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writes:I am working away from home at the summer job and ended up falling head over heels for this guy i'm working with, he is also in the same boat as me, except he is newly engaged. It is so confusing because we both fell in love with each other, without wanting for it to happen and he isn't sure what to do. He said his relationship at home has been slowly going down hill and that he's never fallen for anyone as hard as he fell for me and wants to keep me in his life. My problem is, we are in love, but I am so afraid of him ending his engagement and then us not working out in the end, i'm also afraid that I am ruining his fiancees life by us falling in love. Where do I go from here?
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (31 July 2009):
Deal with it if and when he leaves his fiance. I think that if he "loves you sooo much" that he will do what he feels is right. It's basically up to him. I wouldn't be anymore involved with him until the relationship is over. He invested in that relationship, and at one point in time he wanted to be with her the rest of his life. So obviously when things get hard or aren't perfect he finds someone else. You can't help who you fall in love with, but you can control where things go. But keep in mind, you lose them how you got them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): Go for it, you have to think abt who u love. if he wants u, he will end it with her, and if u both go for a relationship and it doesnt work out then so be it, u only live once.
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