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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

An ex wife, an Autistic son, a crazy ex girlfriend, and another son-that's my B/f's life. Any thoughts on how best to handle this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man for nearly 2 years. We were talking about marriage..etc. He has been divorced for over 10 years and has a 10 year old Autistic son from his previous marriage. He is a dedicated father and pays ...

He met this girl and became friends, can I still trust my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I desperately need your help!! I've been with this guy (lets call him Joey) for a year now; on and off again. We've had a lot of problems because of girls and guys that are trying to break us up. A few girls are after him because he's an athlete ...

My Gf still checks her ex's facebook account, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - What should I think about my girlfriend checking her xboyfriends facebook page even though she unfriended him and can't see anything but his profile pic which isn't even a picture of him? He was a bit of trouble in our relationship in the begi...

He's my ex. I still love him. Why does he keep me as his FWB? How do I heal myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hello, I will make this brief. I am a 23 year old female, who just got out of a relationship with a 22 year old male. We'll call him K. He and I had a lot happen between us that was mainly my doing, I was not ready for a relationship since I had ...

I miss him so much! And he's dating someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hey, any advice would be really appreciated. My ex and I broke up about 8 weeks ago. We were friemds/flatmates before deciding to give things a go. We are very different, but we just seemed to click in some way, especially in bed. He is a quiet ...

Is my boyfriend being thoughtless by refusing to change his facebook status?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I was having some issues with my bf because of his ex and his friendship and working with her. Anyway he swore to me that although he did really like her, they didn't really have a great relationship, that they didn't have a connection l...

He cheated with me, now I am paranoid about people finding out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Well i met this guy the other night and the first time we met we connected like he was the one to say this too me and that we couldn't stop looking at each other... The next night him and his girlfriend who is one of my good mates came around to m...

We love each other but he's married. Do I wait or walk away/

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - i am a lady of about 25 years old. I am going out with this guy who had a court weding with an old white woman. We both love each other and anytime i want us to end this relationship because of the white woman he pleads with me to give him time to ...

He prefers to spend NYE with his mates rather than with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - My question is quite a short one, and I’d love to hear lots of opinions on this – since I have been with my bf I have always felt that he likes to be with his friends and not me NYE. We tend to spend Xmas together and although last year we were ...

The Other Woman .. are they JUST friends.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend and I met through a chat forum online and hit it off. We now spend most of our day (even with the time zone problem) talking with each other in one for or another. but I have a problem. Jealous...

My new boyfriend is really sweet and caring but I am in love with his best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I've just begun dating a new guy. I'm 17 (18 in 1.5 months) and he's 22. I haven't known him that long, we've only been together for 3 months. He's a really sweet and caring guy and he makes me really happy. The only problem is that I think he is in ...

I met this girl but she has a boyfriend. Can we still hang out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (M) - Hey guys and girls. Happy holidays :D Hope you people had lots of fun. Alright here's the help I need. I meet this girl at a formal like around 1 week ago for like an Religious Catholic Organization. Alright I meet her, I don't wanna over board...

He's in a relationship and I still like him! please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Okay (the story is going to be long sorry), but I really have a lot of feelings for this old friend and we tried to go out over the summer, but in that time, I got a lot of mixed signals from a friend we had shared and I was told lies.(like the guy ...

How do I let go of him and move on with my life? or should I stay and fight for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, So here it goes...a year and 1/2 ago, I met my soul mate...online. I know this sounds very cliche for this era, but it happened. What seemed to be attraction and coincidence, I soon found to be a connection deeper than I had felt bef...

Was it right for my boyfriend to hide the fact that my friend was texting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend were at my friends house. we were all hanging out and than all of a sudden when he got a text message he pulled me close and started making out with me. i pushed him away and laughed it off. my friends thought it was cute but i ...

Was the whole explosion of feelings just a mind game?...what should I do? Continue to be in his life, just stop, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - So this guy I have had a "crush" on for three years told me on christmas that he cares about me and wants me. But he has a girlfriend who is manipulative (they have had a break in the summer because she cheated). And I told him that I have cared a...

I'm really confused. Do I stay with my BF or go to this other guy? And how will it affects the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Need advice please. I have been with the father of my kids for six years now. We have had our up and downs. We have even split up a few times and got back together within days. About 1 1/2 years ago I started my job unknowing at the time that this...

Do I throw away my FWB 1.5 year relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - I've been seeing.. Well, more like a FWB to a man we'll call J for about a year and a half. I care a lot about him but our relationship has never really gotten deeper than sex. Well for J it seems. I've mentioned that I would like us to be more, but ...

His Mom tells lies about me. We have a baby girl. Should I wait until he wants to come back to me? Or contact him first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Just had a huge fight with my boyfriend, his mom and sister. He was drunk and was arguing with my mom and me....he was saying all kinds of things to us and well my mom was screaming things back so it turned out to be a huge fight! We ended up ...

What to do? I’m so confused, what is happening between my closest friend and I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

24 December 2011 (?) - I met her almost 3 years ago online, and we became best and closest friends. She is with her boyfriend of 5 years. For the first 2 years we were just friends but she would always complain to me about her boyfriend and asked to if it was ok to move ...

Should I confront her about the pregnancy? Should I leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - Hey, I been with my bf/baby daddy (father of twins) for 7 years ! He cheated on me with cousin and she claiming she pregnant with my bf baby but she slept with 3 other guys too. But they're denying the baby. But I dont believe she really pregnant ...

Just found out he has another FWB. Should I break up or continue with the little comfort he provides?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I just found out my friend with benefits, over 1.5 years now, has another fwb for a year going. It hurt and i felt used because i thought what we had was special. I am 40 and dont feel there are many options for me, and have settled for less. no...

I don't want to ruin Christmas for him, but should I be worried about the two of them??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - i need you to help me in my relationship I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months, but now i think he is cheating on me. My boyfriend and I are in a LDR, i know about the girl he has been in contact with at the same time. she is outsi...

Is my verbally abusive Bf cheating? Should I leave him? How do I stand up for myself better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I recently had twins a boy and girl and I feel my boy friend doesnt love me no more ! I DO everything for him I cook, clean, give him sex when he wants it , i take care of the twins i told him 'if you want to help me with the twin...

Should I meet some one I don't want to meet just to please my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - I dont really know how do put this but here goes. my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and we have a pretty solid relaionship we get on so well and we always have a laugh and joke. but recently (as in the last week) I have bee...

I suspect she's dating someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (M) - Hello people! Recently I started talking a lot with this girl I met through one of my friends. We have been together a lot and we hung out 2-3 times a week. I told her that I was interested in dating her because I liked her and would like to fi...

Should I trust him or leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - Hello, i need some advice fast. Where to start. A boy who's family and my family are very close to moved away a few years ago i saw the boy when i was 7 and so was he, then recently they moved back to our town he moved to our school i was the...

He contacts me to cheat on his girlfriend (while he's drunk) and when I ask for an explanation, he won't give one!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Okay.. So i had a thing with this boy, a while ago, but it ended. Now everytime he has a girlfriend or things end with his latest one he contacts me again, and its hard cause i still have feelings for him. Anyway he recently contacted me (drunk) ...

I would give up the guy I'm seeing for my ex... but what does he want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - Hey guys i need some advice... ive been with my current partner for the last 7 months and he is amazing... hes so kind, lovely, caring everything i always thought i wanted in a man, but i realise that there is something as to nice... however after ...

In a relationship but found out my girl best mate fancies me, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

22 December 2011 (M) - My best friends a girl and i fancied her for month, then another girl asked me out and I am going out with her now but my girl best mate told me she fancied me for months and still does, what do i do? Me and my girlfriend has had a lot of argument ...

Might I be bisexual and should I tell my fiance about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

22 December 2011 (F) - I've been with my fiance for two years now, and I really love him. Lately I've been attracted to this woman at work. I've dated women in the past, but always thought it was just a phase i was going through. I still find myself checking out othe...

We're unofficially dating and he's flirting with another girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - I'm dating this guy nothing is official yet but I recently found out he has been talking to another girl using the same pick up lines on her as he used on me and been flirty and offering to meet up. Am I making a big deal of this ? Also should I...

Which woman should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (M) - I recently had a response from match.com. And shes been interested in me for 2 weeks before we started talking. This is before i got back together with my girlfriend of 5 months. Before her mom was diagnosed with cancer. She has no kids and neve...

My ex has a new guy....is he just a rebound? Should I wait for her, or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 December 2011 (M) - So its been about 6 months that me and my ex broke up from our 3 and half year relationship. We started talking and hanging out about 2 months ago.. I found out she started going out with this guy about a month or 2 after our break, what hurts is I ...

Happily married, but I hold another guy close in my heart. Any thoughts on why I feel this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

19 December 2011 (F) - Dear friends, I'm happily married, 28f. Two years ago I realised that love doesnt have reins. I began to like a person very much quite secretly. Though it did not cause any of us any harm I still like him. I have also deduced from his eyes that he ...

How can I stop my Bfs Mom making life difficult?. He feels she sees me as competition, but not in a sexual way.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - Hello everyone! I've wrote about this situation before, but this has taken another twist, which is awfully strange. After a very stressful week with his mother, my boyfriend has admitted that he sees his mom is "jealous" of me and "feels as if she ...

She tried to break us up. At the first chance he slept with her. How do I get over him cheating and betraying me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - I'm in need of desperate help! My husband and I got into a huge fight 3 nights ago because I found out he was still talking to a woman whom had admitted she had feelings for him. She even tried to get us to break up and he promised after that time...

I am still sleeping with my Ex but he's grown too friendly with my friend! Shall I tell her the truth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - my good friend and my ex are getting friendly..... and hiding it, i know about and confronted them and they say they are just mates at the moment. my friends tell me that if our friendship is going to get awkward then mates is all they will stay. ...

I'm Jealous of his new Girlfriend, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 December 2011 (F) - Skipping all the details, there is basically this guy that I've had a huge massive insane crush on for pretty much most of this year. For one reason or another it didnt work out, and I thought I'd got over him, but now he's got a new girlfriend, and ...

I'm lost in the middle of two guys and I feel I love both. Should I leave one or both guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

16 December 2011 (F) - i was currently in a bad relationship earlier on this year and unfortuntely it ended badly and my ex soon found someone else. I have since been in a relationship with a guy since august and we are together even today, but i have been seeing anot...

My ex is seeing another girl, is he doing this because I did not trust him? I'm just hurt!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

15 December 2011 (F) - Ok I really need help. My ex and I were together for three years. We had our ups and downs but at the end of the day we forgave each other and always told each other I love you. We'll we broke recently over something I had done. I had inva...

No butterflies with my new guy but this is probably because of my old crush....what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

15 December 2011 (F) - I met this guy recently and he's perfect in all ways, ticks every box, but I don't feel anything when I'm with him. No fluttering heartbeat when he holds my hand, no butterflies when he kisses me, nothing. I think it is because I am still not over ...

We like each other but he has a girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

15 December 2011 (F) - i have a guy that i think he likes me around me and i like him too and he has a girlfriend what do i do ...

In the process of an adoption and I've fallen in love with the birth mother! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

15 December 2011 (M) - i am in the middle of an adoption and i fell in love with the birth mother, i love her more than my own wife. is this normal that i want to spend rest of my life with her and unborn children she wants to give us? help me...

What's the deal with this friend of his?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

15 December 2011 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for more than two years now and we finally went to meet a female friend of his on wednesday. She completely avoided eye contact with me and did not talk with me, after my bf got in his car and apologized about her. I ...

Is she a threat to our relationship? Why does she back out of plans if she knows I will be there too, with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4725 days ago

14 December 2011 (?) - There is only one friend of my boyfriend's that I am a little iffy about, and it's a girl. He has other girl friends and I don't feel as threatened by them as I do by this one. She seems to always want to hang out with him but when he includes me in ...

My husband is chatting flirtatiously with a girl from his office. Should I be worried?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - So, I have had some trust issues with my husband in the past. Some of it he deserved, and some of it can be attributed to the fact that I tend to be a jealous person. I am having a similar issue tonight. He and I have been doing pretty well late...

When my boyfriend fights with his ex, he comes to me with it, should I be bothered?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is lovely man who has 2 children. He does everything for his kids, but when him and his ex argue (which isn't often), he always comes running to me - they then make up. He mentions her when he comes to my house. I have told him to stop ...

Living with my ex after his marriage failed and hoping to get back together but he is still talking to his ex wife....how long is this going to go on for? I feel like piggy in the middle!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

13 December 2011 (F) - My ex split from his wife a few months ago and has been renting a room from me since. The reason why he chose my place is because I have a son for him and thought that we'd get it back on as he made a mistake marrying her. (He's been out of my life ...

I thought he was missing me but now it turns out he's been dating someone new and claims she's 'nice'. I'm terribly hurt!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - Hi, please read and offer any advice you can! 6 weeks ago, me and my guy called it a day. He was my flatmate but we were always 'more than friends' so we decided to live separately and give things a go. Things were great to start but things like mov...