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anonymous
writes:i don't know how to choose at all. i just recently met this guy and he's everything i want in a guy, positively. he's so sweet and he's just amazing. but i feel like it was too quick of a decision but i can't help but have feelings for him. And the only other problem is that he's 2 years older than me. but then my ex and his gf, i think they broke up. and he wants to date me again because i told him i had feelings for him because i did before i met the first guy. and i do miss him but more so when i see him. he is also 2 years older than me and my parents don't really like him and he doen't like them. then my best guy friend wants me so bad. he's pretty much fallen for me and sometimes i feel the same and sometimes i don't. i don't want to lead him on but thats all i do sometimes. i don't know..who should i choose? the first one who i can't get out of my head and is absolutely amazing, my ex or my best friend ? i'm kinda leading torwards the first one because its someone i can start completely fresh with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): Well, let us know who you end up with!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so so much it really means alot! the main thing is with what sy said...the first guy the new one, i get that way after a few hours and when we're not talking time flies by but it stops when we do. its crazy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): Mmm yes dear, certainly not wise to go for anyone right at this moment.. you're so foggy! Wait it out a little, tell them all you need time to think and have no contact with them. I'd say wait at least five to seven days and by the end of it, not talking with one of them will drive you crazier than not talking with the others!
~Sy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): you should wait get your head clear, that way you can decide who you truly like and not hurt anyone. With the first guy you don't want to rush into things and then realise they arnt working and regret it. With your ex you don't want to give him false hope as he is more vunerable to being hurt as you have dated him before. Your best friend I am sure you dont want to lose which could possibly happen if you make the wrong decision. So give it time and you will be able to tell who you truly like, and you never know it may not even be any of these guys.
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