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writes: I'm 19. My bf is 23. We have been together for 8 months now. I know he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our love is magic except I just found out from a friend that while I was in Cancun he cheated on me with a woman from his work.I asked him and he told me it was true and how much of a mistake it was, but it helped him realize that I'm the only one for him. It gets tougher; he separates from the Air Force in 5 weeks, so he's going home to Hawaii. He wants us to be together and wants a chance to gain my trust back and to show me that he really does love me and I'm the one for him. I'm so confued. What can I do?
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reader, becky05 +, writes (1 August 2005):
Why should you tust him again? He waited until you were away to cheat on his own doorstep. Doesnt sound like he wanted to keep it much of a secret. Personally, id let him go back to hawaii alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2005): So how magic could it have been if he slept with another girl? I am trying to see that here ...somewhere. Okay so kudos to him that he admitted to it and that is commendable..but once a cheater always a cheater and even if you forgive him you will never forget him for it. So he is leaving to go to Hawaii in 5 weeks...are you comfortable with that...think before you answer! If he is sincere about gaining your trust back...then he has alot of work to do. Peace of mind is something that humans long for ..if you think that you can have peace of mind with all the hoola girls in Hawaii ...lovely. If you think he is the one for you at 19 years old ...then go for it chick. I am all for love and romance but I have learned a valuable lesson...sometimes what your heart tells you is not always the right thing to do...sometimes that nagging voice that you hear in your brain is trying to get your attention ...Good luck hun...ana
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