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writes: Help! My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. Recently he doesn't seem to want to touch me or anything. I haven't done anything but he still behaves this way. Why? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): Maybe he is just tired of being in the same relationship for 2 years. Maybe you two should take a break and see other people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2006): maybe he is just not into you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2005): Okay, so he touched you a great deal in the past, but that has stopped, recently? If you've been together for two years, there could be a possibility that the intimacy is waning between the both of you. When touching stops, it could be a indicator that something is wrong in your relationship, or a signal that you need to re-establish the comfort & intimacy you once shared with one another. You both need to identify the reasons for his lack of physical closeness (touching) and then take steps to remedy the situation. Sometimes, all it takes is a conscious effort to show your love for one another through the simple act of touching.
A common problem with many couples is that sex also becomes routine. If this has happened to you and your b/f realize that it does not have to be this way. All it takes is a little creativity and some imagination. Think of different ideas for turning each other on sexually. Go out for dinner and talk about sex all evening. Try wearing sexy clothes and working out together. Spend an entire day flirting or engaging in foreplay. Massage, non-erogenous touch. The list goes on of things you can do to spice up your sex lives. Creativity, imagination, and a little openness to some new ideas are all it takes to keep sexual intimacy alive in your relationship.
Learning about sex together by reading books or magazines, attending workshops, or watching educational videos-is a wonderful opportunity to talk with your partner about your needs, wants, desires, or fantasies.
I hope this advice has helped. Good luck and I hope things work out for you and your boyfriend. Hugs, Irish
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (27 July 2005):
 Men are so strange sometimes! One minute they're all over you and the next . . . nothing! If he has been very affectionate up until now, it would seem there is something to worry about, though.
I started to act this was towards my boyfriend when I met someone else. I'm not trying to justify what I did and I am ashamed but I fell in love with someone else and just didn't want to be around my boyfriend anymore and stopped showing him affection.
You need to talk to him and find out what's going on. Maybe it's nothing, I'm not saying it's the same as what happened with me but I do think you need to do something about it. Such a dramatic change in someone's behaviour doesn't happen for no reason.
I hope he isn't cheating, maybe he just needs cheering up. What about spicing things up with some sexy lingerie or something?! We all get a bit bored sometimes, let him know he can't live without you! Good luck :)
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