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writes: When I first started going out with my girlfriend we kissed and kissed and kissed all day and whenever we saw each other i could stand lots os kissing. We have been going out now for just over 8 months and I find kissing slightly annoying at times. I just seemed too have have gone off kissing a bit and would rather kiss more less when i see my girlfriend, im not obviously gunna let this become a problem because it is my decision. I find it a bit tedious with too much kissing especially when my girlfriend just wants too kiss and kiss and kiss me for ages, i often have too break away.just wandered is this normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot for the reply...! :D!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (28 July 2006):
 I think it is normal.
After eight months together, your relationship is emerging from the early honeymoon period. Most people do what you have done, which is to spend the first few months adoring each other, and kissing like mad, but then that wash of attraction begins to settle down and you need to have more between you than just kissing.
Have you talked yet to your girlfriend about this? Obviously, you wouldn't say to her "hey, leave off kissing, huh? I'm sick of kissing all the time!", which would crush her feelings. But you might need to pull gently away from a kiss and engage her in some conversation, tell her about something that happened that day, or ask her about a topic you have in common.
It's 100% possible that she might love kissing you, but it's also possible that she's kissing and kissing because she thinks you want to and wants to make you happy. Solving this might only be a matter of discussing it.
What it comes down to, essentially, is that your relationship with your girlfriend needs to have a foundation of friendship and shared interest. Otherwise, when the initial attraction wears off, you don't have anything.
Try to intersperse some conversation in between kisses, and talk about things together.
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