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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I can't lead this double life and need to chose between separated husband and man I am seeing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - This is very hard for me , but i need someone else opinion. I have been separated for about fourteen months. During this time, I met a guy who seem to be real nice and treats me real well ( may i add we work together. Anyway, My husband swear he has ...

Living with my husband and in his deceased wifes shadow.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hello I am in my late 30's and am married to a man in his early 40's. My husband lost his beloved wife from breast cancer in 2007 after 15 years of marriage. He has two young children from his first marriage who I adore and have formed a very st...

Love triangle problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - hi all, I am in love with a girl who has been going out with another guy for 5 years - since high school. she has told me that she loves me more than her current bf. we hold hands when we go out(almost everyday)and she kisses my hand and all. i ...

What to do when you are in love with two people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - So I had an affair with my life long best friend. The two of us have been close since we were kids and grew up next door to each other. He has been the person that I have gone to for everything and I have been the same for him. I am also married to ...

My boyfriend won't tell his female friend that he is dating someone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for over 6 months, we've said that we love each other and spend most days/nights together. He has a lot of younger single female friends. He goes for coffee with them from time to time without me. Last night he went to ...

How can I let go of this' office' attraction when it's going nowhere?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Mod note:OP's own title I have a situation with a guy at work, we are both married and there has been a very strong attraction beween us for 14 months . We are at the point where we are wanting to touch each other whenever possible although n...

A love that's wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I wanted to share my story with somebody as I'm in a situation that is eating away at me, causing me sleepless nights and affecting me in a way I never thought anything would. The cause of my problem is that I am deeply in love with my wife's s...

Incredibly complicated question

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - [MOD NOTE : OP's OWN TITLE] Hi all i'm a 27 year old man, 6 weeks ago my girlfriend of 5 years and I broke up, no particular reason, we hadn't been getting on for a few months, weren't looking forward to seeing each other and weren't enjoying each...

I love both the boyfriend and my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I'm in love with my bestfriend and my boyfriend... I want my relationship with my boyfriend to last for eternity but we barely communicate because he's busy all the time with the university, but at the same time I want me and my bestfriend to happen ...

I'm crazy about this boy, but my cousins keep trying to steal him from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5136 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Ok so there's this guy I'm crazy for and I'm not sure if he likes me back and my cousins keep trying to 'steal' I'm from me . And me and him are going to the movies to see the last exercism which should be great. But everybody is fight for him and ...

This is just a complicated mess!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hello, I am a 24 year old male and my boyfriend (25) broke up with my for another guy (28) about 3 weeks ago. We are all bisexual. His new guy is in an "open" relationship with his girlfriend of 6 years and they also have a 3 year old baby tog...

My boyfriend has pictures of naked girls on his phone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Long Story: Please Help! so on thursday that just passed me and my boyfriend were hanging out and me being a girl went through my boyfriends phone and i went to his images and i saw something very surprising i found 2 pictures of a naked ...

I ain't playing games with her. I want answers from her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hey, I'm 27 and have a 20 year old gal who it appears that only I refer to 'girlfriend', I never actually heard her saying in front of other people that I'm her boyfriend and we've been dating for like 5 months, and she's Danish. We really clicked, ...

Which guy should I choose , if any?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - What do you do when you have several guys that like you? I am a 20 year old junior in college, and I'm really not sure what I should do about these guys. The first one is a guy that goes to my college with me; he's an international st...

Is there some solution that won't rip apart lives and destroy families?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - This question requires a lot of backstory...I think I'm honestly mostly just asking it for the benefit of having written it all down somewhere, but I'm asking it none the less. I tend to be verbose when I write…I hope this isn't too long. I'm ...

I'm in love with a boy, who's taken. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Basically, I've known this boy for a while. I like him, he likes me, but the only problem is he has a girlfriend. We only started out as friends, but then I dunno, I started liking him more than a friend. I never told him this, because I was scared ...

I feel as if he just used me... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

28 August 2010 (?) - Hi there i am so glad i found this site as i need advice regarding my stupid affair... we met 3 months ago after a row with my partner (we have two children) i was feeling unappreciated and not been shown much affection for a while, i just kinda ...

My boyfriend or this other guy? Three is a crowd...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for a while! When we're good we're good but when we're bad we're bad! We have separated many times, well this last time I dated a guy whom has been nothing but a close friend, he listened to all my problems, he was my ...

Will she be able to break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

27 August 2010 (M) - She's in a relationship with her bf for 5 years. She has went through a lot of emotional hurt and once she told me her bf slapped her in past, a few years back. She broke up but patched back with her bf many times. She realises her relationship is ...

Girlfriend of 3.5years wants space, saying she has feelings for another bloke. What should I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

27 August 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, I'm after some advice. So here it goes. My girlfriend and I have been together for just over 3.5 years. We have practically lived together for 1.5 years but have only in our own place for the past few months. Things have been goo...

Was I just a back up if his LDR didn't work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - Hi I posted a Q on here a while bk about me and my ex, he walked out in feb and started seeing another woman abroad, but still seeing me, i knew about her but she didnt no he was seeing me but knew i was his partner of 12years (with 4 kids) Well a f...

My heart is telling me he didn't cheat, but my mind is telling me I may be stupid to believe he didn't

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I need help. My boyfriend and I are in a very serious relationship (We are planning to get engaged soon, he has a ring and everything). And last night when I was leaving his place, I was confronted by an older woman who stated that he has been ...

Shocked by threesome suggestion!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - My Fiancé and I have been together for 2 ½ years and have a very happy and loving relationship. We have talked about threesomes before and came to an agreement that if were to have a bloke then he would choose who and when, and if it was female then ...

Is it worth it to try to continue this relationship, and if I do, how can I convince him to move out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I need to do some serious soul searching. My problem is very complicated. My questions would be, is it worth it to try to continue this relationship, and if I do, how can I convince him to move out? Still stuck on the same problem unfortunately. M...

Is it ok for my husband to be friends with a woman he used to chat to online before we were married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - My husband and I met two years ago on the internet and we got married.We are now expecting a baby very soon. Everything has been going well and he reminds me each day that he loves me and he says he is very happy am his wife.He told me there wa...

Still love my ex but he seems to be with another girl. How do I know? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - My ex and i were together for a few years; I was very young when i met him..learned from my mistakes and really think things can be different this time. We have been talking on and off for about a year. He told me this is hard for him and he buried ...

I want this baby, But I am in love with another woman!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

26 August 2010 (M) - My wife of three years, and I, have been having a rocky marriage. We were trying to have a baby, but it wasn't working due to the stress and arguing. I have a dear friend of 10 years, whom I've never dated, that I know I am in love with. We'v...

Another guy is telling my girlfriend he loves her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - I'm in a very-LDR, and in recent months I've become really concerned with the amount of interest another guy has been showing my girlfriend. He's in the same country as me. He writes on her Facebook page that he loves her, and he sends her expens...

Threesome with my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - My Boyfriend of 1 year told me his fantasy would be to sleep with 2 girls at the same time. i would like to fulfill his fantasy, but at the same time, i dont want to watch him have sex with another girl. and i know i will probably get jealous if ...

How do I choose between two men?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - How do i choose between two men? I have strong feelings for both of them and one of them is my ex that i lived with. they both say they love me and i dont want to hurt nay of them. help!...

Should I be worried about my girlfriend and her male friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - Myself and my girlfriend are in our thirties and have been together happily for 3 years, living together for the last two. About a year ago she made a new male friend through a mutual friend. At first I didn't mind, but he lives in a differen...

Is she interested in me? is there really another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

24 August 2010 (M) - Hey there i have just started talking to a girl and she invited me out for lunch and we spent all day walking around the city together, afterwards i sent her a text saying i had a great time and she was great. She then replied to this text saying ...

I don't want to ruin my marriage!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5194 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - Hi cupid,iv been in a relationship 4 a year now,before i joined this relationship my ex boyfriend had left me for another woman,i then found this man very attractive too so i fell in love with him too and we then get married.five months down the ...

Seeing 2 guys and want to tell one of them I just want to be friends, how do I do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

24 August 2010 (F) - I'am in such a stuck situation please help. Ive been single now for a while and ive been seeing these two guys. They both really attracted to me both are really sweet and seem like the really know how to treat a girl. The problem is out of the two ...

Will this girl ever be able to end this unhealthy relationship for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

23 August 2010 (M) - A friend of mine who is in a possessive relationship with a guy for 5 years. There have been many break ups in her relationship but then she patched back. She tells me he controls her and she got slapped by him once in the past. She tells me she has ...

I have a girlfriend but miss the sex with my older woman...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

22 August 2010 (?) - I am a 32 year old male I have been with my partner for over 15 years, we have lived together for over 10 years and have 3 children. I had always considered our sex lives to be healthy until I met an older woman (11 years older) who is very sexual ...

I know he'll come back once the smoke clears but how do I handle it when he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

22 August 2010 (F) - recently i obtained information on my current lover that he kept hidden from me for quite some time. i placed an anonymous phone call to the woman he currently lived with that he has been cheating on me with probably for the entire time he h...

I love her, but she loves him...He's a jerk...and what is love anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

22 August 2010 (M) - Okay, so my best friend was dating this girl on and off for two years. Most of those two years were a killer on this girl, because his parents would not let him see her and they would sneak around and he would always get in trouble. Several times he ...

In an affair with a married woman, do I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

22 August 2010 (M) - Hi I am involved in a relationship with a married women and need advice. We have being having the affair for about two years. She's says that her does not love her anymore and they are only together for the sake of their child. She has already been ...

I'm getting married but cant stop thinking of this other guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

22 August 2010 (F) - I am around 30 years old and about to get maried to this guy I have been in a relationship for 5 years. The relation has not been very easy all the time but I can say it was very good lately although passion wasn't like beforem We had a great s...

She is still hanging on to her ex but wants a relationship with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

22 August 2010 (M) - I recently got back into the dating game. Met this girl, we saw each other for about 3 months or so. She had told me through conversation that she is still in touch with her ex bf who happens to live in a different part of the world. They dated for ...

Should I wait things out or remove myself from our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - I'm a woman in love with my male best friend. Which shouldn't be a bad thing. Because I know he loves me too. Our relationship was trite in college. He pusued me, I fell. He was still playing the field, so I moved on. We remained close friends for ...

My boyfriend is attracted to another girl!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend is attracted to another girl. Ever since I found out, it's been making me extremely unhappy. He said that he won't do anything about it, and that I'm obsessing over it. I've been asking him (probably once every day) if he still...

The new guy or the best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - I was married but already made up my mind I was going to leave him and move in with my best friend; witch is a Guy who lives in Texas, I'm in Kentucky. While I was saving up money to go out there I hooked up with a guy thinking it would just be ...

Boyfriend admits to crush on his best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - my boyfriend admitted to me he likes his best friend.... he admits to me he always has.. they hang out all the time, and he promises he won't do anything with her... and that he LOVES me and only likes her... i've had alot of relationships where ...

Fun experiment with my girlfriend and my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years, and I have a subject that I don't know how to approach. My best friend recently joked that he wouldn't mind "a hand" from my girlfriend. She passed it off with a laugh, but later that day she asked ...

Is there a chance or me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - She's in a relationship with her bf for 4 years. She admits her relationship is very rocky, her bf is very possessive, she's being emotionally hurt many times by him. Broke up many times with him but then patched back. She knows I really care for ...

In love with another man what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - i am inlove with to guy what should i do? i am 26y/o already engaged to my boyfriend,this guy i meet him through chatting and we are now 8 months and i love this guy,but 2 months ago my doctor told me that he felt inlove with me,and i didnt expected ...

Is having a crush on someone else, when you are already committed wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

18 August 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend whom I really love. We are quite settled. But lately we have been living at different places so kinda like a long term relationship. Though we are constantly on the phone with each other, texting, mailing and stuff. But the thin...

I love my boyfriend but I think my boss is interested in me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

18 August 2010 (F) - Hi there.. I have no idea why i'm asking but i'm a bit confused.. Ok, i'm 20 and i'm dating a guy thats 12 years older.. His away on business and will be away for another 4 weeks, and been away for 3 already.. The thing is, my boss a wonderful ...