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writes: HelloMy b/f and i dont see each other every night..every few days..so when we do sleep together--the first time is kind of fast if you know what i mean and then the 2nd time is usually longer..last night the first time was longer than usual and we hadn't been together for atleast 4 or 5 days..i was thinking--did he cheat, have someone on the side? Am i being paranoid for thinking this way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2006): He is only human!! sometimes i expect you take longer to go to the toilet and its like that for us blokes sometimes it takes longer than other times for us to cum.I would very much doudt he is cheating i would put away your stop watch and give him a bit more trust im sure you have nothing to worry about just lay back and enjoy ;-)
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (27 July 2006):
 I wouldnt worry about it ... He could have just been masturbating!! Besides the longer a guy gets used to holding back the better he becomes!! Learn to trust him and dont think of the bad side straight off... this is after all a good thing isnt it!?
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reader, Smiggles +, writes (27 July 2006):
No. it is more than likely that he didnt cheat on you. alot of things could be effecting his performance. low energy levels, unhappiness or it could be stress. So heres wat you do. cook a romantic meal or take him out somewhere and make him relax. this will make him 1. relaxed 2.happier. Then just hav a long talk about things and let him know that you can relate with him and he can tell you anything. Simple
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (27 July 2006):
 I think us girls do tend to think too much about thingd and often read too much into something that could be completely innocent. There are other factors that could have something to do with his change in performance, for example, his mood or energy levels.
I don't think you're paranoid for feeling this way, you just noticed it and it made you feel uncomfortable because it was unusual. Surely him lasting longer is not a bad thing though!!! Lol.
Anyway, all I'm saying is don't jump to any conclusions. If you feel like something may be going on, do some more snooping and research and get some proper evidence before you confront him. This way, he can't talk his way out of it and you can make a proper decision based on the facts.
Good luck and I hope your suspisions are proved untrue. If you want anymore help, get in contact with me.
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reader, Lo$t +, writes (27 July 2006):
 You need to base a relationship on trust!! Do you trust your b/f? Perhaps he masturbated!! guys tend to do that... If you loose trust in him, and query, he will loose confidence and trust in you and that could lead to the detriment of your relationship. just for you being paranoid!
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