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writes: Do nice girls make guys think too sweet/ easy and boring? Ok, all guys claim "we are jerks" because you girls like jerks, and this is us. Then what is going on in another round? My ex complained that his ex was too loud, too bossy, having more sex partners than his, so definitely he can not bring that girl home. But for me, he sometimes complains I talk too less(becuase he overpowers me sometimes so I just dont want to talk, plus, in my culture, pretty and quite girls are the socially beautiful and defined as "good girls", in my childhood, my mum also accued me being ask/talk too much), I am of course very sweet to him in a romantic way, he always says I am the sweetest girlfriend he has ever had, but I just feel he has taken me for granted after dating for a while. He is not into me, I feel he is still searching for some wild girls whom he used to have. He went to bars a lot without me recently and he did not pick up my callback.He tends to ingore me and being a jerk. Time for a breakup or change of myself to be a wild/mean girl?
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (27 July 2006):
 Do not change for a man, all you will do is come to dislike what you changed into and lose the guy in the process.
It sounds like you know it is time for a change. Your guy claims, guys are jerks because that is what girls want, but you don't want that. Actually there are good/compassionate guys and jerks, there are wild/slutty girls and nice/mannered girls.
You need to find a man that fits you and treasure you for who you are.
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