - marriage, family, etc and I've enjoyed these conversations. My problem is ...

He's afraid to love again, should I hand in there or move one ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now. He has had a bad experiance in the past (about 4 years ago) where he was in love with a girl, and was going to marry her. However she cheated on him with one of his best friends, they broke up ...

It's either my fiance's way, or the highway, and I'm tired of being manipulated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6695 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - Hi! I have been engaged for 3 years. We have been going through some time with long distance because of job situations. We have had ups and downs in the relationship but managed to work it out for the time being. I feel that if my fiance doesn't ...

My partner's surprise announcement has left me reeling!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - My partner of five years has recently told me that about 10 years ago she was seriously sexually assaulted. She has recently decided to prosecute the man concerned and has been in touch with the police. She tells me that one of the reasons for ...

How can I miss her if she won't go away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - How do I tell my girlfriend that being together ALL the time may not be such a healthy thing? Not counting work, I can't be away from her for more than a few hours. She gets very upset and starts asking "Why don't you want to be with me?" or "Why do ...

She comes home from work drunk, and she's cheated on me numerous times! Should I stay or go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. Last summer she got a new job at a bar, hoping to make some extra money. The problems in our relationship started there. She would come home drunk almost every night of the week. At ...

He gets what he wants, then he's a total stranger. Are we just together for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Hi Lately every time I sleep with my guy, afterwards he acts like a total stranger. Then he never seems to want to hook up with me for ages afterwards. It's starting to depress me. It makes me feel cheap. Does this mean he only wants me for sex?...

My parents are confusing me, but I have the right to privacy dont I ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - My parents confuse me because they talk about marriage in the future and say 'It's not worth getting married' or 'People don't bother getting married these days, i wouldn't bother' and things like that. Yet they hint about sex, and say that thats ...

He said im a tease and asked for sex, im not ready as im not sure if I've mistaken friendship for love

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Sorry, so long... I have been seeing my boyfriend for four months now(Friends for 2 yrs in col before got together) and we are extremely compatible in many ways, except he has slightly different interests to me when it comes to careers, as i am...

Was I right to forgive him so easily ? I cant now get the image of his cheating out of my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Please help. My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years, and have had our ups and downs like most couples do......... Lately a lot of things have come out into the open as he has had a tendency to bottle things up and try to handle them ...

We are both from different backgrounds but like each other alot, should I though just stick with his friendship ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - I am absolutely infatuated with my “friend” and him with me. We met while I was working abroad (for six months) and quickly formed a friendship. Three months later, we began to date, knowing too well that my time overseas was limited. Four weeks ...

How do I stop myself from checking up on my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit now and at the moment he is on a trip away with his friends in amsterdam. he is a really good guy and i dont think he'd ever cheat on me cuz he has good morals and he told me he wouldnt. Its just that ...

She no longer wants to have sex and won't tell me why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6692 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - Recently my girlfriend of 1 year has decided she no longer wishes for us to have sex. She will not give me a reason, and when i ask her why she does not want to she says, i dont know. I can deal with waiting for a bit because i love her dearly, but ...

His wandering eyes beat up my self-esteem but he denies doing it

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - My partner has a sneaky way of ogling women. I have tried lots of approaches to get him to a) admit it and b) stop it. When he is ogling I smile knowingly looking closely at him or obviously stare where he is staring, even though I'm cringing inside ...

We planned to go out then he couldnt go, I still went he says I now dont care...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had aranged to go to thorpe park together and some how it was called of . me and my friend decided to go and he now thinks i dont care about him and he is really angry with me but i love him so much !!!!...

Still thinking about my friends husband.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - Still thinking about friend's husband (March 28). Now he is my friend's ex-husband. My feelings have deepened for him and we still talk/text nearly everyday. He never initiates the contact but always responds immediately to my calls/texts. It has n...

Ive been with my guy for 2 months, I know hes not the one but hes head over heels what do I do!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6696 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - hi please help im having problems falling for my boyfriend....ive been with him 2 months now, and hes a lovely lad. he'd do anything for me even if he went out of his own way to please me he would, he deseves the world.....hes that head over heals ...

I want to keep my fiance from knowing that I've had sex before!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - I'm in a very weird situation. My wedding is coming up in about a year with the guy that I haven't told that I've had sex many times before, due to some family and personal reasons. And I kind of do want to keep it a secret from him because I'm ...

How do I control my the little brat inside me who says awful things to my partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6697 days ago

29 July 2006 (M) - How can I stop letting my partner down? I don't know what is wrong with me sometimes. My partner and I have just moved into our dream house and I keep messing things up. We have been together for four years; the past three have been spent li...

I tried to call off the wedding, but it caused an uproar so I still went through with it, but I now have doubts about my husband!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6694 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - Please help, I am so lost and I need some direction!! I have been married for a little over a year. I got married to a guy I met in college. We dated for about 4 years. Through the engagement I really started to feel like something wasn't right, I...

I could stand lots of kissing in the beginning but now my gf wants to kiss and kiss and I dont want to as much, is this normal ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

28 July 2006 (M) - When I first started going out with my girlfriend we kissed and kissed and kissed all day and whenever we saw each other i could stand lots os kissing. We have been going out now for just over 8 months and I find kissing slightly annoying at time...

We broke up because of the age gap, I still madly love and crave him and cant bring myself to sleep with someone else, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6697 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - Hello all,I have posted before concerning my boyfriend who broke up with me because of our 17 years age difference.I'm a 24 years old female and thr truth is that though I have tried so hard to let go and move on without him,it just seems so ...

I feel like my boyfriend of 5 years is moving further away from me!.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6697 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for five years but i feel he is moving further away from me. I really want to marry him but when i approach the subject he gets angry. How can i make him more interested and spend time with me?...

He says he wont get rid of the pics of the ex until we are married, why cant he do it now!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6697 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - Me and my fiancee are planning our wedding. We have been together a little bit over 5 years and 1 1/2 years engaged. But he still has an album in his bedroom with pictures of his ex girlfriends,(8-15 years old pics). I saw these pictures when we ...

My Girlfriend is pregnant, and has gone off all sex or physical contact, what should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6697 days ago

28 July 2006 (M) - hi, my girlfriend is 15 weeks pregnant. and over the past month things have really gone sour. at first things obviously changed as her hormones were all over the place, but we were still quite happy. now for the last 3 weeks plus she has gone off ...

What can I do to stop myself keep going back to him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - I go to an all girls school so i dont have contact with many boys. However i do know a few from before high school and i have been intimate with one of them. the thing is he treats me awful but i alway go back to him. i cant help it im scared of ...

I'm engaged to my Air Force man, but can't help thinking the distance has made our love fade!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6696 days ago

28 July 2006 (?) - I am engaged to be married at the beginning of October to my Air Force man, but for the past month or so, I've been having doubts. I thought it was just a case of the jitters or cold feet, so I've been sort of blowing off the thoughts in my head. I ...

How can I stop stressing about losing everything!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6698 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - I'm just having one main difficulty in life right now, and that's my own thoughts and security in my relationship with my boyfriend. I feel that I have a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend. He is always telling me how much he loves me and is ...

I really need my friend to stick up for me in court, but she doesn't want the hassle!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Hello I was wondering if somebody could give some advice. Recently I was raped by my boyfriend. He is now my ex but my best mate was the first person I saw, spoke to and told about the incident, and she won't help me get justice done because...

My boyfriend can't decide whether to settle down with me for a while, or look for thrills with someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months now. The relationship is a pretty good one--we enjoy each other's company, laugh, joke and talk a lot, we share a lot of the same interests and hobbies, don't argue a whole lot. He is very ...

His cannabis use is dividing us! Should I move on or just accept it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6698 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 months now. We are an awesome couple when things are great! But I don't know if I should leave him or not because he smokes weed. I don't like it. He says he'll stop when we are more serious about ...

Ive met a guy who my parents say is "out of my league" should I do what makes them happy ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6698 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Have met a guy who my parents consider out of my league. They think i can do better, maybe i can but i've fallen for this guys kind caring ways. At same time i don't want to let my family down - do i just move on in the hope that someone better ...

I met a nice guy a month ago, he now tells me he cant father children, I want children so should I end it ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Met a nice guy but a month into the relationship he tells me he can't father children due to medical reasons. I'm not sure whether to continue the relationship, am i being selfish? I would love my own children....

Am I paranoid for thinking this means he cheated ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6698 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Hello My b/f and i dont see each other every night..every few days..so when we do sleep together--the first time is kind of fast if you know what i mean and then the 2nd time is usually longer..last night the first time was longer than usual and w...

How could I go about rebuilding trust, I really didnt do anything intentionally wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6698 days ago

27 July 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid I finished up a practicum at the Ministry if Child and Family Development some months ago in a counselling role. Since the ending of my practicum I have sporadically kept in touch with a 15 yr old girl via email who was having a p...

I feel very insecure and not sure what to do, one minute we were to buy a house together, now he doesnt want to do it jointly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6698 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for 18 months, I moved in with him after just two months on the condition that he sold his house because his ex used to live with him and I didn’t want to live in the house where she had been, now the house has sold and ...

We're 24 and she no longer seems like she has a sex drive... How can we deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6699 days ago

27 July 2006 (M) - I'm in a 3+year relationship with a wonderful girl, we're both 24 and live 10mins apart but every so often we have huge arguments that result in us asking each other, 'is it really worth it?' It all started around 2 1/2 years ago, not long after w...

I feel the relationship is lopsided - who needs to change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6698 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Whos fault is it? I need help, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months now but we've been having alot of problems. I feel he doesn't listen to me and he's always saying he's going to try and change or to fix us but he never does. He's ...

Are nice girls considered too sweet, easy, and/or boring?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6699 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Do nice girls make guys think too sweet/ easy and boring? Ok, all guys claim "we are jerks" because you girls like jerks, and this is us. Then what is going on in another round? My ex complained that his ex was too loud, too bossy, having mo...

I didn't want to cheat, but it was a drunkin' kiss.....now I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6699 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Recently I went on an all girls holiday for 4 nights away and before I went my boyfriend said that he had no reason to worry that I would cheat on him because he trusted me completely and knew I wouldnt cheat, anyway while we were away all of my ...

Is he just moody because we are out shopping, even though he normally loves it!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6699 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I am coming to the conclusion that my boyfriend of four months is moody, and am finding it difficult to cope with. It seems to be when we are shopping, which he loves, but all of a sudden he goes quiet and won't communicate with me. I start thinking ...

Shes suddenly belittling me and saying she feels used after sex ? not sure what her moods are about ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - Last night my girlfriend seemed a bit strange. She was perfectly fine when I first saw her and she seemed her normal self but looked a bit moody. As the night went on she went all tired and i could see the look on her face was a bit moody etc. She ...

He'd be my ideal husband except for the lies...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I am 33 yrs old, never married no kids. dating a guy for 1 year (30yrs) divorced with 4 year old. , very sweet guy, kind, generous, just my ideal husband. We were friends before we started dating so i have known him for about 2 years before that. ...

Im starting to feel Jealous about any male contact my wife has, what can I do about this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6699 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - I,m having jealousy issues. Some I feel are legitimate and others from a possible low self esteem. A man approached my wife while she was out of town visiting a friend at a popular resort town. My wife told him she was married. He hung out with...

We haven't had sex for a year...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - my husban looks at porn and goes onto chat rooms then denies it when i talk about it we havent had sex since last year iknow he is wanking to this crap. help please we have been married 20year...

I would like to get a prenup drawn up to protect the family business, he says he wont marry me if I do this, am I in the wrong ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - Hi, I am planning to get married in April 2008, my Mum and dad have a really good family run business which I have worked really hard at for the past 6 years. I have mentioned a prenuptual agreement as I would hate it to be distroyed in the...