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writes: Last night my girlfriend seemed a bit strange. She was perfectly fine when I first saw her and she seemed her normal self but looked a bit moody. As the night went on she went all tired and i could see the look on her face was a bit moody etc. She whined at me when i said that the bus trip to her house should have been 1.10 instead of 1.20, and she said 'I think i should kno love, how much it is on the bus...' in a terribly funny way! and also she knows that im quite strong as i go to the gym etc she was saying her brothers are stronger when she doesn't even know...She was basiacally belittling me i could tell clearly by the way she spoke. And also she was going on about other girls n how they could beat her up and she could beat others up .... I was so shocked as she had never been like this before. Okay she occasionlly gets a bit snappy sometimes but thats normal. But the behavious was a bit strange yesterday is this normal?!Also the other day she explained that she felt 'used' when we have sex together as i didn't give her enough foreplay. For weeks she always used too say 'nahh' too me giving her foreplay etc...because of the taste etc and because she had a few bleeding problems...And to say i was using her annoyed me because she never tells me what she wants from sex and if anyone I am the one doing all the work because she hates been on top etc...is all this normal :S?thanks
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (27 July 2006):
 Yea... testing your patience!! Well hope all works out for you, take care!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for reply.....I have started too give her more foreplay etc and shes been fine about it now so thats all sorted. But yes it does sound very babyish and immature when she talks about her brother being stronger all of sudden when she has never said that before. Just find her attitude a bit annoying at times im not sure if its the pill thats resulting in this. Last week was fine and just perfect but she has occasional days when shes not in the mood basiacally.
And I definately know she wants to be with me I can tell, im not sure if shes testing me in anyway though ...
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reader, Hot (Advice) +, writes (26 July 2006):
She def wants out, all that whining and moaning, why doesn't she just say she isn't happy with you instead of sulking and being moody? What a bitch she is for being like this. Dump her before she gets worse, why be with someone like that?!!
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reader, shania  +, writes (26 July 2006):
 It seems like this relationship is going down the pan,she also sounds immature and babyish when she talks about her brother's being stronger then you etc....so what!!!...If she isn't satisfied with the sex life you are offering then really its down to her to say what she wants...saying that though,are you giving her enough foreplay?...If she isn't fully turned on then she is going to be dry down below and probably just going through the motions.Communication is whats needed here but she might be moaning at you because she is looking for a way out...ask her if she still wants you,otherwise i would call it a day.
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