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writes:Basically, I've known this boy for a while. I like him, he likes me, but the only problem is he has a girlfriend. We only started out as friends, but then I dunno, I started liking him more than a friend. I never told him this, because I was scared of what his reply would be. Me being me, I kept my mouth quiet. A couple of weeks later, he asked me really random questions. One was, would I ever go out with him, then some time later he asked, what was he to me? I answered a really close friend, then he confessed he'd kinda fallen for me. I told him, I felt the same.. but as I said, the only problem is his girlfriend. What do I do?I mean, I don't want them to break up or anything, because I wouldn't be happy, knowing the cause of their break up would be me.Any advice would be really appreciated.(By the way I'm 15, 16 in a couple of months)
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (29 August 2010):
 Marriedlady is right.
I wouldn't break up their relationship, but if they break up on their own, then take advantage of your chance.
They're liable to break up sooner or later; they're young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): For now just continue to be friends and nothing more. If at sometime he breaks it off with his now girlfriend, then feel free to pursue him...thats the honorable thing to do. mal
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (29 August 2010):
 Same as with other relationships. Does he still like his girlfriend? It wouldn't be fair to her if he doesn't feel the same way she does about him.
Don't feel guilty if/when they break up and he wants to be with you. It wasn't anyone's fault. You can't help feeling the way you do and neither can he.
I hope that helps.
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