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writes: My boyfriend & I have been together for 5 years and have currently been on a break since the end of March. I moved back to my mum's and I see him at the weekend and a few nights in the week. I feel as he wanted this break I am sacrificing a lot to make him happy as I don't want us to break up properly. I'm scared to ask him when I can come home. Please help.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (1 August 2005):
If you are scared to ask him 'when you can come home' then you are still not ready to go back to the relationship.
Surely the whole point of a break was to let the both of ypou stand on your own 2 feet for a while?
It doesnt sound as if you are doing this if you are letting him decide when you can get back together. Is it all on his terms?
Tell him you think its time that you moved back in and gave things another go and see what he asys, if he wants even more time, tell him you are not prepared to wait any longer.
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reader, Mizz-Experienced +, writes (28 July 2005):
Alex,
If your boy friend really loved you he would have stopped you both going on a break, but it seems that he doesn't love enough to have let that happened. So I personally think you should move on and find someone who would say "I love you to much for us to go on a break".
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