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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Do I leave the man I love and return to a life I hate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I need some help with a choice i have to make. I have no idea what to do so please help me. I had a boyfriend for a year and a half. Lets call him X. We were really close. I moved in with him and his family because i was having trouble at home....

My boyfriend loves his computer more than me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4518 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are avid gamers. We play online all the time and are constantly having conversations with everyone but each other. A habit I've been trying to break with a good walk everyday and outings to get away from our online friends. ...

I kissed a female friend and am now questioning the future I thought I had

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 8 years. We just got engage last year; however our relationship have always been a roller coaster. We have a lot of problems; mainly trust issues. I have found condom with him on several occasions, and his ...

I have been having an emotional affair

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - Mine is related to an emotional affair. I am married andI work 4 hours from home. I have an apartment i maintain 4 days a week. There is a woam I work with, and I am her boss. I am deeply attracted to her. We have gone to lunch, have gone out for ...

HELP! I think my boyfriend's brother has a crush on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 7 months and I love him so much! But we went on a date recently and his younger brother and friend dropped us off. No biggy. That's normal. The real problem was when his brother picked us back up. I was ...

It felt like things were getting back to normal ... but they weren't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - Hello Everybody, Don't know if this is the right place for this, but here goes... I am now 33 years of age and I was with my long term partner for 9 years. Our relationship, I thought, was good. It had its ups and downs like any relation...

My guy says he will be dating another girl ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - One day my guy told me he doesn't want to hide anything from me so i should ask me anything. i then asked him what he has been hidding from me and he said a girl asked him to date her so now he's dating her even though he doesn't love her. He said ...

I just see red flags all over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Okay, so about 10-11months ago my boyfriend dated this girl (let's call her Kate). And so after about 3 months of them dating, she decided to break up with him, because another love interest had come her way, and she wanted the other boy. My ...

I got a friend to test him and now he has shut me out!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - i feel really bad, my on off partner of 18 years and i were in the process of what i thought trying to work things out. he has always been there for me until i messed up, i played a silly trick on him and now its kind of back fired and he refuses to ...

I lied to her but I never cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - After over 2 years together we hit the biggest of all speedbumps. I was caught texting a girl I used to hook up with. The messages were never out of line, on her birthday and mine we talked a bit. Than my now ex was going to send her a nasty ...

I just want sex from him, so he cut me off. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hello. I'm in a really tough situation. I have been in a committed relationship for 4 years, but there has been no sexual chemistry for a year due to health problems. I finally got tired of not being satisfied so 2 months ago things got pretty ...

I'm starting to question my friendship with my gay best friend... What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - So my gay best friend hung out with me today, since he's in town (he lives in AZ, I'm in cali). We used to date, but we only kissed once, and it was one of those preschool kisses that were just us smashing our face together. It didn't last long, and ...

Was this a spiked drink? And why did it not bother my husband that I behaved as I did ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Me and my husband are marries for 5 yrs now. We have a friend with whom he used to booze during week ends. either we go to his house or he visit us on week end. It's not my habit to drink but some times I join them or when the friend is not availabl...

He cheated throughout our relationship, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 1 year, i guess u could say a bit longer than that but we spent a few months getting to know each other 1st. Through out the course of the year, i suspected he was up to no good, he called me ...

Should I write her a msg and tell her everything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - Last year, a guy from college messaged me (i've been out of school for 5 years) and we were never close, just acquaintances. We were facebook friends and last year he randomly told me that he broke up with his college girlfriend. I remember seeing ...

I cheated on him and now he has cheated on me, I feel alone and sad

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - We are in a relationship living together with one daughter. Known him for six years now. Together for about five of them. Idk where to start my question I guess I feel trapped , and alone. I cheated on him and our cheating/decieveing issues goes way ...

I know she gave her number to a random guy so I want to go with her when the meet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - ok this is abit of a wierd question Just say ur gf gave her number out to some random dude on the internet and u found out, and they havent met yet, but u forced them to meet , woud it make the situation better or worse? say for isntance, i call...

After five years we just don't talk about 'us' anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - Hello. This may become a bit longer post, I am sorry for this. Help is needed because I'm 26, and I must start to figure out what I'm gonna do with my personal life If I am to do anything at all. Excuse my bad english. Five years ago I had a cl...

I find boyfriend's friend hitting on me exciting!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - My bf is out of town for a couple months for a job. I'm working and going to school in a town where I really only know people I've met through him. Lately I've been spending time out and about with one of his friends here in town that I think is a ...

I fear she may reject me because of her feelings for her boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - I am in situation where I consider myself deeply infatuated with a female co-worker/friend. We've grown close over the past couple of months and hang out alone often. She has a boyfriend and she sometimes mentions her love for her boyfriend. Here ...

Why would he go away so far, with a woman 24 years younger? And leave his devoted loving wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - so i know this is out there a lot but my husband left me for a younger girl 24 years younger. they are living together oh and she has a 2 year old. Anyway just wanted to know if anyone could shed light on why he would leave a good wife that woul...

Is she interested in a threesome or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

26 June 2012 (M) - I have discussed with my wife having a threesome. We were watching porn one evening and I asked her if she would prefer mfm or fmf, she said mfm of course if she was to do it and she was not that interested. Ok....I did get an answer. The ...

Is a guy always serious with a girl he calls his girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - If a guy has a girlfriend, is it possible he could be with her casually and not seriously and maybe for sex and companionship but not true love? Is it possible she is NOT the one or that he will be with her long term? If he is so happy with her, ...

I don't know if I should make a move though or if I shouldn't trust this guy after whatever happened the last time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Hey. I'm a bit confused and unsure what to do. Firstly I'm 20 and like older men in their early to mid 30's. Basically two years ago when I was 18 I was seeing a guy who was 34 at weekends and occasional evenings. We'd go out in a group of mixed ...

My boyfriend? Or my best male friend? Which one? How do I choose? Don't want to lose either man.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4522 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Hello. So I’m completely confused. So I’m 18 and starting college this fall. And I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year and one month. Well our relationship has been really rocky at times, but we always fix it. Well just last month he couldn’t...

I've had anxiety as we had a threesome and his condom fell off!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

25 June 2012 (M) - hi. my girl and i recently had our first threesome with another guy , and the rule for the other guy was to wear a condom. well, while he was in the middle of things, his condom came off. now, im ok with the fact that we did the threesome, but not ...

I trust my boyfriend but he has an attractive roommate!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - Advice? My bf has to find a roommate and found a nice place to live...I helped him look. Now he is completely trustworthy but he found a very nice place but the roommate would be female and she is decent looking. Should I worry? I have a male ...

I cheated on my hubby and had a baby that he doesn't know may not be his!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I have been married for less than a year, and have a baby. Got married when I was expecting. I cheated on my husband with this man, before we got married. It was at a time when I was very dipresesed cos of my husband’s abusive treatment. I ...

How do I handle him after our affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, Had a relationship with a married man who was sincere to his wife for 14 years. Never he had an affair to anyone till I came to his life. We both are Managers in one company. We became close and started this secret affair. He loves...

Do you think this is a good sign she is asking me first about giving her number to this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

25 June 2012 (M) - my gf has asked me if its alright to give a guy her number, because he asked for it, they want to discuss business and other things (educational and scientifically stuff),yes we are major geeks, anyway they have been talking for a few weeks ...

He 'doesn't know what to do,' now that his wife does not want a Divorce. What should I do about my Bf''s response to his wife's edict?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend's ex wife has said she still loves him and doesn't want a divorce. We have been together for 18 months and are very much in love but now he said he 'doesn't know what to do.' He was married for 30 years and still feels guilty about hi...

I allowed my g/f to have a guy on the side and now everything is all mixed up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

24 June 2012 (M) - My fiance and i have been together 12yrs she told me stories all her lovers all had big endowed penises 10+ and i half that size well she dont relize how much she tells me how great it was and even tells aquaintances. I loved her very much that i ...

Which woman do I choose? The dysfunctional one who I'm crazy about? Or the one I've recently met who understands me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

22 June 2012 (M) - I have been seeing this woman for a few months and I am crazy about her but she is disfunctional to the extent that whenever we arrange a meeting she alweays manages to stuff it up. what i mean is we always end up at a different place at a different ...

Willing to leave my husband for my new man, but I'm worried he still has feelings for his ex! Should I pursue a future with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - I am 29 year old married woman with a son and I’m currently in a relationship with another man. I work in this company and I met this amazing guy a couple of years ago and we became friends and at that time we don’t have anything in between us yet ...

How do I stop being so negative about his new boyfriend? And how do I deal with the insults and such?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - Ok, so I have been friends with this guy for about two years. And at first we have hated each other, because he would always make fun of me. After being paired up together for a project we have been best friends ever since. He is so awesome, he has ...

What do you do if you are in love with two people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Well im 15 years old, and I have a pretty interesting story I guess, :/ well I currently have a boyfriend, and I LOVE him to death, now you people might say its puppy love , but wen im in love, IM IN LOVE. well my boyfriend and I broke up 4 months ...

My wife has been spending time with a younger man for years despite my protests, so should I start something with the younger woman interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

21 June 2012 (M) - Hi thanks for your time, my wife of 30 years enjoys the company of a younger man she says nothing is going on. I halfway believe it but the pattern of disrepect is really getting to me. I tell her I don't want her going out with him and she laughs ...

I want to watch my boyfriend have sex with another woman in front of me, is this wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Is there anything wrong with the fact I want to see my boyfriend have sex with another women in front of me. I want a 3 sum but don't want to part take in it so much i rather look on and see him at work . I love his sex and I just want to see him at ...

Why do his comments about my friend give me a pang of jealousy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

19 June 2012 (F) - Hi, not sure if i,m reading too much into my boyfriends comments and could do with other peoples opinions. We have been with each other for 2 years very happy and in love. He is always complimenting me and telling me he loves me. A few times now, in ...

Is he using me? I saw a text from him to her saying he was 'domesticated and miserable'!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

18 June 2012 (F) - I've known a guy for a few years. We started off as just an every now and again fling. I knew he was coming around just to get what he wanted. He stopped talking to me completely for a few months because he thought I was talking about him. He is ...

My wife drags her mother along with us on vacation.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

18 June 2012 (M) - I am a 39 year old male. My wife of 20 years is 41. My problem is that my wife invites my mother-in-law along on almost every trip or vacation. Sometimes she is unable to go (thank the heavens for that!) but I'd like it if it could just be the two ...

Tired of waiting for love to return

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

18 June 2012 (F) - husband left me for a 24 year old with a 3 year old. they are now living together and are engaged. our divorce is not final, and i found out he has not payed my attourney yet. they seem to be getting along pretty good. but everyone tells me it wont ...

Girlfriend asked me for a mmf threesome with my bestfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

17 June 2012 (M) - My girlfriend's engaged friends starting having threesomes and this sprung curiosity in her.but As a result, she told me that she would like to have one with my best friend. I admit immaturity in my response, but I flipped the fuck out because the ...

I can't let go of either one, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4529 days ago

16 June 2012 (F) - Let's call one X and the other Y...X and i have been together for over a year,we've gone through problems(as with every couple) but we split up a while ago. During the course of our relationship i met Y and Y is totally great! So as time went by X ...

My wife seems to be in love with her female best friend. Am I right to be jealous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

16 June 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 18 years, together for 22 and have two kids. For the last half year my wife has been spending more and more time with one particular girlfriend (who is married with 2 kids and 15 years younger). They see each ...

My ex and I slept together, but now he's ignoring me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

16 June 2012 (F) - We have been really good friends since college. Then he proposed me after breaking up with his girlfriend. I accepted his proposal and remained his gf for 6 months. Then I broke up with him becoz I had just friendly feeling for him. Recently we met ...

I feel so uncomfortable about this girl he is close to. Is breaking up with him the best option for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

16 June 2012 (F) - Did I do the right think in breaking up? I'm sorry this is a long message, but just would like some clarity.... I have been from the very start, on-edge, wondering what he thinks/feels, hes not a very open person. but i chose to date him ...

Too many issues, how can we make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

15 June 2012 (F) - Hey. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. We have a lot of issues. But before I get into details, let me just clarify that I WANT to make this work. But I would like some people's opinions on how to make us work. Our first issue wa...

Why would my boyfriend try to visit his ex FWB (a stripper) when he knows how uncomfortable I am with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

15 June 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months and love him very much. We've had some problems that we've worked through, mainly to do with his past. One issue was he used to frequent strip clubs, which I am 100% not okay with, but I have since come to ...

How can I talk to my boyfriend about wanting to have a threesome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

15 June 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 7 years now and things are great but i want to try new things,by new things i want to have a threesome or just something different, see ive only been with just him and he has been with a bunch of other girls. I ...