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Archived questions from: October, 2013 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Will my boyfriend lose interest when his son (to another woman) is born?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is having a baby with his ex and is due very soon, I'm worried once the babys born me and my boyfriend will grow apart as he will be looking after his son and being there for his son, I don't want that to happen me and him are very ...

How can something feel so right yet be so wrong? In love with a married man who loves me too, but also loves his wife and wont leave her.....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - I don't know what to do... I don't even know how to start. I never been on any of these sites before.. this is also a long story. I met this man at a work place..once I was working there he texted me and would flirt just a little (he had my numbe...

Should I walk away from my jealous and possessive male friend? I have a boyfriend and haven't dared tell the friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4041 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - Hi, basically I am a girl and I have this guy friend, and he told me he liked me in that way, but I don't so I let him down gently and we continued to be friends. Then my current bf came on the scene, and if truth be told I still haven't told my ...

LD Girlfriend with male bestfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

28 October 2013 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship (on the game SecondLife), and my girlfriend has a male best friend on SecondLife. They have known eachother for 3 years now or so. She is the type that only has guys friends and admits it. I've only known her ...

Am I worrying too much about my boyfriend's ex and their continued contact?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend about 4 months now. I knew before we starting dating that he was still friends with his ex and they talked often. She cheated on him and hurt him a lot, and I guess left him for another guy eventually becau...

Male friend has changed behaviour since we hooked up. What's his problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4043 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - Ok so I have a friend who is quite flirty and anyway we hooked up once a couple weeks but we don't like each other or anything. So anyway we used to talk like all the time but all of a sudden he just stopped replying to my messages and starts ...

Baby momma drama or MM who swears he's getting a divorce?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - I moved to another state to be with a man I lived with for 5 years. He moved here to be with his daughter in the mean time I met another guy back home who treated me like a queen for the short time I knew him. He wants me to move back and be with ...

I'm expecting my ex boyfriend's child and I don't know if I should tell him and break his current girlfriend's heart.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - I'm expecting my ex boyfriend's child and I don't know if I should tell him and break his current girlfriend's heart. Basically, when we broke up, we made a stupid agreement to still have sex from time to time. I ended things because I got sick of ...

My husband told me he was in love with another woman

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

23 October 2013 (F) - I do not know where to even go with this. My husband and his step-sister sat me down and informed me that they have been in love for over 30 years and that they would be together right now except they promised her dad that they would not. My ...

Unwanted attraction to my b/f's friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

22 October 2013 (F) - So I have been going out with my boyfriend who I love very much for about six months. I am so in love with him and can't imagine being with anyone else but him. I have had this problem lately and it is tearing me up that I could even have a sexual ...

Should I wait for her or should I make the move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

21 October 2013 (M) - Hi there.. I got out of a long relationship 5months ago.. I haven't seen anyone since then. I met a great girl once and since then we.ve been cahtting everyday and flirting a lot.. The problem was that she had a boyfriend at that time and I didn'...

Do you think he's found out about my hook-up? I don't want to text him because I don't want to annoy him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

21 October 2013 (F) - I went on a date with this guy and It went well, his definitely my type. We've texted each other and are always flirty and he said we definitely have to hangout again. However there was a party I went to and one thing lead to another I hooked u...

She was once his Gf and he's in contact with her. Will I ruin my relationship if I don't stop acting this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

20 October 2013 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now. My boyfriend is friends with most of his ex girlfriends, I am actually okay with this except for just one of the ex girlfriends...his serious relationship that lasted like over 2 years...

Why should I do if my mum doesn't approve?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

19 October 2013 (M) - I'm a 39 ear old guy in Dublin, and fancy 2 women. First woman is 46 years old and lives in London and we have known each other for just over a month now. I have sent her flowers and 2 gifts. The second woman is 39 and lives in Cork, and Ive known ...

The hair therapy girl is sexually provocative and hitting on my husband.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

19 October 2013 (F) - I love my husband so much, today we for hair therapy this pretty provocative girl comes n hate that my hubby got amused by her beaty i felt bad insecure n ugly plus im over weight. The girl so tall slim n high heels pretty hair n body i was so dammm ...

Am I overreacting? My boyfriend wants to add his boss' girlfriend on facebook.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

18 October 2013 (F) - I need some advice so I don't turn this into an argument between my bf and I. We've been together for 3 years. We're both in our early 30's. We don't live together but do spend weekends together and any days during the week if we can find time ...

I can't help thinking I'm doing exactly what I should not be

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

18 October 2013 (F) - I dated a man on and off for a year, all while he was still living with his ex-girlfriend for financial reasons. I was not comfortable or OK with that situation so, even though we became very close, we stopped seeing one another and he got back ...

I feel like she's trying to come between us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

18 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship (2hrs drive away) not that far but I can't see him as much as I wanted. I am pretty certain that one of his female colleague whom I also know, likes him. We use to work together, even when I was ...

After five years is asking for a commitment too much?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

17 October 2013 (F) - I'm at the end of my tether guys! I see my boyfriend once a week and when we are together things are good. Thing is when we not I feel so lonely and miss him lots. We tried to get a mortgage together but can't for 4 years cos of ny financia...

I value her as a friend, but ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (M) - Hi, I'm really not sure how to proceed with a girl I've been hanging out with who I am very attracted to. She basically has a boyfriend whom she got back together with at the same time I began seeing her. So initially I was set on dating her and we ...

My mind is on overload and I am going crazy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

17 October 2013 (F) - Hello aunts and uncle's I really need some advice here and fast before I go nuts. I have been with my BF for 7 months now and I am so in love with him, and he tells me he feels the same. we moved in together and everything is going great excep...

I want to be free and do as I please, Except he gets really jealous.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3642 days ago

16 October 2013 (F) - I have no one to discuss this with and I'm hoping someone out there could help me out. Greatly appreciate it.. So this situation is mixing my emotions up a whole lot! So I've been with my boyfriend about 3months and things are going well! Except he ...

I need some guidance about my husband's behaviour. I feel I can't trust him anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

14 October 2013 (F) - I've been married for 14 years and my husband started behaving different with me since 2 years. First of all he has many woman friends, and he is always on the phone, skype, and FB with them. Last year a female friend of him thanked me on my FB page ...

I feel like there's competition and I'll never be good enough for my boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a mutual friend who is really slim, pretty and fun. I've known her all my life and my boyfriend met her through high school. Last week I was in an awful mood and all I wanted was for him to come and see me so I text him...

I'm confused as to whether or not he likes me as more than a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - So confused. A co-worker who transferred from one of our global and I have become very good friends over the past year. His wife was supposed to transfer as well to the us but they ultimately separated and are in the process of divorcing. A mo...

My girlfirend has stopped listening to me ,,,,,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

11 October 2013 (M) - My age 19 and my partner age 16. I love her for the past 1 and a half year. Until the first half of the year everything was going well,she used to obey me,doesn't harass me etc. But after she changed her school,her character is totally changed. She ...

She's not so keen on intimacy anymore - whats wrong, me, her or the other guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

11 October 2013 (M) - I dont know what to do, my girlfriend dosent like me touching her anymore, she wont have sex as often, only once a weekend - when she does its like iv been begging and its a chore for her, we used to have it every night, the excusses are: 1: i...

My friend probably gave her one-night-stand guy chlamydia (he doesn't know it might be from her) and now I'm dating this guy. How do I ask him to get checked without exposing my friend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

9 October 2013 (F) - Hi all, I'm in a sticky situation! Straight to the point, I started university 18 months ago and quickly became good friends with a girl on my course. Since then we have been like best friends, we clicked instantly. She happens to be a girl ...

How to give a married man the brush off without causing offence?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

7 October 2013 (F) - To keep it brief, a married man who works in the same field as me has been flirting and inappropriate since an event a few months ago. I have no intention of doing anything untoward and keep steering things back to a professorial level in our ...

I really love this guy and want to spend the rest of my life with him but he left me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

7 October 2013 (F) - Hi All, Please help me out.I am so hurt. Me and my guy friend were dating for 6 months. I fell for him.He was seriously unto me and happy with me and all stuffs happened between us.He let a female friend between us and woud never stop texting ...

Deletes all his texts from girls. Is he hiding something or am I crossing the line?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend deletes all the texts from other girls. Well he knows that I am jealous and I have confronted him for flirting with his colleague and knows that I sometimes go through his phone. (Please don't judge). Now he deletes all the texts with ...

Should I wait or call for an answer? Are we or aren't we broken up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - After my non-acceptance or being able to make sense of the sexy, lets see where this will lead communication between my boyfriend and his old colleague... he still has not contacted me. NOR has he broken up officially. Is his silence an indicati...

Guy A or guy B? Why do I think of one when I am with the other? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4060 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - Hello. Two different guys that i both met a month ago, same age, have been checking me out. They both show interest of dating me. I'll call them guy A and B. So thing is guy A is so sweet, sexy, cute and a bit shy. Whereas guy B is physically s...

Is it normal or healthy in a love relationship for your girl or guy to frequently mention some other guy or girl's name?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

6 October 2013 (M) - is it normal or healthy in a love relationship for your girl or guy to frequently mention some other guy or girl's name? my girl seems to mention this one guy's name every time we conversate. i once asked her and she said he was just a collegue and ...

Reliable and no passion, or risky and passionate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

6 October 2013 (F) - I'm currently very confused. I was dating a guy for nearly 10 months but we broke up when I went to uni because it didn't feel the same. We still talk and its almost as if we are still together. But there's also another guy from back home who I talk ...

Have a boyfriend of 4 years but have a crush on someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

5 October 2013 (F) - Sorry for the long read, I don't know what to do and don't really have anyone to tell this all to. I love my boyfriend, we've been together for 4 years. We're both 23 years old and each other's second serious relationship. But for some reason I just ...

My boyfriend's ex is demanding more in their friendship than I can accept

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

4 October 2013 (F) - Okay everyone im having problems with my boyfriends girl best friend. A week or 2 ago he hugged her and I told him he needed to chose between me or her. He chose me they stopped having out and barley talked unless it was about their phone bill cause ...

Worried because my boyfriend spends so much time with his gay friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

4 October 2013 (F) - Help. My boyfriend likes to spend more time with his gay friend rather than me. My boyfriend doesnt have that many friends so the gay friend is really the only friend he has. I love my boyfriend so much and I know he loves me but his gay friend is ...

If you were me, would you try and approach this girl and potentially harm a maybe happy household? Or would you simply forget about it and move on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

4 October 2013 (M) - For about five years iv always had a small crush on the girl who works in my local post office, we would often flirt and smile a lot when we talked, she is about 2 years younger than me at 24. I have never persued it though as I have always been in ...

Should I tell her that he's a cheater, or just leave their relationship alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

3 October 2013 (F) - what would you do if you had a friend who married someone twice her age, got pregnant, had the baby, got married to the guy, got pregnant two months after the baby was born, and see that the guy has liked a page on his facebook called add me adult ...

He cheated on me - is this worth fixing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

3 October 2013 (F) - Hi there, I'm in need of help. I started dating this man in sept. 2011 and we dated a year and got engaged October. 2012, moved in with him, things have been going great, was thinking i found a good man, then surprise I got into his email cause ...

I don't really know what she might feel for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

1 October 2013 (M) - About 5 years ago I had a relationship with a married woman. I thought I was falling in love and probably was, but then her husband died unexpectedly and I ran. I couldn't be there for her when she needed me but I think it was just too much at that ...