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Archived questions from: July, 2005 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Rumour is that my boyfriend has cheated, and he likes to be alone when he goes clubbing. Should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7044 days ago

31 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend Dave for about a year. I have known him for four years and i have felt that i have always loved him. It was love at first sight for me, and he eventually first asked me out when I was fourteen. He was seve...

After his cheating with a woman from his work, he wants to regain my trust. But how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7044 days ago

30 July 2005 (F) - I'm 19. My bf is 23. We have been together for 8 months now. I know he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our love is magic except I just found out from a friend that while I was in Cancun he cheated on me with a woman from his ...

My girlfriend is getting advice I think is misguided and now her attitude seems to be changing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7046 days ago

29 July 2005 (M) - Some 2 months ago, after much conflict between myself and my girlfriend's teenage son, we thought it was best that I move out of the home so that we could all get some space so that we could work thru our issues. Since then, my girlfriend has said...

It just seemed convenient to get married, but now I'm unhappy all the time...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

29 July 2005 (F) - I've been married for 18 months and together with my now husband for two and a half years. My main problem is that I feel the marriage blues more often than bliss. We were basically forced to be married because I got pregnant, I was 20. He helped me ...

I finally got away from my violent ex. Should I tell his new girl what I know?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6899 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - Hello Listeners, I ended my relationsip with my ex boyfriend, unfortonately 6 1/2 years later. It took me this long because I was dead inside and couldn't find my way back to who I really was. Well I'll say he was real careful in the beginning. H...

My fiancee has asked for 3 breaks in five months. He wants freedom but he wants me, too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7045 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - My fiancee and I have been engaged for 5 months. About 3 times now, he has asked me for a break in our relationship. I always reluctantly let him, but the day after he does this he always wants me back. He wants to marry me and live a stable life, ...

Because of my past actions, my boyfriend has lost trust in me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7046 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - I am a passive-aggresive person in my relationship with my boyfriend. I have difficulty telling him what hurts me, and when he does I just play it off like it didn't hurt me and laugh about the situation. Because of this I have done things and have ...

He wanted a break, so I moved out. Now, how do I ask to come home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7043 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend & I have been together for 5 years and have currently been on a break since the end of March. I moved back to my mum's and I see him at the weekend and a few nights in the week. I feel as he wanted this break I am sacrificing a lot to...

Everything was getting me down, but I blamed it on my boyfriend. What can I do to make it up to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7047 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - Hi, My man and I have been together for 8 months. At the beginning it was absolutely fantastic. We had so much fun together and just simply enjoyed being with one another. We have the same interests and the same goals in life. We both see a fu...

My dressing up sexy for him does nothing. He tells me he's too tired for sex. Can our relationship survive this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7045 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - Does my boyfriend lie to me that he loves me if he doesn't want to have sex with me? We`ve been together for almost 2 years. But recently we just stopped having a sexual relationship. The reason is not me. He says that he is tired and doesn't ...

We've been dating for almost 3 years and he still runs hot and cold, and says he can't decide how he feels...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7047 days ago

28 July 2005 (F) - I have been in a three year relationship with my boyfriend. We are both divorced. I have two children, one 25 and other 16. He has a 7 year old. In year one we dated and did not include the children, believing we needed to know each other first. I...

My defense against the possibility of being hurt, is to attack my boyfriend. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7048 days ago

27 July 2005 (F) - Hi, Recently I have become rude and aggressive towards my boyfriend. For the first time today, I actually reduced him to tears. I'm not proud of the way I've been but how do I help him understand that it's because I am scared that he's going to ...

My boyfriend has become rude and arrogant. Even the sex is rough...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7048 days ago

27 July 2005 (F) - I need help. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years now, but recently he has changed for the worse. He has started to beome rude and arrogant. The sex has become very aggressive. I feel that he doesn't love me anymore and I have come to ...

My younger partner wants to go out with his friends when I can't! I worry that he'll find someone else...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7048 days ago

27 July 2005 (F) - I am very much in love with my partner who is 11 years younger than me. We have been together for over two years! He is only 19, but mature for his age. I don't know what to do though, as he has started to go out all of the time with his friends,...

Why is my boyfriend avoiding touching me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

27 July 2005 (F) - Help! My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. Recently he doesn't seem to want to touch me or anything. I haven't done anything but he still behaves this way. Why?...

Help! I want to move on with my life, but my cheating ex still keeps in touch!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7048 days ago

26 July 2005 (F) - A few months ago I split up from a long term boyfriend. At one point I thought he was the love of my life, and I had never been in a proper relationship before this. It ended after he cheated on me, and is now seeing someone that I always thought ...

I don't know why I've just lost interest in sex, even though I love my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7049 days ago

26 July 2005 (F) - I have been with my partner for 21 months now. Our sex life was great at first, however over the last 12 months it just seems to have fizzled out. My partner has a very high sex drive and it seems like i don't anymore. Whenever he comes on to m...

I got rid of my abusive boyfriend and I have my life back. Would it work if we visited sometimes?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

26 July 2005 (?) - I finally kicked him out. He was a very obsessive/possessive man. He verbally abused me and manipulated me. We had been together for 3 years, and lived together for 10 months. I am glad I have my life back, but I cannot help to feel sad and miss ...

We were engaged... but then he moved out, broke up and just said he needs time alone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7049 days ago

26 July 2005 (F) - I'm so confused right now. We were together for 2 years and finally moved in with each other in August. In January he asked me to marry him. We moved out in April, back in with my parents, to get out of financial debt, then a month later he b...

My boyfriend got cold and distant over our relationship, and now he blames my "hot temper" for the break up...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7050 days ago

25 July 2005 (?) - I was in a relationship for about a year and 2 months and my boyfriend and I were to be married in June. During this relationship he moved in with me and in mid September 2004 I noticed my boyfriend was in a depression, moody, anxious and somewhat...

Even though I don't want to be touched, I want to save my relationship with my boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7050 days ago

25 July 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for about a year and a half, and I used to be mad about him. I had a personal problem about 3 years ago & I can't bear to be touched by him. I have gone off sex but I really do want to be with him. I'd love to stay ...

I found out he'd advertised naked on a sex site! Now he wants me to forgive him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7050 days ago

25 July 2005 (F) - I have found out that my fiance has put a personal ad on a sex site with a naked picture of himself and asking for responses from men and woman to have exciting sex sessions. He also said some pretty nasty things about me to make people feel sorry ...

Splitting from my boyfriend showed me that I'm just not attracted to him any more. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

24 July 2005 (F) - I have just recently gotten back together with my boyfriend of a year after a brief split. We split up because from practically day 1 we moved in together. This coupled with the fact that we worked together resulted in us spending too much time ...

His reaction to my assault was unsypathetic and hurt me a lot. Should I give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7036 days ago

24 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I feel that my question somewhat difficult to answer and I know the answer ultimately has to from me but I think that it'd really help to get a couple of alternative perspectives on the matter. I have recently returned from working abroad. ...

My boyfriend is sweet and caring, but he really ogles other women!

This question has 127 answers - newest was posted 3360 days ago

24 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend is genuinely sweet and caring, but when it comes to looking at other girls he makes me feel really uncomfortable. The last episode was yesterday when we were on the train and he saw this girl sitting with her boyfriend in a short skirt. ...

He seems to go out of his way to insult me. Why am I with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7051 days ago

23 July 2005 (F) - I have recently marrried a man who seem seems hell bent on insulting me. Last night I asked him if he was talking to a dog and he said "you are a do". Last week he said his friends said I look ten years older than I am and why is he with me. H...

I love my fiancee and I don't want to lose him, so why did I sleep with another man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6911 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - I've been with my Boyfriend for 2 1/2 yrs and we are supposed to be getting married next year. A couple of days ago I slept with another man! I now dont know how I feel and I can't bring myself to look at him. My b/f knows I met up with this...

My ex's friend is interfering and I worry she could affect our reconciliation...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7052 days ago

22 July 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I've just moved out of our home that I shared with my girlfriend of 3 years and her teenage son. Because of constant conflict between myself and the teenager I agreed to move out of our home so that we could work thru our issues. ...

She's thrown me out, but I always cave in and go back to her. Now I want to guarantee we stay together...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7050 days ago

22 July 2005 (M) - Can anyone help me? I have been seeing my g/f on and off 4 3 and half years. I love her more than anything, but my relationship is causing so much tension. We have a very passionate relationship, and in the past, my g/f has thrown me out of the ho...

We're engaged to be married, but he seems to believe that it's just so we can have kids!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7053 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for the last 3 years. We are due to be married in Sept this year. The problem is we keep having arguments about a baby. I am 32 and my partner is 34. I have a daughter of 13, from a prev relationship, but have ...

Part II: He says I'm everything he wants in a woman, but he just isn't happy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7053 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - Hi. I asked a question on 18 July 2005 and got some great advice. Basically to make it short me and my man have been dating for 6 months. He started a new job working long hours and I have been stressed with work so things haven't been good. H...

I don't think I can stand my partner's drinking binges and disappearances any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

22 July 2005 (F) - High School Sweethearts. I came in the military and decided that my boyfriend, at the time, was my one and only. Once in the military, we kept a long distance relationship, and after school got engaged. Drinking became a problem, better yet, an ...

My girlfriend is jealous and clingy and she won't let me go anywhere without her...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

21 July 2005 (M) - My girlfriend is so clingy I can't do anything without her, and when I say I want to go out she cries. So I stay in cos I feel bad. She is also very very very jelous and even deletes my mates' (that are girls) mobile numbers. What do I do?...

In the 4 months since leaving my husband, my lover found someone else. I'm devastated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7054 days ago

21 July 2005 (F) - I had a four year affair with a single man who I was desperately in love with. Eventually, 4 months ago I finished it as I could no longer cope with the double life, I broke his heart but we stayed friends. I soon realised I could not live without ...

How can I stop being so dependant and give my boyfriend the space he needs?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - My name's Claire. I'm 16 and I have been in a realationship with this guy called Sam who's 18 for about 5-6 months. I met him on the internet about a year ago and we just got on so well and were best friends! I really do love him and we can spen...

My boyfriend's become distant and basically ignores me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend hs become distant and I hardly see him. When I do see him he is only concerned about his problems at home. He's a manic depressive and self harms regularily. He won't discuss things with me and basically ignores me. Also he's told a ...

We broke up, but my boyfriend still wants to sleep with me "to say goodbye"...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

20 July 2005 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and spent 3 years together...went through a miscarriage and lived together for a year. He worked overseas and after I lied to him about someone breaking into his car...he sought solace in a girl he met in his work place. Since ...

All I want is a clean break from him, but he just keeps begging me to take him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7056 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - Hi, I was in a relationship for just over 3 years which was really stressful but has recently ended. I found out that he had been seeing another lady after about 18 months & we broke up. He kept calling, sending emails & txts and eventual...

My b/f and I keep arguing over why I'm not included in his activities with his friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6905 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - Hi all, My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. Over the past six months we keep having the same argument over and over and it isn't getting resolved. I'm looking for any ideas to help me get over this so our relationship can get past...

I accidentally found something he wrote about his ex. Now I feel bad for mentioning it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7056 days ago

19 July 2005 (F) - I always assumed my boyfriend had a thing for his ex. He denied it but I couldn't shake the insecure feelings. He's o/seas for 3 weeks currently. I've recently moved into his flat and I accidentally came across something he'd written about finding ...

I could say "I love you" in other relationships, but I can't say it in this good one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7056 days ago

18 July 2005 (M) - I have been with this woman for 3 years now and am still not sure about my feelings for her. We are very close, both divorced with two children. We took a family vacation together to Paris, have spent weekends away, and see each other all the ...

We have sexual relationship before we've expressed what we feel verbally. Problem or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7057 days ago

18 July 2005 (M) - I'm 38, she's 30. We're both divorced, she more recently than I. We knew each other before we began seeing each other, but she had not dated since her divorce, I had and had recently split up with my girlfriend. We both have one child, and custody ...

After our spat I apologised, but she still doesn't speak to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7056 days ago

18 July 2005 (M) - Now I break up with my girlfriend because I tell her that she fussy to me I am feel annoyed. But when I calmed down I know that I wrong. I apologize her but she never answers me. How can I speak with her? I want to know as soon as ...

He told me he's happy in our relationship, but he doesn't love me. What does he mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7057 days ago

18 July 2005 (F) - I have been in a relationship for six months. It started as a not serious thing as we both didn't want a relationship, but after a couple of months we both agreed that we wanted it to be a relationship as we started getting close and caring for one ...

An old email has made my girlfriend think I don't want her as much as I do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7057 days ago

17 July 2005 (M) - My GF is great. She is the mother of my daughter and she also has one son. She was recently looking through my computer and found an e-mail that was sent to me by someone. It was very detailed and romantic. I no longer have anything to do with ...

Why would he protect someone else, at the expense of our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7056 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 7 months and he recently informed me he went snooping in my past and asked people at work who all I dated from there. He promised this other person he would not tell me who told. I feel betrayed because ...

My partner changed his mind about marrying me and I couldn't face a holiday with him. Now I'm the bad guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7058 days ago

17 July 2005 (?) - I am 45, my partner 53. We have been together off and on for 8 years (he would not commit). I got tired of waiting and met someone else. He begged me to go back to him and move in, which I did. He also asked me to marry him. I have always got on w...

My past history is coming back to haunt me. Now my boyfriend won't trust me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7058 days ago

17 July 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months now and he still does not trust me. The summer before I met my boyfriend was pretty crazy and I did a lot of stupid things and he knows about it all. He says the stuff I did in the past are his ...

I want to believe my girlfriend, but...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7058 days ago

16 July 2005 (M) - Two weeks ago my girlfriend spent the weekend with another man she told me they slept in the same bed but nothing happened. I want to belive she is not lying but i have my doubts. ...

Should I break up with him? He wants to date my friend, too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7058 days ago

16 July 2005 (F) - I am a problem about my boyfriend. He told me he likes my friend and he asked me if he could talk and maybe go out with my friend sometimes. Last night I was crying while I was trying to sleep. I don't know what to do. I really love him, but ...