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writes:I am 25yrs girl who dating guys bt also like girls I do have a BF and his caring and lovely eccidentally he have also a sister who like girls too I love my BF and I also atractive to his sister one day me and her sister go out together and endup having kisses now we have sex and her brother think we like each other and knows that if he left me with her I am safe and happy does not know the reason why I like 2 stay with his sister now my problem I don't wanna be with my man anymore I want his sister be with her all the time be my party not my sex buddy do I tell my boyfriend or just dump him without telling him the reason Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2013): Thanks in along all this answer I get make happy 4 real and the advice work for me I do tell him what I done to him and diside live them both all was not anyone faulty but me so I diside to leave them as a happy family
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reader, Boost  +, writes (20 December 2013):
For a start saying you love your bf is total rubbish as you want to dump him for his sister people in love don't tend to dump each other. Secondly there is no easy way out of this, it's likely your bf will: a) find out you cheated on him with his sister and b) know you dumped him to date his sister when ever you're with his sister. I think it would be quite obvious to everyone why you dumped your bf. I severely doubt his sister will actually date you to be honest I think she's only using you for sex. My advice - leave this poor guy alone and let someone date him who deserves him.
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (20 December 2013):
 Exactly how are you going to make that transition without him finding out everything? This is why you don't mess with close relatives or friends. You really have made quite a mess here and I don't see an easy way out. You may as well tell him as he will find out quickly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2013): The worst thing you could do to someone is go after their brother or sister, after breaking up your relationship. It is a very low and opportunistic thing to do. It reflects very badly on your character.
You can cause bad-blood between two siblings who love each other. You can even cause a feud between siblings that can go on for a lifetime. Back off, Missy! It's just about sex for you, and you're up to make trouble.
Can it with the bull about loving your boyfriend. It doesn't go that deep. You don't just switch horses in the middle of the race. You casually dated him to get to his sister. It was your plan all the long.
Oh the karma you stand to face for such betrayal!
Get out of their lives. You're nothing but potential trouble. You don't seem to have a sense of conscience.
That's the sad part.
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reader, babyzbird  +, writes (20 December 2013):
 You are in a difficult situation because they are family. If he doesn't take your break-up well then it could cause problems for you because you want to be with his sister. Would other siblings, parents, or aunts and uncles get involved?
I would be very careful in breaking up with him. I also wouldn't tell anyone you want to be with his sister until everything has calmed down.
Good Luck
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