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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Cheater Cheater!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - My husband bought another woman clothing and jewelry for Christmas I found the receipt in his truck, I know he will deny it, should I ask him about it or leave it alone? ...

She already has a boyfriend and I'm the first woman she's been with. Am I making her life too complicated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - I live in johannesburg now in village eastern cape visit my grandmother only my cousins knows that I am swing girls. I meet other cute aNd smart girl she's cute enough and the type of girls I likes she offer to be my friend and close friend but was ...

Found out my boyfriend was using me to cheat on his long-term partner and now my self-confidence is suffering!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - this sounds really pathetic but about 2months i found out the guy who was my boyfriend was actually cheating on his long term girlfriend with me and since then i have lost a lot of confidence. i contastly bodycheck all my fat (im 5'7'' and 140lbs- ...

My ex's friend said he fancies me more than my ex does!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - I got a text from my ex a couple of days ago saying "I want you. I love you. ", and he said it was him texting me, and he was using his friend's phone. He has used his friends phone to text me before when he has no credit on his phone. I also got a ...

Is this a mid life crisis or can men change so quickly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I had casually been seeing a guy for a year, I wanted a relationship but he didn't as he "doesn't have relationships" and I know this to be true. He had his life and I had mine, we never went out, only saw each other behind closed doors (again his ...

He has been lying to me for two years, and I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - me n my partners relationship is really rocky at the moment as alot of things have gone on n im on the verge of breaking up with him, we have 2 children so im scared. i found out from him something about his past......he was an escort.....people ...

Hopeless romantic falls for his teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3972 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - I think that I'm obsessed, or maybe in love, maybe both, with my teacher. She is 24 and I am 18. At the moment I am a senior in high school. I've honestly had a crush on her since my sophomore year, and ever since I've grown more attached to her. ...

My husband had an affair but the woman would not leave him alone.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Please help. My hubby had an affair with this girl about 2 years ago and we resolved the issue. But now th ex refuses to let go. She calls my husband's phn daily, sometimes with different numbers, even up to more than 10 times each day and says sh ...

I feel so used. Why didn't he value me as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Ok please help I was very good friends with a guy then he started confiding in me he had problems with the girl he'd been with for 5 years saying she was manipulative and made his life hard Stupidly I became close and we kissed a few times after wh...

I dated a man and we are both going through divorce. He's been distant in texting. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3972 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Hey there I am new here. Quick question. I am dating a fabulous guy that I am head over heels in love with. We have been together for almost a year and were friends(more distant than close) over a decade before that. We live on two different ...

He lied to me about being married!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I met this guy at a friend's party a little over 2 months ago; he was really sweet and funny and about 2 days after the party, my friend told me that her friend told her that he was asking for my number, because he was not a direct acquaintance of ...

Does my ex still like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - I got a text from my ex last night saying "I want you. I love you. ", and he said it was him texting me, and he was using his friend's phone. He has used his friends phone to text me before when he has no credit on his phone. I also got a text from ...

My married man loves me but can't be with me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - Please bear with this long story. I am unmarried and in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I recently moved to a different country and there I met a guy friend. We both are aware of our situation from the very beginning when we first ...

Should I twist the situation or are my friends more important?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3974 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - Recently one of my good guy friends, call him A, confided in my best-friend that he liked me. He also said that he was confused because he also like my other friend. If they started dating, I would probably be pretty upset, but I would be able to ...

Why is he keeping me in his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - Merry Xmas to you all, and thank u in advance for reading this. I don't know if my situation is rectifiable or not, so if anybody can help me sort this one I will be truly grateful and if I'm being honest kind of surprised! I know there doesn't so...

Does it sound like she feels more secure in long-distance relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

26 December 2013 (M) - I'm 51 she is 55. The other day, sitting on her couch Very close together side by side. I looked at her and told her for the first time I loved her. Without looking at me, looking forward she said I know.... I asked if she loved me... She turn ...

I thought I was really into this guy but now I don't know!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - I thought I really was into this guy and now I am confused on my feelings for him. I met someone new that I am also really starting to enjoy. I was not confused about guy 1 until guy 2 came along and now I'm confused about both! We have slept ...

I feel like a weird stalker, which I never was!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - Really need help so low I can't get over this guy because of how he treated me Ok 2 years ago we were working together he helped me through personal problems and we became close friends he was texting up to 100 a day sending poems etc - we never h...

My boyfriend's boss was very flirty with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - Ok, awkward situation! Went to my partners christmas party Saturday night and i'd never met any of his colleagues or managers before. When we got in I went to check my coat whilst he went to check the table plan. As I got there, there was a long...

My colleague seems to be eavesdropping on my conversations

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - There is this guy at work who seems to eavesdrop on my conversations and recently he's started butting in on my conversations. He had stopped talking to me but now he inserts himself in my conversations. I'll give you a back story: I had a crush ...

He's recently gotten married but started contacting me again

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - Hi, i'd really appreciate some honest opinions. Like a lot of people my age i ended up being very stupid and getting into what you could call a "casual" relationship. It was just sex for him but it wasn't for me and i ended up pretty heart broken. ...

His ex wife wants him back!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - Well hello I really need some help... I been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he has two kids with his ex wife... Things have been great with us and he has been there for me through everything... I love his children too... The day w...

He loves me but crushes on her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - Hi, I have a boyfriend for a few months. Before we got into the relationship, I knew about the fact that he had a crush on another girl for quite some time before he fell in love with me and decided to confess. Even now, he still has feelings ...

I want to send my friend a letter

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

21 December 2013 (M) - Hi guys im really confused and in a place where i require some sort of guidance at the moment, I'm thinking of sending this to a friend who lives in Victoria (I live in Western Australia) and we've known each other for six years whereas she hasn't ...

I love my boyfriend but want to have sex with his sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

20 December 2013 (F) - I am 25yrs girl who dating guys bt also like girls I do have a BF and his caring and lovely eccidentally he have also a sister who like girls too I love my BF and I also atractive to his sister one day me and her sister go out together and endup ...

My girfriend has mood swings and I am not happy with her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

17 December 2013 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship with my gf of past 10 months. I love her a lot, very much. Actually the problem is that she lies to me about her past and sometimes in present too she lies often. Ok so she told me about a boy and told they we...

Marriage being damaged by wife's male friend who has now stayed for more than 2 months

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

17 December 2013 (M) - I have been married for 2 years, I am 41 and my wife is 30. We have always been amazing together, and I thought we were happy. We recently started trying for kids, which was her idea, as I was never going to push her until she was ready. She has ...

History with two older men, but right now I want neither of them

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

17 December 2013 (F) - I am currently depressed and honestly, I deserve it. I created an incredible mess. I was 18 when I met 33yr old "Jack" and though I didn't mean for it to happen, he became my first lover but he wanted to commitment. I was hurt but stuck by because I ...

His weird behaviour makes me curious!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

16 December 2013 (?) - 2 Weeks ago I met someone through a common friend. Lets just call him G. G is a good looking guy, kind and always a gentleman almost to everyone. He never failed to say hi or message me almost everyday. So I always thought of him as a friend...

He's accusing me of adultery, with him, because I'm not yet divorced. We have so many issues. Is this abusive situation resolvable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

15 December 2013 (F) - My issue is, I been together with my bf for over 2years now, but on and off. It's our first baby, i left him and get a new house where we can live with my baby. we have a big fight all the time,thats why i left . I gave him so many chances,...

My boyfriend is friends with this girl who sleeps around with almost everyone and I'm scared that he might cheat on me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

14 December 2013 (F) - I just found out that my boyfriend is friends with this girl who sleeps around with almost everyone !! He cheated on me before, although that was a year ago. We broke up and got back together, and now I'm afraid that he has or will do somethin...

Nervous about Christmas with my best friend's family because I have history with her brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

13 December 2013 (F) - Hello advisors. I apologize for the length but I feel like you guys need to know all the details before you can help me out with this. Before any judging occurs, there has been no cheating. Probably some lying but definitely no cheating. And for the ...

In an unhappy relationship. Should I pursue things with the other man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

13 December 2013 (F) - Looking for some advise, I've been with my partner for 23 years. 6 years ago we split up for two years, in that time I met someone else and was with them for seven months. When that finished a while after I got back with my long term partner. Thi...

Why is this guy seeing me if he's had better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) - I'm having a childish issue. I'm seeing a new guy. We were friends before we started dating... I actually saw him as a friend, well, for all the time he was trying to win me over (which was MONTHS), and I actually started things out with him as a ...

My ex asked me if I was willing to have sex with him but he has a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

11 December 2013 (F) - So, there's a lot going on. Me and my ex broke up about 4 months ago. We only dated for about a month in a half but we have been friends for about 4 years prior. After we broke up i started having feelings for him and I think I love him. So back ...

He lost his friend. Now he's yelling at me, about how it's my fault. Is it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

11 December 2013 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago, but he says that we're on break. But we're still intimate. I have a jealousy of girls because all my boyfriends (except this one) has cheated on me. Naturally, I don't like girls now. So, my ex ...

He had a girlfriend the entire time we were dating and now he wants to meet up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

11 December 2013 (F) - I was dating this guy for two months. Everything was perfect, we got along, we had the same common interest and we were going to college, both of our majors went hand in hand with each other and we really helped pushed and motivate each other in ...

I want him to help with our children. But can I trust him? Should I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

11 December 2013 (F) - Ok so here's the situation! I've been with my man going on three years and 2 months! It's been a heck of roller coaster I'll tell you this! Although I should have seen all the signs and signals to leave him in the beginning but being in "love" a...

Should I continue or not? He swears they are just friends, now. But will his wandering eyes cause me a broken heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

11 December 2013 (F) - I am 63 and have been in a committed relationship since May, 2013. We've had a lot of fun together, get along pretty good, and have even talked about the possibility of moving in together. I lost my husband 4 years ago and he has lost his wife 3 ...

I just discovered my boyfriend is giving his ex secret guitar lessons

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - I went to my boyfriend's house a couple of days ago and I saw the photo of us was face down. He went over to put music on and suddenly it was upright again. There were playing cards on the coffee table and empty glasses. I asked who had been playing ...

Big misunderstanding with almost-boyfriend leads to me being ignored. I don't know what this all means.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - I met M several weeks ago through a friend. We hit it off and a few days after having met him, we were pretty inseparable. Despite the 10-year age difference (I'm 25, he's 35), we seemed to get along really well. He works as a restaurant manager, ...

I feel my husband is much too close to another woman. He says I'm making it up. Who's right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

9 December 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I have a question about my husband´s choice. He has many female friends since I met him, and ex girl friends, and ex ``love of his life `` in high school time. So,I knew that he kinda have contact always with them. But since a ...

How do I leave my wife and my children?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

9 December 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, How can I leave my wife and two kids? I know these columns are normally reserved for women , but being a man with out any one to talk to and with a story I want to share with you I feel, I can tell no one else in the world, not my br...

I dated a guy who turned out to have a girlfriend. Who, or what, was I to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

9 December 2013 (F) - I met this guy three months ago at school. We hit off well and started dating, then he asked me to be his girlfriend. Things went well for the first week we were together, after that he became a little distant and we only saw each other once a week ...

My heart desires my cousin's ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

9 December 2013 (M) - I am finally moving on from my ex, and another girl has caught my attention. The problem is that she has a baby with my cousin. They haven't been together for 2 years, and it was the first time they had sex when she got pregnant, they l...

Girl on Facebook keeps flirting with my boyfriend. Do I ask him to block her, or tell her to back off?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3989 days ago

8 December 2013 (F) - What should I do about these problems with my boyfriend and a woman on facebook?. My boyfriend has Bipolar Disorder. I don't know if that is matters, but I thought I would mention that. There was a woman who was on his friend's list on facebook a ...

He has been cheating for eight years, and I have collected the proof!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

7 December 2013 (F) - Hi I've been with the same guy 8 years I've been by his side through the roughest of times i had met him while he was married he left her for me . I've done everything possible to make him happy I've never cheated I've never been attract ed to any ...

Should I cut contact with the girls I used to flirt with and focus on the one I really like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3991 days ago

7 December 2013 (M) - I feel bad about this whole situation, okay there is this amazing girl whom my eyes were always attracted to and I've kept my eye on this chick for months I never made a move, I never even talked to her before and last Monday I was flirting with a ...

I'm obsessed with the girl my boyfriend was in love with before me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

7 December 2013 (F) - I ruined my boyfriend's relationship with his best friend. I didn't mean to, but it was absolutely my fault. My boyfriend (of three years) had been in love with his childhood friend for many years, and remained in love with her when we started ...

My long distance guy seems distance since he learned I used to date my guy friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

6 December 2013 (F) - Hey guys/girls! Well I'm in need of help. So I'm struggling in this LDR. It's a very weird relationship b/c we've only Skyped, texted and rarely talk on the phone. He lives almost 5 hours away from me. So we've been trying to make things work but...