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Archived questions from: July, 2009 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Should I send another text or just hold my breath?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - For background, my first question was in March. It's called "We've been through more than anyone can imagine..." Thank you! Hi guys, i want to thank you again for all your help and kindness. I wish i had a happier update on the situation but i ma...

Is there any way to make the ex-factor go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is still friends with his ex and I feel uncomfortable about it although I do trust that their relationship is platonic. They were schoolmates and 5 of them (4 guys including my bf plus her) were like really really good friends for a ...

Should I stay with my bf in this circle of revenge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. So I've been going out with my boyfriend for just a little over 10 months now. We have had two major problems throughout our relationship, otherwise everything has been great. In about the third month of our relationship he started to ...

My boyfriend is forcing me into something I don't believe in!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - I'm a bisexual female in an open relationship with a man. He is currently dating another woman and myself. We are all aware of each other and have even become friends, but not intimate at the same time. I went away to college, and the two decided ...

Do I have a good reason to be angry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I hace been talking to a guy for 2 weeks now and he has a gf. I didnt know that for a while but then when i found out i was furious. I know we arent together but he says hes comfortable in this relaionship and doesnt like the girl shes been pushing ...

I don't want to ruin anyone's life, so where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I am working away from home at the summer job and ended up falling head over heels for this guy i'm working with, he is also in the same boat as me, except he is newly engaged. It is so confusing because we both fell in love with each other, ...

I fell in love with my bestfriends girl, now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Me and this girl have been friends for a while and her boyfriend and I have been friends for even longer. I am talking many years and I would consider him my best friend. Anyway one day she starts to touch my arm so I start to do it back. This es...

He cheated, how do I regain the trust needed to get over the betrayal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - i neeeed soo much help... ive never asked for help but i need help... he recently cheated on me but realised he made the biggest mistake in his life and we have been tryna work things out ever since... the thing is i dont trust him and though i know ...

Which guy should I pick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I have been with this guy for more than 4 years now. He is my first love and my best friend. We had our share of problems but amidst all that we managed to survive. My mom loves him like he's her own son and his family and my family are really great ...

My girlfriend's neighbor...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - I have been in a long distance relation for a few years now. We are both looking into avenues that will finally put us in the same city. No luck so far. Anyway, my question is about a re-occuring issue we've had. Let me start by saying that my ...

My boyfriend is torn between two women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of almost 6 months is still in love with his ex girlfriend. He says he loves us both and wants us both. I told him he has to decide who he wants to be with. He said he wants to be with both of us and he won't settle for less. I told ...

My ex asked my best friend out! Was he trying to make me jelious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - please help on this one ok i had a bf then we ended it before school ended about a week after that he asked my best friend out and but it only lasted a week but he knew that i had feelings 4 him was he trying to make me jelious?...

I like her roommate more, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - i have a small problem that i need some advice on. i date this girl for years and we broke up a few months ago but during the break up i lost all my friends but two and they are dating, so i cant expect them to want to hang out with me all the time, ...

My BF called me his ex-wifes name

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a wonderful man for 20 months now and we have had a few problems with his former spouse as they have remained very close friends. However, in the last month he has called me by her name 2 times (not in bed) just while we were out ...

We want to have sex with another couple, is it fair to go ahead without the other husbands permission?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - i am 35 years old married person and my wife is 29 years beautiful and charming lady. actually we both like sex very much and we have sex almost daily. now we are feeling to change some the partner for sex not permanent just for change only. we both ...

Is my bf feeling guilty because he left his wife? Does he still love her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I am in avery loving relationship with a wonderful man. He has three young girls (ages 8and 11,8 year old twins),whom I get along with very well.The only problem is the ex wife (thier mother),ho is very controlling ,vicious and jealous.She blames ...

I still love her..but does she love me?

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29 July 2009 (M) - hi i am in a separation with my wife we have 2 kids ,one she had with another guy before me but i have been there since her birth. i love them and i still love her. we have broke up before and in a matter a days she has found someone to date. one of ...

He left his ex and started dating me, then he left me to go back to his ex, now he wants me back - should I take him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I am an avid reader of DearCupid, and for once, I actually have a question to pose. Ten months ago a person who was in my graduating class in High school contacted me. He had been a quiet boy that was the definition of an outsider. I have...

She didn't tell me she had a boyfriend until after I fell in love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - i am in love with this former classmate of mine.we met and exchanged numbers and got talking.she never told me she had a guy and i never asked and i also got the feeling that she was interested.when at last i told her of my feeling,she said she was ...

I introduced him to my best friend now she's trying to break us up and steal him away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - k well i have a long distance relationship with this guy thats not to to far from me. he is 2 years older then me, im 14 and he is 16, and i realy love him and he realy loves me, well atleast that whats he tells me. we talk everyday for hours on the ...

We had an affair, then became just good friends. But his wife found out, so now he has stopped contacting me, and I am left heartbroken...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Ive just been told its over by my best friend/ex lover. Me and this married guy had an affair about 2 years ago. It lasted for a year and then we stopped seeing each other like that. But we remained in touch. Gradually we built up a friendship, a ...

How can I prove that I won't do the things he did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - A girl that i met on a online dating site, who originally approached me online first likes me a lot and I MEAN A LOT, probably the most a girl has ever liked me, and i like her as a person and her looks. Ive seen hundreds of pics of her and she has ...

Why would he go through the trouble if he had a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - i met this guy abroad his name is john i met him last year now we had a laugh and watever went back to ireland and i got an email on bebo askin how i was a month later it was him i found out he had a gf were txting ages i need someone advice why wud ...

I care for him so much but he talks to Rachelle about sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - There is a boy a year older than me named "Nick", and he is Orthodox Christian like me, and he is godsiblings to my cousin "Cecily." When we were all younger, his father, a priest, had an affair and he was disrobed and he and his wife divorced. ...

He says he wants to be with his family but calls his mistress every chance he has!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - help me! i was with my ex husband for 37 years and during that marriage he had a mistress for 30 years . when he left me the last time i got the divore . he had left me 3 times before! i believed the words of god (only on to him) and look what ...

He has a girlfriend, so I'm trying to see him as just a friend...but I REALLY like him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - There is a guy I've recently met that I REALLY like. We are very similar, we get on so well together etc etc and the chemistry is amazing. The only problem is, he has a girlfriend. When I first met him, it was online and he was ambiguous about his ...

I think this guy might be trying it on with my girlfriend...or am I looking too deeply into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - i have a question for you...i had a thing happen aweek ago and it still bothers me.. my girl of 2 years has a friend who is terminally ill and isnt doing to hot these days.. well two days before my girl goes to visit this sick friend at home..her...

The new, the ex, or the bestie? Which one should I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - i don't know how to choose at all. i just recently met this guy and he's everything i want in a guy, positively. he's so sweet and he's just amazing. but i feel like it was too quick of a decision but i can't help but have feelings for him. And the ...

We had a messy break up but I want to rekindle him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up almost a year ago. We were nasty in the break up (he refused to return calls, I couldn't stop calling). It ended with a "don't ever call me again" and "don't call me until you're an adult" rant fest. We were both in the wrong, ...

Did she cheat on me? Emotionally? And with that kiss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - I am involved with a girl in a lond distance relationship and we've been together for the past 2 years. I was with her for the first year but I had to move abroad for work for a yaer on contract. I've been in touch with her onthe fone for literal...

Should I act on my attraction?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - My husband has a friend I am extremely attracted to physically. I think he feels the same about me. My marriage over 23 years is OK not spectacular. Should I act on my attraction? Not looking for an emotional relationship just physical. ...

It hasn't been the same, since we got into a fight!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - DearCupid, I need you all to shed some light on this situation. A few days ago my boyfriend and I got into a fight. He was talking on the phone, which I overheard the conversation, but he tried to lie about it. After that, we proceeded to fig...

I like my best friend's boyfriend, how do I change my feelings for him, don't want to lose their friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Okay.... Well the thing is i really like my best friend's boyfriend... simple? not really My friend Sara* and her boyfriend *Paul went out and broke up.... Paul and i became really close friends and he asked me for alot of help and advice. ...

Sadly, I am in love with a woman, who is not my wife, but who I do love, what should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - I am a 29 yr old guy with problems (obviously). I have been married to my wife for just shy of 1 year, though we have been together for over 7 years (met in college, first 2 yrs were not really serious yet). She is about a year younger than me. Five ...

He said he wanted to be alone but he slept with someone else a week later. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - My question is actually dealing with a break up...My ex broke up with me about a month ago because he needed to be alone to work on himself. We dated for 10 months and lived together for 8 months. I tried evrything to make it work and he just ...

He slept with 71 women, I've only been with 2 men - am I over reacting?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Ive just found out that my boyfriend of 5 month has slept with 71 women!! I went out with him the other nite and i heard a conversation mentioned bout the number 71 i asked him and he said i was number 72! I feel sick cos i got the impression that ...

He cheated, she's pregnant. Now what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend cheated on me back in april and now this chick is calling me telling me that she is pregnant with his baby. he dont want anything to do with her and she is only talking to me about the situation. what am i suppose to do about this? we ...

His ex can't get over him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - so my boyfriend broke up with his girlfriend and now we are together. she still calls him, emails him, shows up at his house. she even goes past boundaries and calls me! she still acts like they are together. she will go from acting like they are...

Should I break up with him? If so, where, when and how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I'm going out with a boy from the year above who really likes me and I kinda like him. He kept asking me out for months and has liked me for a year I think. The only problem is he gets jelous easily, but tries to hide it, coz I have lots of guy...

Things have gone from bad to worse with my abusive boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - hi! i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for three years now. at start, things were going so well but as time pass by it changes. he started hurting me,physically. and it really hurts me to know that he can do that to me. then, i m...

She likes multiple guys, including me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - ok ok theres a girl i really like. alot! she said that she likes me too, but im not the only guy she likes. today she broke up with her bf and everyone thought bc of me, but idk. she told her cousin that we were "talkin" but she isnt looking for ...

He left us for his internet woman. I need to move on, but cant!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - My husband of 15 years left me and our 2 sons for a woman he met on the internet. He walks around and acts like nothing is wrong, like this is the Reba show. I was totally devastated. When i do talk to him he just blames me for the way our ...

Is what he's begun to say to me an idication that he now sees me as a potential g/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Hi I have a male friend, who I am very close to. We talk every day, and I have been attracted to him for a very long time. Recently he has started making little slips in conversation, accidentally saying sexual things, or implying innuendo without...

I know I like him and I think he likes me, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Well, there's this boy who I really really like. He goes to my school, and ironically we never really talked in school, but then I went to summer camp and surprisingly he was there and we started talking and now we're really close. Anyway, he ...

Night attacks from my mind over boyfriends past!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Ok so this was a year ago now. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for seven months when we went to the same uni and i got involved with another man and broke it off with him. That dissolved quickly and by the new semester i was back with my ...

My girlfriend has feelings for her boss, but I wont accept three people in this relationship!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - I have been in a ten year relationship, a month ago my girlfriend told me she had developed strong feelings for her boss, he makes her have butterflies and all that stuff, she hasnt dared to tell him, but found out it was mutual, I told her to make ...

Am I heartless for even thinking about this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I'm engaged to a lovely girl. We've been together for over 5 years, but ever since we bought a house together she's become very distant. She still chooses to live with her mother rather than at our house, and openly admits that she doesn't know if ...

I'm developing confusing feelings for one of my girl friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I dont know what to do...when i say this out loud it makes me seem like a horrible awfull person wich i dont wanna be cos' i hate thinking like this and i want it to stop. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months and known him abit longer ...

I've got this great guy, but all I think about is my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - dear cupid i need your help. im nowhere near over my ex, "robert", and we were on and off for almost two years and inseperable bestfriends for two years before we decided to turn romantic. i love him with everything i have and i mean truly madly ...

We apparently act like a couple, but we've been broken up for 6 months!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Well this is a bit of a long story but if you like essays then here it goes! My ex-boyfriend and I were great together and everyone used to say how cute we were together, i thought everything was fine until one day..totally out of the blue he t...